You Don’t Miss Them — You Miss the Idea of Them

That ex you can’t stop thinking about?You probably don’t actually miss them.You miss the version of them you hoped they would become.In this episode of The Road Leads Back to Me, Coral breaks down the psychology behind heartbreak, nostalgia, grief, and why breakups can feel so emotionally consuming—even when the relationship wasn’t actually healthy.Through a trauma-informed lens and loving big sister advice, Coral explores how we often mourn not only the person, but the future, fantasy, and version of ourselves we imagined inside the relationship.This episode covers:• Why heartbreak feels so emotionally overwhelming• The difference between missing someone vs. missing the idea of them• The psychology behind nostalgia bias and euphoric recall• Why your brain romanticizes the “good moments” after a breakup• The stages of grief in relationships• Why we ignore red flags and cling to potential• How to reconnect with yourself after heartbreak• The importance of values, boundaries, and self-worth in healingCoral also reminds listeners that healing isn’t about pretending the relationship meant nothing.It’s about accepting reality, grieving honestly, and finding your way back to yourself.Because the road always leads back to you.✨ New episodes every Wednesday.