Why You're Not Getting Laid

In this episode of the Todd V show, Todd addresses a listener's challenges with online dating and offers insights into improving dating success by creating tension and value. He emphasizes the importance of pre-date preparation, managing physical escalation, and understanding rejection beyond superficial reasons.Notes0:00 – Introduction0:51 – Introduction to Today’s Question1:22 – Sam’s Question Breakdown1:48 – Initial Analysis of Sam’s Issue2:22 – Possible Reasons for Dating Challenges3:26 – Game Skills and Online Dating4:23 – The Role of Value in Dating5:20 – Pre-Date Preparation and Its Importance5:53 – Handling the Date Itself6:41 – Improving Dating Interactions7:09 – Creating Tension in Interaction8:42 – Handling Physical Escalation10:16 – Key Concept: Tension and Value13:04 – Final Notes on Chemistry and Rejection14:04 – Additional Context for Sam’s Situation17:01 – Understanding Rejections and Rationalizations18:28 – Common Issues and Final Advice20:25 – Closing Thoughts21:18 – Outro and Call for QuestionsJoin me on a Bootcamp:https://toddvdating.com/coaching/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to [email protected] questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, and Valentine Lifestyle Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDatingFollow Todd on TikTok @ToddVDating