Do You Need a Prenup? This Attorney Says Yes

Prenuptial agreements get a bad rap — but they shouldn’t.In this week’s episode, I sit down with California family law attorney and “Prenup Queen” Deveney Wells-Gibson to break down what prenups actually are, why they matter, and why women should be having these conversations long before saying “I do.”Deveney has seen the same story play out over and over in divorce court — women blindsided by finances they didn’t know existed, outdated state laws that don’t reflect modern relationships, and the emotional and financial fallout that could have been avoided with one conversation.This episode reframes prenups as a foundation-builder, not a divorce plan, and lays out how women can protect their assets, understand their state’s marital laws, approach money conversations without shame, and decide whether they’re truly aligned with a partner’s financial values.We talk about:Why prenups actually benefit the relationship instead of threatening itHow outdated community property laws leave many women vulnerableWhat women should ask before getting married at any ageWhy financial transparency matters more than romantic optimismThe mindset blocks that keep couples from talking about moneyReal courtroom stories that show exactly what’s at stakeHow Deveney’s Love Meets Wealth framework helps couples build shared goalsWhy measuring your financial progress as a couple mattersIf you’re dating, considering marriage or remarriage, or already engaged, this is the conversation you need before you walk down the aisle.Connect with Deveney:Instagram: @theprenupqueenCourse: LOVE MEETS WEALTHIf you loved this episode, please rate the show 5 stars on Apple Podcasts — it helps more women find these conversations.New episodes every Thursday.💌 Business inquiries: [email protected]