You Can’t Fulfill Someone Else’s Calling w/ Gabby & Antonio Reyes

Pastor Chrissy Cole sits down with Gabby and Antonio Reyes for an honest conversation about calling, marriage, leadership, and the freedom that comes when you stop trying to fulfill someone else’s expectations. Together they share how burnout, misplaced pressure, and unhealthy roles created tension, and how boundaries, humility, and deeper self awareness helped them walk in calling with more peace and unity. This episode is a powerful reminder that you cannot fulfill someone else’s calling, only the one God uniquely designed for you.— — — — — — — — — —If this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend and leave a review — it helps more women find Project Sisterhood 💛🎧 Listen to Project Sisterhood:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/12Mzxkt8WDImuZJpu90b7N?si=a5208fcedd2c44f7Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/project-sisterhood/id1446342345📲 Follow Project Sisterhood on Instagram:Instagram: @projectsisterhood⛪️ Project Church:Website: https://projectchurch.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/projectchurchsac— — — — — — — — — —Click here to view the episode transcript. (00:00) - Boundaries That Protect Calling (00:28) - Welcome to Project Sisterhood (01:54) - Why We’re Talking About Calling (02:28) - How Antonio and Gabby Got to Project Church (06:47) - Calling Transcends Location (07:33) - Did Gabby Feel Called Too (10:02) - The Challenges of Walking Out Calling Together (11:03) - When Wrong Expectations Break You (12:30) - The Wake Up Call in Their Marriage (14:18) - Are You Carrying Someone Else’s Expectations (15:25) - Reconnecting Through Identity and Boundaries (17:59) - Creating Space for Her to Flourish (19:04) - When Helping Becomes Unhealthy (21:20) - Calling, Roles, and Healthy Unity (23:30) - When Calling Costs You Comfort (25:11) - Living With Open Hands (26:12) - Growing Your Capacity for Calling (28:34) - Relearning Prayer in This Season (29:23) - Calling Requires Desperation (31:23) - It’s Okay Not to Know What You’re Doing (33:27) - Don’t Get Obsessed With the How