You Don't Have to Be Perfect (Being Human Is Enough)

You don't have to be perfect. And right now, that's the most radical form of self-love.In this episode, Kayla explores deep self-love — not the bath-and-nails kind, but the kind that means loving the parts of yourself you're ashamed of, the shadow parts, the human parts that judge and mess up.We're in a climax moment. Pressure is building. The collective is awakening. Things are crumbling — both globally and in our personal lives. And the spiritual bypass of "stay high-vibe, think positive thoughts, don't doomscroll" isn't sustainable when you're barely surviving.Kayla talks about the goddess of love archetype in her priestess training, and what it means to turn that love inward. She's honest: she's worked on perfectionism around doing, but not around being. She thought she had to be perfect internally — always holding the torch of light, never getting triggered, never falling apart.But we're human. We need to feel all the feelings. We need community. We need to cry and rest and numb out sometimes. We need to stop doing, doing, doing and allow ourselves to be.The real work: going inward, getting quiet, and making the scary decisions to love yourself first. Saying no to what doesn't serve you. Letting go of the riverbank and flowing with the current of change instead of fighting it.She also announces: The Wild Feminine Fair (August 9, Gig Harbor WA) — where she'll soft-launch Walk as Love Temple + hold an in-person Holy Rage Circle. And she's taking time off the podcast to prepare.In this episode:Self-love beyond self-careLoving the shadow, the imperfect partsPerfectionism internally vs externallyWe're in a pressure/climax moment (July-August astrology)The Sedna prophecy: letting go and flowing with changeSpiritual bypass vs. being humanBalance as regulation, not perfectionGoing inward to make aligned decisionsThe collective is awakening (it's not about a savior)Wild Feminine Fair (August 9, Gig Harbor) — Holy Rage Circle + Walk as Love Temple soft launchWild Feminine Faire | Gig Harbor, WA (Crescent Creek Park) | August 9th, 2026 11am-4pm Free to Attend Wild Feminine FaireGuest Podcast EpisodesSip with Summers - Pleasure is Your Birthright: Reclaiming Desire, Safety, and Feminine Power with Kayla MooreThe Pleasure Principles with Dr. Jordin Wiggins - What the Clinical Model Gets Wrong About Women's Desire and PleasureIf you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join my Newsletter Community + Get My FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image and Embracing PleasureSupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book 45 minute FREE consultation