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EPISODE · Jun 8, 2026 · 49 MIN

You Might Be Wrong About Who You Are

from Be Clay · host Alisa

Send us Fan MailYou ever look up and realize you’ve been living as a version of yourself that was built to survive, not a version that was built to be free? That’s where I’m starting, with a raw 2023 overview that became a prequel to everything that hit in 2024. I’m talking about identity, self-worth, spiritual healing, and the painful moment when the “real you” shows up and you don’t even recognize her.One of the biggest turning points is May 2023, when my mom almost died and needed back-to-back surgeries. While I’m trying to recover from my own internal “surgery” and finally choose myself, everyone expects me to do what I’ve always done: fix it, carry it, save everybody. I name the cost of that role, the guilt that comes with boundaries, and the mirror moment where I have to admit, through tears, that I’m not the Messiah and I can’t keep doing God’s job.We also get into how the voices in your head get there in the first place. I connect childhood church life, family dynamics, and constant pressure to the lie of “you’re too much,” plus the way people can shrink you when they’re threatened by your light. I even use A Bug’s Life to explain why intimidation works so well and why reclaiming your authentic self feels like rebellion. If you’re working through trauma, people pleasing, identity confusion, or faith-based healing, this one is for you.If this speaks to you, subscribe so you don’t miss the 2024 chapter, share this with someone who’s learning boundaries, and leave a review. What’s one belief about yourself you’re ready to question? I challenge you to really look at yourself. Is this really who I am?You are Loved!Not just a little, but greatlyNot just today, but foreverNot just by some,But by the ONE who created you in His LoveAnd HE's Not The ONLY OneWe Love You Unconditionally                      &There's nothing you can do to change it!!!!Listen and Subscribe on Youtubehttps://youtube.com/@beclaypod?si=qY0dYDYXxviLM-l6Follow Me on Instagram@beclaypodFollow I Spy You Buy for the best Philly Thrift Experience!! @ispyyoubuy

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Send us Fan Mail You ever look up and realize you’ve been living as a version of yourself that was built to survive, not a version that was built to be free? That’s where I’m starting, with a raw 2023 overview that became a prequel to everything that hit in 2024. I’m talking about identity, self-worth, spiritual healing, and the painful moment when the “real you” shows up and you don’t even recognize her. One of the biggest turning points is May 2023, when my mom almost died and needed back-...

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