65: You’re Saying Yes Too Fast

🎙 Episode OverviewThis episode is a follow-up to last week's conversation on action bias—and it's one I think a lot of nurse leaders need to hear.Today, I'm introducing a framework I've been using in my own work and with my nurse leader clients: the holding period. It's a structured pause between receiving an idea and committing to it—and it might be one of the most underrated leadership practices out there.🔑 In This Episode, You'll LearnWhy action bias is trained into nurses—and why it becomes a liability in leadershipThe hidden cost of saying yes too fast (it's not just a full plate, it's a credibility problem)What the holding period actually is, and how it's different from avoidance or delayHow to calibrate the length of your hold based on the stakes of the decisionThe three diagnostic questions to run every idea through during a holdHow to communicate a hold to your team or your boss without undermining your authority🧠 Key Ideas to Take With YouSaying yes to everything is not responsiveness—it's reactivity dressed up as competenceMost leaders are better at starting things than sustaining them, and the real value of any change is whether it lastedThe strength of the pull you feel to commit is a signal, not a reason to skip discernmentA holding period is bound by a return date—that's what separates it from delayTime alone doesn't do the work; what makes a hold substantive is what you do with the idea while it sitsYour own ideas have to go through the same process as everyone else's—they are not exemptBeing deliberate is not the same as being slow, and fast is not always better📣 Special AnnouncementsNurse Leader HQ opens for enrollment at the end of June. It's a high-touch program with a small cohort, biweekly group meetings, monthly 1:1 calls with me, weekly async check-ins, and daily Slack access for real-time leadership issues. It's only open to Changemaker Essentials graduates who are leading people or projects.If you're earlier in this journey and haven't taken CME yet, Map Your Impact is the right starting point. It's the mini course that gets you thinking in systems and approaching your workday more strategically.📲 Call to ActionPick one idea sitting on your plate right now and put it through the three-question diagnosticShare this episode with a nurse leader who you know is drowning in commitmentsDM me on Instagram and tell me where action bias is showing up in your leadershipIf you're a CME grad, get on the Nurse Leader HQ waitlistIf you haven't taken CME, check out Map Your Impact as your first step👉 Resources MentionedMap Your Impact (mini course)Changemaker EssentialsNurse Leader HQ (waitlist)