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EPISODE · May 7, 2026 · 51 MIN

Writing for Approval Is Killing Your Creativity with Rachel May

from No Mess, No Magic · host Monica Hay

We get SPICY in this one!About Rachel:Rachel May is a published author and powerhouse coach who brings a refreshingly down-to-earth approach to writing craft, mindset, and process. As a writer with ADHD, Rachel is intimately familiar with the frustrations that traditional writing “rules” can bring—especially for writers who feel like they just don’t fit the mold. Rachel’s sessions go beyond typical craft lectures; they’re about healing writing roadblocks, creating a process you’ll actually want to stick with, and building momentum toward the book you’ve always dreamed of finishing.To check out Rachel's work, click here: https://goldenmayediting.com/The conversation delves into the challenges of being a high achiever and the impact of achievement on creativity. It also explores the journey of overcoming the need for external validation and approval, focusing on self-love and self-acceptance. We talk self-love and creativity, exploring the impact of perfectionism, and the fear of failure. We also examine the influence of capitalism on creativity and the societal pressure to achieve success.Find Monica's website here: https://monicahay.com/Find Monica's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicahayauthor/Want good shit in your inbox? Subscribe to Monica's newsletter: https://www.monicahaycoaching.com/newsletterWant to explore working with Monica? Book a curiosity call here: https://calendly.com/monicahay/discovery-callTakeawaysHigh achiever challengesSelf-validation and approval Self-love and creativityPerfectionism and fear of failureChapters00:00 Overcoming the Need for Validation25:40 Embracing Self-Love and Creativity36:31 Impact of Capitalism on Creativity

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