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40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. — 304 episodes

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Randy Jones Has Been Gay for 30 Years and Still Asks Himself If He Is Gay Enough

2

Jeff Nally Lost His Husband Without Warning. Here Is What Nobody Tells You About Being a Gay Widower.

3

Corporate Rejected Joseph Federico. He Said Fine And Bet On Himself!

4

Shaun Williams Knows Why Gay Men Are Exhausted and Nobody Is Talking About It

5

Pretty Privilege in the Gay World: Truth, Myth, and the Lie You Keep Telling Yourself – Rick Clemons

6

Ken Breniman on Naked Yoga, Death Awareness, and Why Gay Men Over 40 Must Stop Avoiding Mortality

7

Mike Elliott Says the Thing No Man Wants to Hear: Your Relationships Are a Mirror of You

8

Rich Burns Says the Quiet Part Out Loud That Gay Men Over 40 Have Been Thinking for Years

9

Kit Roughhouse on Gay Erotica, Reinvention, and Telling the Truth After 40

10

Belonging, Safety, and the Body: Reclaiming Authenticity as Gay Men with Devin Scott

11

Living Without an Esophagus: Cancer, Community, and LGBTQ Resilience with Dallas Oliver

12

Prostate Cancer Is Silent, and Why Gay Men Over 40 Must Pay Attention – Dr. Arthur L. Burnett II

13

The Truth About Bulimia, Divorce, and the Secrets Gay Men Keep – Kyle Ridley

14

Heated Rivalry: The Love War You Keep Fighting With Yourself – Rick Clemons

15

Can You Still Get Hard After 40? Shay Doran on Performance Anxiety for Gay Men

16

Gay or Straight, Same Relationship Struggles: Attachment, Boundaries, and Starting Over with Ralph Brewer

17

The Art of Male Boudoir: Confidence, Intimacy & Body Liberation with Photographer Trey Fox

18

Glowing Up Gay: A Late-Life Coming Out, Authenticity Story with Peter Leahy

19

From Rock Bottom to Reinvention: Late-Life Gay Awakening & Recovery with David Osterman

20

Lonely, Sober, and Still Searching: How Gay Men Build Real Connection Without Losing Themselves – Christopher Tompkins

21

Black Queer Dance, Masculinity & The Politics of Passing – Dr. Mark Broomfield

22

Why Queer History Matters: Preserving Pride, Power, and Our Stories – Adrian Cardwell

23

From Number Crunching to Piano Keys: Mike Maimone’s Journey of Love, Loss & Reinvention

24

Inside the Rise of GADDIES: Building Community, Culture & Confidence for Gay Dads – David Morgenstern

25

Coming Out at 70: The Courage to Be Courageous with – Dan Bolen

26

Aging Out Loud: Midlife, Self-Acceptance, and Gay Wisdom with – John Patrick

27

Running Toward Change: Dakarai Larriett on Faith, Politics, and Courage in Alabama – Dakarai Larriett

28

Intimacy, Aging, and the New Era of Sexual Wellness– Jeff Abraham

29

Creativity, Authenticity & Aging: A Halloween Conversation with Author Ricky Baxter

30

From Stonewall to Florida: Drag, Activism, and Keeping Pride Alive in Troubled Times – Eric Swanson

31

Playfulness, Possibility, and Queer Joy After 40 – Cas Holman

32

Coming Out, Family, and Community: Brian Bond of PFLAG National on National Coming Out Day

33

Pleasure Meets Protection: The Power of Talking Condoms – Milla Impola

34

From Law School to Dance Stage: David Rousseve on Love, Loss, and Bold Artistic Journeys

35

Writing LGBTQ+ Truths in Turbulent Times – John Casey

36

How Gay Men Can Get Their Financial Health On Track – Brian Thompson

37

Discovering The Power of Rituals & Spirituality In Our 40 Plus Gay Lives – Bill Hulseman

38

Gay Mens Guide To Working the Room Without Working Too Hard – with Rob Giardinelli

39

Poetry, Prostate Cancer, and Preserving Queer Legacy – A Conversation with Mickie Kennedy

40

A Story of Queer Family, Reinvention & Radical Love – Brian and Brandon Gorman

41

Why Gay Men Struggle with “No”: Rejection, Control & the Path Back to Embodiment – JoJo Bear

42

Party of 3: Love, Lust, and Throuple Realness with Christopher Rice – C. Travis Rice

43

Rope, Ritual & Erotic Expression In A Chaotic world: A Conversation with Court Vox

