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EPISODE · Aug 31, 2026 · 12 MIN

You Only Have a Lap When You Sit Down | Monday Mindset

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We came to you live from the Settled conference on Friday, and I have been sitting with one thing Jason said ever since. Luke says give and it will be given to you, poured into your lap. But you only have a lap when you are sitting down. Standing up there is nowhere for the overflow to go, so every time somebody needs something you are pulling it straight out of your own cup. That is where resentment comes from. I have felt it, resenting the client who asked the fifteenth question this week, and underneath it is fear of losing them or of what they think of me. Sitting down is not laziness. It is releasing control. Then my one thing for the week, which is Enrique, a dry cleaner I met at a networking event who is completely convinced his is the best. You can find bookkeeping elsewhere. Why would you?Book a Free Call with PennyConnect with us:FacebookInstagramLinkedIn1610 Financial SolutionsTakeaways:You only have a lap when you are sitting down, so a posture of releasing control is what makes room for anything to overflow to the people around you.Sitting down is not laziness, it is the difference between receiving something and white knuckling it into existence.Resentment is a signal, not a character flaw, and it usually means you have been pouring out of your own cup instead of out of the overflow.Under most of that resentment is scarcity: fear of losing a client, losing an employee, or being judged, all of it dressed up as trying to prove your worth.Be like Enrique. If you are not convinced yours is the best, nobody in the room will be either.This show is for general information and encouragement. It is not tax, financial or legal advice. Please consult a professional about your particular situation before you make any decisions.

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A Monday reset on releasing control, why resentment is usually a signal that you have been pouring from your own cup, and the dry cleaner who is completely convinced his business is the best.

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