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EPISODE · Aug 20, 2025 · 18 MIN

Why Your Trauma Doesn’t Define You (Even If It Feels Like It Does)

from The Happya Life with Clare Deacon

🪷If something in this spoke to you, I’d love to hear, message me.Have you ever felt like your trauma has become your whole identity? Like the pain, the grief, the chaos it’s all shaped who you are so deeply that you can’t remember who you were before it?In this deeply affirming episode, Clare Deacon, positive psychology coach, trauma-informed therapist, and founder of Happya, explores how trauma shapes, but does not define us. We dive into the misunderstood psychology of post-traumatic growth, why healing isn’t a straight line, and how you can begin to gently reclaim your identity, purpose, and future.You’ll learn:Why trauma isn't the event, but the impactHow identity becomes entangled with survivalWhat post-traumatic growth (PTG) really looks like (and why it matters)How to rewrite the story you tell yourself with compassion, truth, and choiceWhat to do when you're scared to change (or afraid you're not allowed to)This episode is your permission slip to grow. To evolve. To hope again without bypassing the pain. It’s a reminder that you’re not broken, you’re becoming. And you are allowed to step into the next version of you, powerful, present, and free.Let’s Stay Connected: Your Journey Deserves SupportEmail Clare Directly: [email protected] by LemonMusicStudio

🪷If something in this spoke to you, I’d love to hear, message me. Have you ever felt like your trauma has become your whole identity? Like the pain, the grief, the chaos it’s all shaped who you are so deeply that you can’t remember who you were before it? In this deeply affirming episode, Clare Deacon, positive psychology coach, trauma-informed therapist, and founder of Happya, explores how trauma shapes, but does not define us. We dive into the misunderstood psychology of post-traumatic grow...

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