you can’t self-optimize yourself into finding love – ep. 134

from Emotionally Online · host Maddie Dragsbaek

in this week’s episode, we’re talking about self-optimization and the impact of luck in finding love! MAJOR… THEY DON’T WANT YOU TO KNOW THIS!!! and we’re also chatting about surveillance culture and the impact of find my friends on the whimsy of surprises and dealing with regret around a friendship ending. 🪩 join the lover girls on patreon! https://www.patreon.com/MaddieDragsbaek💌 spill your guts here: https://forms.gle/BaWbCxbMqMYnsdmC6For advertising inquiries: [email protected] book me on your podcast, radio show, or tv show: [email protected]✨ lover girls worldwide playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0h3lm0pPS5vUvxD2VSLzsl?si=bdffa27e60914dae✨ yearning girls worldwide playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0U3qS7yVWEq3xMdW4kiYC7?si=15693df2e67b4ffb&pt=3d3a15ae35626354b5eaad3937459fcb✨ heartbroken girls worldwide playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0WUNeWDjNYqBaZhm7eGlsZ?si=8784b090e20c4f79❤️ podcast instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emotionallyonlinepod/🧡 maddie's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddiedragsbaek/💛 community events ig: https://www.instagram.com/lovergirlshq💚 main channel: https://www.youtube.com/maddiedragsbaek💙 tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddiedragsbaekIf you liked this podcast, leave a review! ratethispodcast.com/emotionallyonline*This podcast is for entertainment purposes only. Views expressed on this podcast solely reflect those of the host and do not reflect the views of Pionaire.TIME STAMPS:00:00 – join my snail mail club!04:19 – grief check-in and crying at boa steakhouse14:20 – surveillance culture, find my friends, and the art of the surprise25:00 – dealing with longing/regret around a friendship ending35:07 – self-optimization and the impact of luck in finding love45:28 – dating in nature vs. dating in a city 🪩 join the lover girls on patreon! https://www.patreon.com/MaddieDragsbaek💌 EMOTIONALLY ONLINE SUBMISSION BOX: https://forms.gle/BaWbCxbMqMYnsdmC6 📲 CALL INTO THE PUMPCAST! LEAVE US A VOICEMAIL! (201)-875-3567 for business inquiries: [email protected] podcast socials: ✨ watch on youtube! https://www.youtube.com/emotionallyonlinepodcast✨ emotionally online instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emotionallyonlinepod/ ✨ emotionally online tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@emotionallyonlinepod ✨ pumpcast instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pumpcastrules/✨ pumpcast tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pumpcastrules maddie's links: ✨ youtube: https://www.youtube.com/maddiedragsbaek ✨ instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddiedragsbaek/ ✨ tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddiedragsbaek meg's links: ✨ instagram: https://www.instagram.com/megruocco ✨ tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@megruocco ✨ substack: https://whatareyouupto.substack.com/

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