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乡愿，德之贼也：讨好型人格的尽头是被遗忘｜孔子·论语阳货
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"子曰：乡愿，德之贼也。"——《论语·阳货》。孔子两千年前就骂过讨好型人格。乡愿，就是那种对所有人好、不得罪任何人、没有立场、没有"不"的人。讨好型人格的尽头，不是被爱，是被遗忘——因为别人记住一个人，记得是哪里硬，不是哪里软。这一集讲清楚：你那个开了二十年的雷达，今晚可以关一次试试。公众号：雷音-认知考古标签：于雷认知考古认知觉醒孔子论语乡愿讨好型人格老好人边界感中年危机
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