You Don’t Always Get What You Want…You Get What You Are

n this episode, host Matthew Benko reconnects with Ashon Calhoun, who has achieved academic and professional success all while actively serving in the Army National Guard. From starting at community college to now pursuing his graduate degree at Villanova University, Ashon’s journey highlights the power of balance, resilience, and purpose.Recently honored with the NCTA Changemaker Award, Ashon reflects on how military service shaped his skills, how his transition into public affairs reignited his passion for storytelling, and why action matters more than waiting for perfect conditions. His story emphasizes growth, mentorship, and the courage to show up for opportunities—even when the path forward isn’t clear.With positivity and authenticity, Ashon reminds us that “you don’t always get what you want—you get what you are." and is proof that it’s possible to serve your country, pursue higher education, and still chase your passions with focus and purpose.