EPISODE · Jun 26, 2026 · 21 MIN
You’re Stuck Because You Believe This Lie
from Better Than Best Podcast with Coach Red Wallace · host Coach Red Wallace
What if your biggest problem is not discipline… but belief?In this video, Coach Red Wallace breaks down why so many Christian men keep starting strong but struggle to stay consistent. You may already know what to do: pray more, be more present with your wife and kids, take care of your body, steward your money, and stop numbing out at night. But knowing is not the same as believing.If your habits keep falling apart, there may be a hidden belief underneath them that needs to be confronted.In this video, we talk about three shifts that can help Christian husbands, fathers, and leaders stop living stuck and start walking in truth:- Identity: stop obeying like an orphan and start living like a son of God.- Presence: stop giving your family your leftovers.- Rhythms: stop chasing intensity and start practicing daily obedience.This is not about shame. This is about renewal, repentance, and becoming the man God has called you to be.Take the next faithful step today.Join the Better Than Best Brotherhood and take the Present Provider Assessment to identify what is draining your presence, discipline, leadership, and peace.https://www.skool.com/better-than-best-academy-5909/aboutCHAPTERS:00:00 Discipline Or Belief00:53 Motivation Fails Fast01:30 Behavior Follows Belief03:04 Meet Coach Red04:04 The Hidden Problem05:48 Driveway Reality Check07:32 Renewing The Mind08:47 Three Shifts Overview09:01 Shift One Identity11:04 Lie Truth Step12:09 Shift Two Presence14:21 First Twenty Rule15:02 Shift Three Rhythms17:59 Pool Of Bethesda19:40 Your Next Faithful Step20:34 Join The Brotherhood21:23 Final EncouragementWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
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What if your biggest problem is not discipline… but belief?In this video, Coach Red Wallace breaks down why so many Christian men keep starting strong but struggle to stay consistent. You may already know what to do: pray more, be more present with your wife and kids, take care of your body, steward your money, and stop numbing out at night. But knowing is not the same as believing.If your habits keep falling apart, there may be a hidden belief underneath them that needs to be confronted.In this video, we talk about three shifts that can help Christian husbands, fathers, and leaders stop living stuck and start walking in truth:- Identity: stop obeying like an orphan and start living like a son of God.- Presence: stop giving your family your leftovers.- Rhythms: stop chasing intensity and start practicing daily obedience.This is not about shame. This is about renewal, repentance, and becoming the man God has called you to be.Take the next faithful step today.Join the Better Than Best Brotherhood and take the Present Provider Assessment to identify what is draining your presence, discipline, leadership, and peace.https://www.skool.com/better-than-best-academy-5909/aboutCHAPTERS:00:00 Discipline Or Belief00:53 Motivation Fails Fast01:30 Behavior Follows Belief03:04 Meet Coach Red04:04 The Hidden Problem05:48 Driveway Reality Check07:32 Renewing The Mind08:47 Three Shifts Overview09:01 Shift One Identity11:04 Lie Truth Step12:09 Shift Two Presence14:21 First Twenty Rule15:02 Shift Three Rhythms17:59 Pool Of Bethesda19:40 Your Next Faithful Step20:34 Join The Brotherhood21:23 Final EncouragementWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!
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