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EPISODE · May 8, 2026 · 11 MIN

You Were Never Meant to Choose Just One

from The Undoing · host Cynthia Mabry & Jenny McKim

You Were Never Meant to Choose Just OneWhat happens when a society tells kids to pick one sport, one path, one identity before they even know who they are yet?In this episode I'm fired up about something I watched during Masters week that I can't stop thinking about. Multi-sport athletes showing up to the Drive Chip and Putt finals, kids who do it all, and somehow we're still out here telling children to specialize at eight years old.But this goes way beyond sports. We talk about what Barbara Corcoran's mom got right that most of us get wrong, why your brain believes whatever you repeatedly tell it, and the second grade teacher who changed the trajectory of my entire life with one sentence.And somewhere in the middle of all of it I ask the question I keep coming back to lately: how is this working out for me? Because that one question changes everything.This one's a little all over the place. But it all ties back to one thing. You have a choice.Episode Timestamps00:00 Welcome & batch recording confession01:15 Masters week and the Drive Chip and Putt finals03:00 Multi-sport athletes and what the commentators got right05:00 Bella's story, cheer, golf, track and the choice she wasn't given06:45 Two things can be true at the same time08:00 What are we doing to our kids with early specialization09:30 The Mel Robbins episode that stopped me in my tracks10:30 Barbara Corcoran, dyslexia, and a mom who saw her strengths first11:45 Your brain believes whatever you tell it12:30 The second grade teacher who changed everything for me13:45 Bitter or better, it becomes your choice15:00 How is this working out for me?16:30 The only thing you can control is how you respondResources & Links MentionedMel Robbins Podcast featuring Barbara CorcoranWork with Jenny: [email protected] With UsInstagram: / theundoingpodFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?...YouTube: / @theundoingpod313TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.undoing.p...Email for guest inquiries: [email protected] This Episode? If this one hit home, share it with a parent, coach, or educator who needs to hear it. And if you haven't subscribed yet, do it so you never miss an episode. Every share helps us reach the families and athletes who need this message most.#ForCynthia #StayCurious

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