You Don’t Miss Them. You Miss Who You Were Allowed to Be

You don’t miss them.You miss who you got to be when you were with them.In this episode, I break down something most people never stop to question, why you feel pulled back to a relationship you already know isn’t right for you.Because it doesn’t always mean you want them back.It means something inside of you felt alive in that dynamic.A version of you existed there.And when the relationship ends, it can feel like you lost access to that version of yourself.That’s the part that keeps you circling.That’s the part that makes you question your decision.That’s the part that feels like “missing them.”But it’s not about them.This episode will help you separate the person from the identity you were stepping into, so you can stop going back for a feeling and start accessing that version of yourself without the relationship attached to it.If you’ve ever:• questioned a decision you already made• felt pulled back even when you know it wasn’t aligned• missed how you felt more than who they actually werethis will land.This is the shift from attachment to self-leadership.Start with the Split Self Scorecard to see where you’re operating from:Split Self ScorecardIf this resonated, follow the show and leave a review so more women can find this work.