Your Adult Child Accuses You of Ruining Their Childhood...Here's What's Really Happening

Has your adult child ever accused you of ruining their childhood? Few things are more painful for a mother to hear. In today's episode, we're talking about what to do when your adult child blames you for their childhood, brings up painful memories, or tells you that you caused lasting damage in their life. These conversations can leave moms feeling shocked, defensive, guilty, confused, and emotionally exhausted. We'll discuss: ✔️ How to listen without immediately becoming defensive ✔️ The difference between accountability and carrying all the blame ✔️ Why arguing over memories rarely leads to healing ✔️ How to protect your emotional health while remaining open to growth This is not about choosing sides. It's about helping moms respond with wisdom, self-awareness, and emotional strength while navigating one of the most difficult conversations a parent can face. If you're struggling with a strained relationship, emotional distance, or estrangement from your adult child, know that you are not alone. ❤️ LAST CHANCE TO JOIN US IN UTAH! The RISE Retreat is happening June 12–13 in Sandy, Utah. This retreat is designed specifically for moms who are navigating difficult relationships with their adult children and are ready to focus on their own healing, growth, and peace. You'll experience: ✨ Encouraging teaching ✨ Real conversations with moms who understand ✨ Practical tools for healing and self-discovery ✨ A supportive community that reminds you you're not alone For retreat information, coaching options, and additional resources, visit: https://www.sally-harris.com/RiseRetreat-2026   If you're feeling ready for support and want to learn more about working together, I invite you to start with a short application. From there, you'll receive next steps to book your Heart-to-Heart Consultation. Start here: https://www.sally-harris.com/H2Happ     BE A CALLER ON THE SALLY HARRIS SHOW email: [email protected]    EMPOWER MOM QUIZ: www.sally-harris.com/EmpowerMom    CONNECT WITH SALLY HARRIS ON SOCIAL MEDIA: INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/sallyharriscoach/ FACEBOOK | https://www.facebook.com/coachsallyharris WEBSITE | https://www.sally-harris.com