You get what you accept, how to recognize non-commitment in a Business and Life Partnership with Sarita Johan

Episode 38 You get what you accept, how to recognize non-commitment in a Business and Life Partnership In episode 37 we explored what commitment is and now lets dive into the first of 3 ideas of how to make this as strong as possible in your partnership. “Unless Commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes … but no plans.” – Peter Drucker As I mentioned in the last episode the reason why people are unwilling to commit can have different ways on how this plays out, at the core of it it is often caused by people liking the idea of it but then when they have to follow through things like fear of failure or in my view often the fear of success can pop up its ugly head. You see these are things you don’t often get taught in Business School, self-management and discipline are fundamental pieces to this complex puzzle. As you would have experienced to change something you more than likely need to give something up. So, people, often unconsciously choose the easier path. Did you answer the guess what in the previous episode? The guess what is, that as long as you spend time with me here or when I coach you this is not an option. Is it easy hell no, is it possible hell yes! Idea no 1. · How do you recognize non-commitment (language)? In this episode I want to address this beautiful thing called language. Language is such an interesting and powerful communication and observation tool providing you know what to look out for. In my coaching discovery sessions this is the first thing I listen out for. What words are people using and in what context. Examples of non-committal language are try, should, couldn’t, mustn't’. Do not accept just because. Commitment builds trust, commitment turns ideas into reality. So why is it so hard? It requires discipline. Every time we break a commitment with ourselves and others, it affects everything over time including trust. In the next episode Episode 39 Breaking the cycle of non-commitment by how you make decisions in your Business and Life Partnership. You want to join me for the next episode as I zoom into an area that often does not get spoken about, decision making, do you know how you do this? And how does this impact commitment? Join me after for episode 39 Breaking the cycle of non-commitment by knowing how you make decisions in your Business and Life Partnership #language #communciation #coaching #business #partnerships