44

Coming Out Later in Life: The Power, The Pain, and The Freedom – Mark Dembo

45

App Fatigue, Real Connection & Becoming Your Own Damn Matchmaker – with Tammy Shaklee

46

The Weight of Shame: Gay, Latinx, and Finding Your Way Back to Yourself – Lucas Saiter

47

How to Navigate A World Bent On Not Talking To Each Other – David Grasso

48

Your Gay Psyche is a Temple Where Your Super Comes Alive – Cory Schneider

49

Sashaying Away From Shame This Pride Season – Adam MacLean

50

Pride, Power & the Politics of Showing Up: A Conversation with Brad Pritchett – Equality Texas

51

How to Embrace Queer Joy This Pride Season – Damian Pelliccione (They/Them)

52

Taking PRIDE in our Mental Health – Will Dempsey

53

Reimagining Mental Health for Gay, CIS and Trans Queer Men – Rahim Thawer

54

What does it really mean to be Queer and Christian? – Brandan Robertson

55

The Trouble With Throuples – Jeff Hudson

56

Navigating Breakups and Toxic Relationships as A Gay Man – Lonay Halloum

57

Why Staying In Your Hetero Marriage As A Gay Man Can Work – Wayne Scott

58

How To Make Money Your Gay Best Friend (MGBF) – David Lester

59

Discovering The Connection to My Inner Erotic Self – Rick Clemons

60

How to step into the color of your life - Corey Powell

61

The Law of Zero For Gay Men – Chad Michael Hardy

62

Safe Ways To Travel and See The Planet as a Gay Man – Lindsey Danis

63

The Oneness Of Being Queer and Jewish – Rabbi Steve Greenberg

64

Embracing the Beauty of Being Gay, Black, and HIV Positive – Jordan J. Edwards

65

Dear Black Gay Men – Jai The Gentleman

66

The Art & Adventure Open Relationships – Dr. Wade Maggert

67

315: Sex, Science, and Solutions For Gay Men – Dr. Joshua Gonzales

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314: How Not To Lose Your Sanity As A Gay Man In These Crazy Times - Rick Clemons

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313: How Disco Defined Gay Life Today – Frank DeCaro

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312: Sex, Shame, Boundaries, Tech, and Porn for the Gay Man. – Brandon Simpson

71

311: Connecting Deeper with Bodily Pleasure As Gay Men – Court Vox

72

310: Overcoming Trauma with Mindfulness – Dr. Jason Durant

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309: Mindful Aging For Gay Man – Theresa Skaar

74

308: The Go To Relationship Guide For Gay Men – Tom Bruett

75

307: How Gay Camping Helps You Overcome Social Anxiety & Embracing Mistakes – Upton Rand

76

306: Let’s Talk About Enhancing Pleasure for Gay Men – Dr. Israel Martinez

77

305: Breaking the Stigma: Embracing Gay Sex Work with Respect and Understanding – Matthew Roberts

78

304: Gay Man's Guide For Finding Healing and Strength in Chaotic Times – Wil Fisher

79

303: Confidence to embrace the master and slave within for an amazing life – Philip Poole

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301: The Art of LGBTQ Affirming Therapy and Sex Positivity – Ann Russo

81

301: Standing Proud, Meeting The Moment – Voting For Your Life – Rick Clemons

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300: How To Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind – Todd Baratz

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299: How to move from apathy, empathy, and Into action – Darren Calhoun

84

298: National Coming Out Day and Get Out To Vote – Rick Clemons

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297: How to release yourself into the fantasy and reality of being a sexual being – Emma Sayle

86

296: Exploring the Girth Of Your Manhood – Dr. Joel Pash

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295: Jin DeLuong – The Naked Way To Connect – With or Without Sex

88

294: Unleashing the Monsters In Our Closets – Mark Julien

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293 – Erotic Pleasure – It’s Every Gay Man’s Right To Experience – Ayce Kyptyn

90

292: Craig Cullinane – Using The Body Electric to Heal From Religious Programming

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291: Max Austin – We can’t be wrong and other gay truths

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290 – Never Let The Making of Our Gay History Be Forgotten – Erick Marcus

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289: Luis Baez – Charting your course and career as a gay man

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288: – Finding Peace As A Gay Man – Dr. Wade Maggert

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287: Christopher Adams – Reliving Where We Came From As Gay Men To Thrive

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286: Mark Pettit – Living his best ANKRBOY life

97

285: Ronald Hunter – Discover what happens when gay angels get their wings

98

284: Jay Claypool – Gay AF from the farm, military, to the drag stage!

