Why Your Networking...Isn't Working | #163

  If networking feels awkward, forced, or like it never leads anywhere… you’re not imagining it. So many professionals send a few LinkedIn messages, hear silence back, and quietly decide that networking just “doesn’t work” for their industry, personality, or career level. Today, we'll break down why networking often fails before it even has the chance to work, and how small shifts in your mindset, messaging, and consistency can completely change the results you see. Because networking isn’t really about asking for a job. It’s about building genuine conversations that create momentum, relationships, and long-term opportunities. And the truth is, most people give up long before they’ve gathered enough data to know what’s actually working.   The question is: are you truly networking… or just testing the waters and hoping for immediate results? Let’s unpack how to make networking feel more natural, more relational, and far more effective in your job search.    You’ll learn: ✔ Why networking feels uncomfortable and how that hesitation affects your results ✔ The difference between transactional networking and relationship-building ✔ Why most professionals quit networking before they’ve put in enough reps ✔ How to send networking messages that actually spark conversations ✔ Practical LinkedIn networking strategies to create more opportunities naturally   ⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯ Cut 3 months off your job search in 90 minutes (start here) Create a clear brand & job search strategy that cuts 3 months off your search: https://theuncommoncareer.com/intensive     Learn our 5-step job search strategy: https://theuncommoncareer.com/process Connect with me on LinkedIn (let me know you're from the podcast): https://www.linkedin.com/in/pmortega/                 . . . . . . _____________________ Patricia Ortega is known for coaching clients to a strategic, emotionally intelligent approach to job searching that emphasizes clarity over activity, quality over quantity, and positioning over bragging. She helps mid-career professionals rise above crowded applicant pools and land aligned roles faster by combining three core areas: 1) Clear branding and messaging, 2) job search strategy, and 3) Identity, Confidence, and Emotional Intelligence Under Pressure. She operates from a Christian, biblical worldview. She believes excellence and integrity can coexist, and you don’t have to exaggerate or compromise who you are to compete at a high level. Learn more at https://theuncommoncareer.com.             .