EPISODE · Nov 16, 2023 · 17 MIN
Your Mentor Can't Help You If You Do These 5 Things Wrong | Solo Episode
from Conversations That Count · host David Shaft
It doesn't matter if Mark Cuban is your mentor. If you're a bad mentee, nothing changes. Most people focus on finding the perfect mentor and forget that mentorship is a two way street with responsibilities on both sides.In this solo episode of Conversations That Count, David Shaft breaks down what it actually takes to be a great mentee. He shares the time a mentor told him point blank that he was disorganized and bad at holding his team accountable, what he did about it, and why that blunt feedback became a turning point in his leadership. This one is for anyone who has a mentor and isn't getting results, or anyone looking for one and wants to show up ready.Why being open to feedback is the first requirement of any mentee, and what happens to your growth when you get defensive every time someone tells you something you don't want to hearThe seven Ps framework David's mentor gave him (proper preparation prevents piss poor performance) and how building a weekly plan and sending it to his mentor without being asked changed the way he runs his teamWhy your mentor can't give you direction if you don't know what goal you're shooting for, and how figuring out what you actually want is a perfectly valid first goalWatch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ConversationsThatCount-CTCNew episodes of Conversations That Count every Tuesday and Thursday on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube. Follow on Spotify so you never miss an episode.Full episodes, show notes, and resources at ctcpodcast.mediaFree Communication Playbook with 10 frameworks and scripts to communicate like a pro: https://conversations-that-count.kit.com/e7fa86a708
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It doesn't matter if Mark Cuban is your mentor. If you're a bad mentee, nothing changes. Most people focus on finding the perfect mentor and forget that mentorship is a two way street with responsibilities on both sides.In this solo episode of Conversations That Count, David Shaft breaks down what it actually takes to be a great mentee. He shares the time a mentor told him point blank that he was disorganized and bad at holding his team accountable, what he did about it, and why that blunt feedback became a turning point in his leadership. This one is for anyone who has a mentor and isn't getting results, or anyone looking for one and wants to show up ready.Why being open to feedback is the first requirement of any mentee, and what happens to your growth when you get defensive every time someone tells you something you don't want to hearThe seven Ps framework David's mentor gave him (proper preparation prevents piss poor performance) and how building a weekly plan and sending it to his mentor without being asked changed the way he runs his teamWhy your mentor can't give you direction if you don't know what goal you're shooting for, and how figuring out what you actually want is a perfectly valid first goalWatch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ConversationsThatCount-CTCNew episodes of Conversations That Count every Tuesday and Thursday on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube. Follow on Spotify so you never miss an episode.Full episodes, show notes, and resources at ctcpodcast.mediaFree Communication Playbook with 10 frameworks and scripts to communicate like a pro: https://conversations-that-count.kit.com/e7fa86a708
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