You’re Not Alone – Finding Safety, Hope and Help

Send us Fan MailWalking into a courthouse can feel like walking back into the worst day of your life. Recording on location at the Case Family Safety Center in Tulsa, we talk about what survivors actually need when they’re trying to get safe and why the “go here, then go there” system fails people who are already exhausted, afraid, and overwhelmed.Heather Anne shares parts of her own history as a domestic violence survivor and why this topic can’t stay behind closed doors. Then we’re joined by Suzanne Stewart, CEO of the Family Safety Center, to break down how a true one-stop model works: protective orders and legal aid, advocates and navigators, danger assessments, safety planning, connections to housing and shelter, and trauma-informed support that meets people where they are. We also dig into the research around poly-victimization and layered trauma, including how chronic stress can show up as insomnia, hypervigilance, and long-term health impacts.We spend time on a piece most people never consider: the environment of justice. Suzanne explains why traditional protective order dockets can be intimidating and why a safer, brighter, more secure courtroom design with separate entry and waiting areas can change whether survivors return for follow-up hearings. We also widen the lens beyond stereotypes, talking about coercive control, financial abuse, elder abuse, and why domestic violence crosses every zip code and income level.If you’re in Tulsa County and need domestic violence resources, this conversation points to practical next steps and a place with “no wrong door.” Subscribe, share this with someone who might need it, and leave a review so more people can find help faster.Support the show