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EPISODE · May 22, 2025 · 50 MIN

You're Not Lazy, You're Tired Of Performing

from The Unrelatable Podcast · host Hannah Lanae

If it costs you your peace, it’s too expensive — and pretending to be palatable 24/7 is draining you dry. This episode is for those of you who’ve been called “too much” and “hard to read” in the same breath. The ones who feel exhausted after social events, not because you’re lazy, but because you’ve been editing yourself the whole time.We talk about identity exhaustion, the pressure to be the “cool girl,” the chronic habit of proving you’re worth loving by being the easiest person to deal with — and why it’s finally time to stop. Hope you enjoy <3Ask a question or leave feedback! (anonymous)Support the show  Thank you so much for listening!Submit Your Stories:https://msha.ke/unrelatablepodcast#links-1Follow The Show: https://www.instagram.com/unrelatablepodcast/Follow My Socials: https://www.instagram.com/hlfeldt/https://www.instagram.com/hannahfeldt/For Bonus Episodes: https://www.patreon.com/TheUnrelatablePodcastAd:Start your podcast today using Buzzsprout! A free podcast hosting platform, making it easy to share your podcast and post episodes. Use this link to receive a $20 credit when you sign up today: https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=2221870

If it costs you your peace, it’s too expensive — and pretending to be palatable 24/7 is draining you dry. This episode is for those of you who’ve been called “too much” and “hard to read” in the same breath. The ones who feel exhausted after social events, not because you’re lazy, but because you’ve been editing yourself the whole time. We talk about identity exhaustion, the pressure to be the “cool girl,” the chronic habit of proving you’re worth loving by being the easiest person to deal wi...

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If it costs you your peace, it’s too expensive — and pretending to be palatable 24/7 is draining you dry. This episode is for those of you who’ve been called “too much” and “hard to read” in the same breath. The ones who feel exhausted after social...

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