有什么错误的管教孩子的方式？

What is the wrong way to discipline achild?SurettaWilliams, Raised three children with ADD/ADHD, Learning Disabilities,Behavioral IssuesMy sister and I don't get along,so I never expected her to ask me for advice, but here's what happened.My father was visiting her andher family and everyone was sitting at a large, rectangular dining room table.Her son was about 18-months-old,and kept climbing onto a chair, then attempting to crawl across the table, tobe with his Grandfather.My sister kept removing the childfrom the chair, scolding him, and putting him in "time out." (He was 18-months-old).She would try to keep him there for maybe a minute or two, then scold himagain, then bring him back to the table, and expect him to sit"nicely" in his own seat.Finally, at one point, my sisterlooked at me (I was raising three children who were teens at the time),shrugged her shoulders, and asked me, "What would YOU do?"After my father and I got rid ofthe shocked expressions on our faces from having the request to begin with, Igently picked up the child, carried him around the table, and placed himhappily in Grandpa's lap, which was his whole goal in the first place.Sometimes, you just try too hard to make things work, when youcompletely ignore the obvious. (Both child and Grandpa sat quietly visitingwith the rest of the family for over an hour, until the child fell asleep inhis lap).