You Will Destroy Your Legacy If You Don't Do This - Patricia Myers

Patricia Myers has been in the funeral service industry for decades and is here to share her invaluable wisdom on the end of life planning. Join us as we explore the importance of being aware of family history, asking questions around the dinner table, and planning to leave behind a meaningful legacy and avoid leaving a mess for others to clean up. Patricia will discuss her experience of seeing families come into a service for their loved ones without knowing what they want, often influenced by what others have done or out of guilt. She will also explain how funeral homes can help families relax during this intimidating process by getting them to talk about their loved ones and allowing them to personalize the service. She will emphasize the need for research and understanding what is being bought before spending money on funeral services. Finally, Patricia will touch on her workbook that allows people to plan and involve family members in making decisions that honor their wishes. By joining this conversation, you'll gain insight into approaching end-of-life conversations gracefully and understanding while learning how to create a meaningful legacy that celebrates your heritage. [00:01 - 09:36] Opening Segment People often don't know what they want when planning a service for their loved one It is important to ask family members questions about their legacy and history Patricia got into the funeral service industry by designing burial garments She wanted to understand the emotions and psychology of grieving families [09:37 - 16:59] Understanding Funeral Planning to Avoid Overspending and Emotional Crisis Helping families relax by asking them about their loved ones before diving into pricing Assisting families to personalize the funeral service for their loved one Creating a resource that allows people to plan their funeral before being in a crisis mode Lack of knowledge can lead to overspending on funerals [17:00 - 27:43] Step-by-Step Guide to Planning Your End Stage of Life and Honoring Final Wishes Funeral directors are in a sales role, and people need to plan for funerals People should be responsible for their end-of-life decisions and finances Embracing the Teardrop - a workbook that can help people celebrate the life of a loved one without extravagant spending [27:44 - 33:50] Closing Segment Take a close inventory of yourself and prepare for the end stage of life Final words Quotes: "Death and dying is just like your birth certificate, the information that's on that birth certificate carries through your death certificate, and you need to know those facts." - Patricia Myers "If you're going to buy a car, do you just go to the dealership and say, 'Hey, I want this.' $50,000? No. You'll start researching and discover what this car's all about before you dump your money. When it comes to funeral planning, people don't do that." - Patricia Myers "You are the person responsible for your end stage of life." - Patricia Myers Connect with Patricia Myers: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/patricia-myers-619bab2b/  LEAVE A REVIEW + help someone who wants to explode their business growth by sharing this episode or click here to listen to our previous episodes. Dreamcatchers is an inclusive organization that targets people's interest in being more instead of a certain demographic. We have people from all walks of life at many different ages. Find out more at www.dreamsshouldbereal.com. Find out more about Jerome at www.d3v3loping.com or www.myersmethods.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices