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EPISODE · Dec 15, 2025 · 14 MIN

Your Child Isn’t the Problem — Your Parenting Operating System Is

from Learn to Speak Kid · host Bonnieandthomasliotta

ADHD. ODD. DMDD. PDA. Labels don’t solve behavior — they often reinforce it. In this episode, Bonnie and Thomas Liotta explain why most modern parenting methods (timeouts, consequences, lecturing, “positive discipline,” and behavior modification) plant toxic seeds that produce resistance, defiance, and escalation. You’ll learn why renewing your mind is the true beginning of transformation, how to shift from controlling behavior to guiding behavior, and why your child’s “defiance” is often a sign of missing life skills—not a broken child. Visit LearnToSpeakKid.com to begin a new parenting journey.  

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