Would you 'put a ring' on your finger?

Imagine meeting your mirror image - what traits would make you say 'I do'? It’s a well-known fact that divorce rates are going through the roof. From any angle, continent, race, or material standpoint, no region (or area) of our world is spared the pain and sorrow of a high divorce rate. The #BIG question no one seems to think there’s an answer to is, how can we stop this negative trend? What if the solution were as simple as making more effort to know ourselves? When engaging in the 'mundane but essential' act of finding a life partner, most of us begin by making a list…a very long list…of the traits or features we would like that partner to possess. Although we are the ones wanting the partner, we rarely begin by asking what we have to offer - something (or somethings) that would make the potential spouse insist, ‘Where thou goest, there goeth I!’ Yes, we often look outward rather than inward for the features that would cause us to say ‘I do.’ One of the statements I frequently make on my podcast (#fromfearfultofiercepodcast) is that self-knowing is the primary factor in achieving success. We all want to become, make an impact, and feel that we made a difference at the end of our lives on earth. But how can you make an impact, or any difference (in any form or shape), if you don’t even know the self wanting to do those things? So my question, again, is - if you met your mirror image, and they wanted you as their life partner, what attributes does that mirror image possess that would cause you to say “I do”?   #love #relationships #selflove #empathy #kindness #understanding #MirrorIntelligence #CuriousMatch #MirrorMatch #SoulmateSearch #PositiveThinking #SoulmateCriteria #ImaginaryFriends #PositiveThinking