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EPISODE · Oct 8, 2025 · 16 MIN

You Deserve More Than “It’s Fine”

from Her On Top

Many women have been taught to settle for “fine.”Fine relationships. Fine sex. Fine intimacy.But what if fine is actually a form of self-abandonment?In today’s episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I explore one of the most common barriers to healing our relationship with sex and intimacy — the belief that pleasure isn’t important, or that life can go on just fine without it.You’ll be invited to question what “fine” has cost you, and to imagine what might open if you gave yourself permission to want more — not more to do, but more to feel.This is about coming home to your body’s natural aliveness, desire, and connection to the sacred — not as a luxury, but as your birthright.In this episode, I share:Why so many women dismiss pleasure as “not a priority”The difference between being asexual and feeling disconnected from desireHow reclaiming your erotic energy transforms every part of your lifeThe sacred invitation to explore what you would love — without shameWhy healing your relationship with pleasure creates ripples across generationsWhat’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching ContainerThere are two ways to work with me during open cart week:🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,9998 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamationPersonalized practices and between-session support toolsPayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999Everything in the Core Package plus:Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidancePayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special✨ Early Bird Discount:If one of the two early bird spots is still available, you’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.✨ Included for All Participants:Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformationOptional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life15% off add-ons, including:The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan OptionIf you’re craving personalized support before saying yes, I’m also offering free 45-minute consultations this week — Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday only — so you can feel into whether this container is right for you.🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)Learn More About the Offers:❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your LifeJoin My Newsletter:Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

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