有什么你并不想得到的人生经验？

Whathas been the life lesson you least expected?AlanaThompson, Studied at HighSchool Education1.      Don’tdate the same person more than once2.     Forevery friend/partner you think is irreplaceable, there is an even betterreplacement3.     Ifyou ever truly fall in love, you will forever care about them, even if youclaim to hate them4.     Don’ttell even your bestest friend ALL of your secrets. Keep certain details toyourself5.     Don’tleave mac and cheese alone for too long. Sometimes you can’t tell if itsspoiled or not depending on the brand/cook.6.     Donot befriend people below you. Sounds mean but just don’t. DON’T. edit: my definition of “below”:the opposite of being the “bigger person.” Somebody who shames you for tryingto inform/express in an appropriate situations. Somebody who is so insecurewith themselves that they target people's self esteems. People who are“snakes,” and believe ignorance is bliss. I realized my comment may have beeninterpretated as me saying not to be friends w/ people who aren't as popular orrich or as smart as you. I meant don't be friends with people who will stopyour person growth.7.     Ifyour parents are yelling at you in public, don’t argue back loudly and don’tsound whiny.8.     Ifsomebody sends you a weird/mean/unexpected message, wait an hour beforeresponding. Sometimes friends might steal their phones and send inappropriatemessages to you. Or sometimes they might be high or drunk.9.     Becareful about how you gossip. Sometimes the people your friends are friendswith will shock you, especially when you see they are closer with the peopleyou talk smack about than you.