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EPISODE · May 2, 2026 · 15 MIN

Your Anger is Lying to You

from Say So · host Timothy Dickert

You’ve probably heard it — your anger reveals your purpose. And there’s something in that idea that hits. But what if your anger is lying to you? In this episode, Tim breaks down why anger alone is not a reliable compass, what Scripture actually says about the difference between righteous anger and flesh anger, and why grief — not anger — is the cleaner signal when it comes to discerning your calling.In This Episode • Why the “anger reveals purpose” idea is partly true — and partly dangerous • Jonah vs. Nehemiah: two men, same heat, completely different sources • The difference between reacting and responding • Why grief is anger that’s been purified through love • The one filter every man needs to run his passion through Key Verses "Let the redeemed of the Lord say so." — Psalm 107:2 "Do you do well to be angry?" — Jonah 4:4 "As soon as I heard these words I sat down and wept and mourned for days." — Nehemiah 1:4 The Challenge Ask yourself not what makes me angry — but what breaks my heart? Then run it through this filter: Is this making me more like Jesus, or just more like myself?

You’ve probably heard it — your anger reveals your purpose. And there’s something in that idea that hits. But what if your anger is lying to you? In this episode, Tim breaks down why anger alone is not a reliable compass, what Scripture actually says about the difference between righteous anger and flesh anger, and why grief — not anger — is the cleaner signal when it comes to discerning your calling.In This Episode • Why the “anger reveals purpose” idea is partly true — and partly dangerous • Jonah vs. Nehemiah: two men, same heat, completely different sources • The difference between reacting and responding • Why grief is anger that’s been purified through love • The one filter every man needs to run his passion through Key Verses "Let the redeemed of the Lord say so." — Psalm 107:2 "Do you do well to be angry?" — Jonah 4:4 "As soon as I heard these words I sat down and wept and mourned for days." — Nehemiah 1:4 The Challenge Ask yourself not what makes me angry — but what breaks my heart? Then run it through this filter: Is this making me more like Jesus, or just more like myself?

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