Writing a List of Anti-Goals Made Me Quit My Job

Hairy chests are back. Hurrah! That’s it. Moving on…  Mother’s Day is this Sunday and the 'active duty' debate is officially ruining the vibe. Why has a day for mums turned into a high-stakes content pillar and also please enjoy the very frank text Clare Stephens sent her partner about presents.  VOTE FOR US: Help Out Loud win the People’s Choice category of the Australian Audio Awards.  Find the link to vote right here   Plus, we talk about the big things we’ve said NO to in our lives and find out that actually, Emily Vernem could have been a reality TV star by now.  And, Holly did something in the office bathroom she fears was a breach of etiquette.  REMEMBER - If you become a SUBSCRIBER, you get two extra Out Loud eps a week, as well as access to every podcast and story ever made by Mamamia.  Recommendations Em recommends BondiBoost miracle mist. Clare recommends the new Serial podcast, The Idiot. Holly recommends Famesick by Lena Dunham.  What To Listen To Next:  Listen to Unleashed: 'I Turned Down Anna Wintour And I'd Do It Again' Listen to our latest episode: Scurrilous Gossip: A Facelift Slippage & ‘Wildly Unhappy’ Royals Listen: The Red Carpet Moment That Answers The Blake Lively Question Listen: Fake Nips & Wandering Hands: Mia’s Met Gala Verdict Listen: We Do Not Agree On The Taxi Cab Theory Listen: She Opened The Fridge. What She Found Ended Her Friendship. Listen: The Real Reason You Resent Your Friends Listen: The One Minute Of Live TV That Undid A Noughties Icon Listen: Scurrilous Gossip: An Engagement, An Affair & A Royal F-You Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts  Discover more Mamamia Podcasts here including the very latest episode of Parenting Out Loud, the parenting podcast for people who don't listen to... parenting podcasts. SUBSCRIBE here: Support independent women's media  You can now watch our show in full length video on the Apple Podcast app - make sure your phone is up to date and we can't wait for you to see Mamamia Out Loud on Apple What to read:  Thank god Hollywood has started hiring hot men off the street again. 'I'm a fashion writer. Here are 8 things I'd easily buy my picky mum for Mother's Day.' 'What Zoë Foster Blake taught me about how to say no, and why it matters.' Modern Etiquette: The 23 workplace rules you’re definitely breaking. THE END BITS:  Check out our merch at MamamiaOutLoud.com GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at [email protected] Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message. Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud and on Tiktok @mamamiaoutloud CREDITS: Hosts: Holly Wainwright, Clare Stephens & Emily Vernem Group Executive Producer: Ruth Devine Executive Producer: Sasha Tannock Video Producer: Josh Green Junior Content Producer: Tessa Kotowicz Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land on which we have recorded this podcast.  Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.