You’re Not Stuck—You’re Believing a Lie About Your Identity

Most people aren’t stuck because they lack opportunity—they’re stuck because of limiting beliefs, fear, and identity confusion they don’t even realize they’re carrying.In this episode of The Pursuit of Calling, I sit down with licensed trauma therapist Michelle Croyle to talk about Christian mindset, emotional healing, and how internal beliefs shape your ability to step into your God-given calling.We unpack how fear of failure, comparison, and past trauma patterns quietly keep Christian men and women stuck in cycles of self-doubt, procrastination, and settling for less than their potential.This conversation is especially for you if you’re searching for things like:how to stop feeling stuck in life as a Christian manwhy am I afraid to pursue my callinghow to overcome limiting beliefs and fearChristian mindset for purpose and directionhow to find your God-given callingovercoming comparison and insecurity as a believerWe talk about:Why it’s actually “selfish” not to use your God-given giftsHow fear and comfort quietly shape your decisions in life and careerWhy discomfort is often a sign of personal growth and spiritual developmentThe hidden beliefs that keep you stuck in identity confusion and comparison trapsHow small, consistent steps lead to long-term purpose and calling clarityWhat it actually looks like to begin emotional healing and mindset renewalIf you’ve ever felt stuck, behind, unqualified, or unsure of your direction—this episode will challenge the way you see yourself and your calling.🎧 Subscribe for weekly episodes on Christian personal growth, discipline, identity, and pursuing your God-given purpose.📌 CHAPTERS00:00 - It's Selfish Not to Use the Gift God Gave You | Welcome to The Pursuit of Calling 01:02 - Michelle Croyle Intro + EMDR Therapy Explained 03:21 - Why This Applies to Men Too 05:01 - Breaking Out of Limiting Identity 07:06 - Why People Settle for Less 09:00 - Living Below Your Potential 11:02 - Fear and Survival Wiring 13:00 - Catching the Lies You Believe 14:26 - Turning Weakness Into Strength 17:09 - The Measuring Stick Problem 19:01 - Opinion vs Wisdom 21:39 - Discomfort vs Danger 23:55 - 13 Years of Small Steps 26:46 - Tools for Self-Discovery 27:38 - Where to Find Michelle Croyle