EPISODE · Jun 22, 2026 · 20 MIN
You Can't Change a Feeling You Can't Name
from Calm Your Caveman · host Dr. Adriana Jarvis Twitchell
Have you ever known that you felt bad, but couldn't explain exactly what you were feeling? This difficulty identifying and describing emotions is known as alexithymia, and research has linked it to higher levels of anxiety, depression, and stress.In this episode, you'll learn why avoiding emotions keeps them vague and overwhelming, how self-criticism blocks emotional awareness, and a practical technique for uncovering what you're really feeling.We'll explore:Why emotions can be difficult to identifHow self-judgment blocks emotional awarenessA stream-of-consciousness technique for understanding emotionsWhy naming emotions often reduces their intensityHow emotional awareness connects to emotion regulation⏱️ Timestamps0:52 — The Skill That Can Reduce Anxiety and Stress3:25 — Why You Don't Know What You're Feeling6:23 — Go from Avoiding to Approaching8:47 — The Nonjudgmental Listener Technique12:37 — How Emotional Awareness Hurts But Helps17:20 — The First Step Toward Emotional FreedomFor full shownotes, including resources mentioned, go to: https://www.calmyourcaveman.com/episodes/you-cant-change-a-feeling-you-cant-nameSend us Fan Mail🌐 https://www.calmyourcaveman.com
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Have you ever known that you felt bad, but couldn't explain exactly what you were feeling? This difficulty identifying and describing emotions is known as alexithymia, and research has linked it to higher levels of anxiety, depression, and stress. In this episode, you'll learn why avoiding emotions keeps them vague and overwhelming, how self-criticism blocks emotional awareness, and a practical technique for uncovering what you're really feeling. We'll explore: Why emotions can be difficult...
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