Women Want Empowered Men - So How do You Get There?

How can a man become more empowered? Many people confuse having power with being an empowered human being, and yet the two often don't occur at the same time. Women are turned on by empowered men, it's one of the top 5 traits women want to find in a man, but so often we walk around feeling dis-empowered because we focus so strongly on the things we don't have any control over.