Your wish is NOT my command

Many of us have a core belief that "your pain=my fault or responsibility". Over time this creates another core beilef that "my partner's wishes are my obligation." Soon after, both partners avoid sharing their wishes and start egg-shelling around their partner. This dynamic leads to a loss of play, potential state and a "playground" for you to hear yourself process out loud your dreams and fantasies. In this talk, I explain how this dynamic develops and how to change it, through examples from the clinic and my personal life. Practical examples will help you release yourself feeling commanded by your partner's wishes. www.potentialstate.com https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-other-side-relationships http://podcast.potentialstate.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXwdZhwQFgUcRQgZoI_L2Uw https://www.facebook.com/ThePotentialState https://twitter.com/assael Support the show