心机：有什么鉴别一个人是否有够心机？

Are there ways to tell if someone ismanipulative right away?CraigWeiler, I have experience with other human beingsWrittenOct 17Yes. It doesn’t take long. Thekey is to pay attention to howmuch they pay attention to you. Manipulativepeople all have one thing in common: low empathy.If I suspect someone of beingmanipulative/narcissitic/overly self centered (they’re all the same thing) Ihave this simple test:I deliberately turn theconversation to myself and talk about myself, then I closely monitor how longI’m allowed to do this and whether the other person is paying attention. Thefaster I get shut down, the more manipulative the other person is. if theydon’t let you go 15 seconds talking about yourself, you have a problem.This is a kind of screening process on both sides. If you alwayslet a manipulative person talk about themselves and their needs they willeventually start taking advantage of you.