EPISODE · Jan 28, 2026 · 42 MIN
wintering and dating
from Low Stakes · host Mallory Malek
This episode moves through a quieter kind of honesty. I talk about wintering, the internal seasons we don’t choose but still have to live inside, and what it means to stay present when life feels unresolved. I reflect on grief, healing, faith, and the slow work of becoming more truthful with myself rather than rushing toward a version of “better.”Toward the end, I shift into something more concrete: the non-negotiables I hold now when it comes to dating and partnership. What I’m no longer willing to abandon, soften, or explain away. Not as a checklist, but as a form of self-respect. This isn’t about hardness or walls, but about clarity. About knowing what kind of love I’m available for, and what I’m not.This episode isn’t tidy. It’s reflective, firm in places, tender in others. A snapshot of being in the middle and choosing to speak from there.
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This episode moves through a quieter kind of honesty. I talk about wintering, the internal seasons we don’t choose but still have to live inside, and what it means to stay present when life feels unresolved. I reflect on grief, healing, faith, and the slow work of becoming more truthful with myself rather than rushing toward a version of “better.”Toward the end, I shift into something more concrete: the non-negotiables I hold now when it comes to dating and partnership. What I’m no longer willing to abandon, soften, or explain away. Not as a checklist, but as a form of self-respect. This isn’t about hardness or walls, but about clarity. About knowing what kind of love I’m available for, and what I’m not.This episode isn’t tidy. It’s reflective, firm in places, tender in others. A snapshot of being in the middle and choosing to speak from there.
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