EPISODE · Mar 18, 2026 · 53 MIN
You Don’t Want to Die — You Want the Pain to Stop
from Those Left Behind - Reality After Someone You Love Takes Their Own Life · host Gayle Miller
Most people who think about ending their life don’t actually want to die — they just want the pain to stop. In this powerful conversation, therapist, author, speaker, podcaster, and intuitive medium, Susan Grau, shares the truth about grief, trauma, and the pain that gets left behind. Susan Grau has lost five people to suicide, and she has personally battled thoughts of ending her life for many years. Susan shares what grief and trauma really do to the mind and body, why people reach a place where the pain feels overwhelming, and a powerful truth many families learn too late: the pain doesn’t disappear — it transfers to the people who love you. She also offers compassionate tools that helped her survive her darkest moments, including the grounding practice: “Stay where your feet are.” Connect with Susan at https://susangrau.com/ https://myinfinite.app/ https://infinitesoulbenefits.com/ https://www.instagram.com/SusanGrauofficial/ If you are in immediate danger or need crisis support, please call 988 or your local emergency number. End of episode song: Angels By My Side by Lunar Years, licensed on Bensound Certificate # 2245544 Connect with us on Instagram @thoseleftbehindpodcast
What this episode covers
Most people who think about ending their life don’t actually want to die — they just want the pain to stop. In this powerful conversation, therapist, author, speaker, podcaster, and intuitive medium, Susan Grau, shares the truth about grief, trauma, and the pain that gets left behind. Susan Grau has lost five people to suicide, and she has personally battled thoughts of ending her life for many years.
NOW PLAYING
You Don’t Want to Die — You Want the Pain to Stop
No transcript for this episode yet
Similar Episodes
Mar 26, 2026 ·1m
Mar 19, 2026 ·34m
Feb 18, 2026 ·11m
Feb 11, 2026 ·45m