You Can Have a Conscious, Sexy Threesome By Embracing the Awkward - ft. Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com

You Can Have a Conscious, Sexy Threesome By Embracing the Awkward - ft. Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com   Monica hosts sex educator Reid Mihalko in a tree house outside Portland, Oregon, to discuss how to make threesomes conscious, less awkward, and more fun. Reid shares key principles from his "Negotiating Successful Threesomes" class, including defining what "success" means, deciding whether to play with people you know or strangers, and seeking partners who have already had successful threesomes. They emphasize expanding what counts as sex, going slow, and reducing pressure by "putting more crayons in the crayon box." Reid explains safer-sex communication, testing, and harm-reduction strategies, and offers his Embrace the Awkward Formula for starting when things get quiet. They also cover check-ins/timeouts, handling jealousy or feeling left out, not forcing sex, and damage control when a threesome goes sideways, plus where to find Reid's resources and calendar.   Links:   The Embrace The Awkward Formula - https://ReidAboutSex.com/awkward   The Safer Sex Elevator Speech — https://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator   Reid's Online Store for Negotiating Successful Threesomes + MORE sex geeky classes! - https://ReidAboutSex.com/kajabi-store   Reid's calendar — https://ReidAboutSex.com/calendar   00:00 Welcome and Guests 02:10 Why Threesomes Feel Awkward 04:41 Defining Threesome Success 06:34 Known vs Strangers 07:29 Find Experienced Partners 08:06 Poly vs Swinging Needs 13:07 Expand What Counts 15:50 Safer Sex Talk 17:23 Starting the Action 18:05 Embrace the Awkward 18:56 Trigger Phrase Setup 19:19 Make a Clear Ask 20:40 Melt List Ideas 22:09 Help Them Start 23:21 Speed Orgy Story 24:39 Check Ins and Timeouts 26:42 Pivot When Off 28:53 Feeling Left Out 30:17 Jealousy and Performance 31:45 Mediocre Is Fine 32:56 Damage Control Steps 35:45 Wrap Up and Projects