You don't care... which proves you care!

Garth Heckman The David Alliance [email protected]    Its not how you see yourself… Its not how others see you, its how you THINK others see you that changes your behavior.   IMAGE The bulldog’s nose is slanted backwards so that when it is in a fight it can bite down, hold on and still breathe.   IMAGE TL Osborn- was told one week how much he was like Jesus in every way.  the next week he was told how much he reminded someone of the devil... you cannot let your image hinge on others opinions.   Most men don’t live based on truth. They live based on a guess. Not: Who they are Not even who others actually think they are But: Who they think others believe they are. And that invisible belief… is quietly controlling everything: Your confidence Your leadership Your obedience to God   IMAGINATION Worry is a misuse of creativity and imagination. Yet adults use it 99% only for worry.     That statement is deceptively simple—but it’s actually pointing at one of the most powerful drivers of human behavior: perceived social judgment.   Let’s break it down clearly and then get to the power behind it. 1. What it means “It’s not how you see yourself”   Your internal self-image matters—but it’s not always what drives your moment-to-moment behavior.   “It’s not how others see you”   Reality doesn’t control you as much as you think. People may not even be judging you at all.   “It’s how you THINK others see you”   This is the key:  Your perception of their perception becomes your operating reality.   This is known in psychology as the “looking-glass self” (from sociology) and ties closely to social anxiety, identity formation, and behavior conditioning. Change the perception → change the behavior → change the outcome → change your life. How do I change my perception? Read gods word, pray, be with like minded Godly people.