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EPISODE · May 20, 2026 · 37 MIN

You Escaped One Narcissist… And Walked Straight Into Another

from Restoring Resilience with Chelsey Brooke Cole

If you've ever escaped a narcissistic relationship only to find yourself in another one, this episode is for you. Not the "here are the red flags to watch for" version you've heard before — the real conversation. The one that goes all the way back to the emotional needs that didn't get met when you were young, and explains how those needs have been quietly choosing your partners ever since. I'm joined by Bree Bonchay, psychotherapist and founder of World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day, to get into why awareness alone doesn't break the cycle, what narcissistic individuals are actually picking up on from the very beginning, and what it actually takes to stop attracting the same relationship in a different person. If you're tired of starting over and ready to understand the pattern at the root, this episode is for you. ABOUT BREE Bree Bonchay is a licensed psychotherapist, coach, and leading voice in narcissistic abuse and toxic relationship patterns. She helps self-aware individuals who "know better" finally understand why they still choose the wrong partners, and how to break that cycle at the root. Bree is the founder of World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day and author of the upcoming book It's Not You, It's the Advice. ABOUT CHELSEY Chelsey Brooke Cole is a licensed psychotherapist, bestselling author, and narcissistic abuse survivor turned specialist. She's the host of the Restoring Resilience podcast and creator of the Rewired for Resilience healing program, helping survivors all over the world reclaim their self-worth and learn to trust themselves after narcissistic abuse. Resources & Next Steps If this episode resonated with you, here are a few ways to go deeper: ✨ Free Masterclass: The Narcissist's Playbook Understand the exact patterns narcissists use—and why it's so hard to see clearly when you're in it 👉  https://www.chelseybrookecole.com/the-narcissists-playbook/ ✨ Rewired for Resilience (Healing Program) Go beyond awareness and start rebuilding self-trust, emotional safety, and clarity from the inside out 👉 https://www.chelseybrookecole.com/rewired-for-resilience/ 📖 Read the First Chapter of My Book (Free) 👉  https://www.chelseybrookecole.com/firstchapterfree/ 🌐 Website 👉  https://www.chelseybrookecole.com/

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