选择：有什么事情一定要自己做，而不是让别人为你做的

What are some things you should always do for yourself, and never let other people do for you?Aiyswarya Sarathy, Environmental EngineerAnswered Apr 17Here are some of my random best which I firmly believe in.Choosing the person you want to marry.Your major life decisions. That way you can live with them.Putting away your plate.Doing your own laundry.Pay your bill. Don't pile on another person to pay for you at the restaurant, when they didn't offer to.Believing in yourself.Watching your drink.Apologizing. Don't send someone to do it on your behalf. It's not sincere.Expressing your feelings. Remember the telephone game? The message never remains the same by the time it reaches the main.Making your own happiness. You can choose to be happy.If you throw up, you clean it. Don't pass out and pretend it didn't happen.Making your own bed.Paying your debts.Your rent and groceries. If someone helps you out, pay them back ASAP.Looking for jobs.Writing your own answer, and not piling on mine and starting a new one in the comments section.