Your Inner Committee – Who’s Really Making Your Decisions?

In this episode of Brave Moves, I’m exploring something that’s been a game-changer for me: understanding my inner committee (inner bittie shitty committee).You know that mental boardroom where the critic, the people-pleaser, and the overthinker all fight for the mic? Yep, that one. It’s crowded in there. And if you’ve ever found yourself second-guessing, over-analyzing, or spiraling before making a decision, you’re definitely not alone.Psychologists call this your inner committee, a mix of parts within you that all mean well but often pull in different directions. In this episode, I break down what’s really happening when those internal voices get loud and how to lead yourself with more clarity, calm, and confidence.I’ll share how the Internal Family Systems (IFS) framework by Dr. Richard Schwartz helps us understand the roles of these inner “parts”:👩‍💼 Managers — your inner perfectionists and protectors who want control and safety🔥 Firefighters — the impulsive parts that rush in to avoid pain or discomfort💔 Exiles — the tender, vulnerable parts carrying old wounds and fearsWhen you understand how these parts operate, you can stop letting them run the show and let your true Self — the calm, confident, compassionate part of you — take the lead.Here’s what I’ll cover:🧠 Why your mind feels like a debate club (and how to get everyone to cooperate)💬 How to recognize which “voice” is running your decisions💡 Why all your inner parts have good intentions, even the loud ones⚖️ How to quiet the noise and lead with your core, confident SelfThis conversation is especially powerful for women juggling leadership, business, and personal growth — because confidence isn’t just about speaking up; it’s about knowing who inside you is doing the talking.Takeaway: You can’t silence your inner committee, but you can learn to chair the meeting. True confidence comes from leading yourself with clarity and compassion.Call to Action: If you’re ready to stop letting your inner critic, overIf you loved this episode, text me and let me know what you though. Support the showJoin the CommunityBrave Moves is a daily confidence and personal growth podcast for ambitious women, women entrepreneurs, and leaders who are ready to overcome self-doubt, build resilience, and take bold action in business and life. Each short, practical episode blends mindset science, decision-making psychology, and real-life stories to help you strengthen your confidence, rewire negative thought patterns, and create meaningful forward momentum.If you are navigating career pivots, burnout, reinvention, or leadership growth, Brave Moves gives you the tools to think differently, act bravely, and design a future aligned with your values and vision. Because confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you build, one brave move at a time.Liked this episode? Share it with your midlife woman, entrepreneur friends!Love this show? Let us know how we helped you increase your confidence by leaving a review.For more about me and what I do, check out my website.If you’re looking for support to grow your business faster, be positioned as an authority in your industry, and impact the masses, schedule a call to explore if you’d be a good fit for one of my coaching programs.Fo... This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit juliedeluccacollins.substack.com/subscribe