EPISODE · Apr 28, 2026 · 25 MIN
Your Voice Is Not Too Much: How to Stop Shrinking and Speak Fully
from Your Odyssey Podcast · host Tara Alexandra & Karen Novy
Who told you your voice was too much? In this episode of Your Odyssey Podcast, we unpack the message so many of us have internalized (that we’re too loud, too emotional, too intense) and what it’s been costing us. Because “too much” isn’t something you’re born believing.It’s something you learn. And over time, that belief shows up as self-editing, shrinking, and holding back before you’ve even had the chance to fully express yourself. But what if your voice was never the problem? What if it was the spaces you were in? This episode is an invitation to stop negotiating your truth, release the need to be more palatable, and trust that your voice was always meant to take up space. Follow us on Instagram! Music: Opening/Interlude/Outro: Love Is WaitingFeatured Song: "I Am Not My Hair - India.Arie Playlists:Spotify - Volume 2YouTube Music - Volume 2 Chapters (00:00:03) - Welcome to Your Odyssey Podcast(00:00:53) - Who Told You Your Voice Was Too Much(00:01:56) - The Fear That Your Voice Is Too Much(00:02:02) - Early Sensitivity (Karen's Story)(00:02:52) - Big Emotions + Learning to Hold Them(00:04:19) - You Were Meant to Feel the Full Spectrum(00:05:59) - How We Learn to Silence Ourselves(00:06:36) - Maybe You Were Never "Too Much"(00:07:54) - Your Voice Isn't Too Much, It's Reclaiming Space(00:08:32) - Discernment Isn't Rudeness(00:09:47) - The Parts of You You Learned to Bury(00:11:45) - Getting Quiet to Hear Yourself Again(00:12:00) - A Quiet Way Back to Your Voice(00:17:00) - The Song That Sounds Like Reclamation(00:18:46) - Editing Yourself Before You Even Speak(00:21:40) - Overexplaining (Even via Text 👀)(00:23:16) - Don't "Unmuch" Yourself (Glennon Doyle)(00:24:42) - Closing + Thanks for Listening
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Who told you your voice was too much? In this episode of Your Odyssey Podcast, we unpack the message so many of us have internalized (that we’re too loud, too emotional, too intense) and what it’s been costing us. Because “too much” isn’t something you’re born believing.It’s something you learn. And over time, that belief shows up as self-editing, shrinking, and holding back before you’ve even had the chance to fully express yourself. But what if your voice was never the problem? What if it was the spaces you were in? This episode is an invitation to stop negotiating your truth, release the need to be more palatable, and trust that your voice was always meant to take up space. Follow us on Instagram! Music: Opening/Interlude/Outro: Love Is WaitingFeatured Song: "I Am Not My Hair - India.Arie Playlists:Spotify - Volume 2YouTube Music - Volume 2
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