有什么人们经常忽略的关于自身的小事？

What are the things that peoplemost often don't notice about themselves?Dushka Zapata, Theinsides of my brain are noisy and architectural.We all - every one of us -exhibit patterns of behavior that are obvious to everyone but that we ourselvescannot see.We will deny that they exist.These are our "blindspots". Carl Jung calls them our "shadow".Have you ever noticed how you areoften involved in situations that are similar across different aspects of yourlife?Why does everyone leave me?Or how you have the exact samefight with different people in different relationships?Have you ever said - or heard afriend say - things like "why does every person I date end upcheating on me?" or "why does everyone betrayme?" or "why doesn't anyone understand me?" or "whydo I always end up in long distance relationships?"These are all the consequence ofour blind spots."Untilyou make the unconscious conscious" saidJung "it will direct your life, and you will call it fate".