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283: C. Travis Rice – Making Room For Romance In Your Gay Life

100

282: Wade Maggert – Breaking Free and Practicing Self-Love

101

281: Kadeem Alphanso Fyffe – Threading the needle of gay success

102

280: Michael Pezzullo – How To Navigate The Partying Ways Of Gay Life

103

287: Michael Andor Brodeur – The true meaning of muscle in a gay mans world

104

278: Dr. Gary Bucher – Making Butt Health A Priority

105

277: Rick Clemons – Your Pursuit of Passion is BS

106

276: Matt Boyles – Fitter Confident YOUNIVERSE for Gay Men

107

275: Jeza Belle – Yes You Can Be Christian and a Drag Queen

108

274: Kevin Spirtas – Navigating Fame, Love, Loss, and Hollywood

109

273: Steve Milliken – A Late Bloomer, Baby Bloomers Guide to Being Gay

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272: Allen Scott – From Pornography Addiction to Redemption

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271: Adam Lippin – Tap into being heard with HearMe.app As A Gay Man

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270: Gregory Allen – 40 + and thriving beyond the monsters in his life!

113

Rick Clemons – Gay and Gray – The Party is Not Over!

114

268: Justin Reinert – Creating a Sense Of Belonging For You and Your Community

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267- Rick Clemons: 10 Ways To Move on After A Breakup

116

266: Stan Goldberg – Preventing Senior Moments

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265: Rick Clemons – 10 Things Gay Men Can Do To Drop Their B.S. And Be Happier!

118

264: Joli Hamilton – Uncomplicating the fire of open relationships

119

263: Legrand Wolf – Why Normalizing Gay Porn and Gay Fantasies Is Good For The World

120

262: Craig Cullinane – Why every gay man needs erotic and pleasure education!

121

261: Tommy Whitehead – Living Out And Proud In Your Industry

122

260: MJ Harris – How to Get THe F*CK Out Of Your Own Way

123

259: Sean Fitzgerald – Alternatives For Staying On Top Of Your Health

124

258: River Faire – Stepping Into Radical Integrity As A Gay Man

125

257: Rick Clemons – What are you willing to…in 2024

126

256: Kevin Jones – Living Out & Proud In The Corporate Closet

127

255: Adam Fitzgerald – Recovering from Recovery. Another way to sobriety.

128

254: Dr. Elliot Justin – How to have thriving erections at any age!

129

253: Tammy Shaklee – Making A Match With Your Dream Man

130

252: Rick Clemons – Avoiding The Hurry Scurry Holiday Syndrome

131

251: Warren Augustin – Transforming Into Yourself & Letting Go

132

250: Elliott Kronenfeld – Navigating Gay Empty Nester Syndrome

133

249: Tate Barkley – Moving Beyond The Chaos Of Your Past As A Gay Man

134

248: Wyatt O. Evans – Confronting The Reality of Intimate Partner Violence and Abuse

135

247: Kenny Bramlett-Martin – The art of being yourself at any age and owning it

136

246: Victor Diaz – Stepping Beyond Your Past

137

Rick Clemons – Let’s Celebrate National Coming Out Day

138

245: Kevin Kasir – Navigating The Daddy Thirst Trap

139

244: Ed Wilson – What Does It Really Mean To Be A Gay Man?

140

243: Dale Allen-Rowse – Finding the Spiritual Disco of Your Soul

141

242: Matthew Bennett – Being The Leather Master of Your Life

142

241: Grant Miller – Navigating His Life Line One Obstacle At A Time

143

240: Jason Galvez – Moving Beyond Betrayal and Trauma

144

239: Corey and Kendall Stulce – Finding Your Self & The Life You Missed

145

238: Rob Gutro – Uncovering the life lessons in the after life

146

237: Jonathan Lee – 40 Single Gay…You’re Not Alone!

147

236: Gary Logan & Rob Grover – The magic of mushrooms and conscious gay living

148

235: Amber LeMay (Bob Bolyard) – Living Out & Proud And Having Fun

149

234: Michael Coleman – Live Your Best Gay Life Without Apologies

150

233: Nick Santo – Your better than your guilt, shame, and anxiety

151

232 Bill Robertson – How To Never Stop Being Yourself

152

231: Dr. Roger Leslie – Doing your gay life your way

153

230: Jim Fielding – Living a All Pride, No Ego Life

154

229: Rick Clemons – Celebrating Pride with the Letter “D”

155

228: Rick Clemons – Celebrating Pride with the Letter “I”

156

227: Rick Clemons – Celebrating Pride with the Letter “R”

157

226: Rick Clemons – Let’s Celebrate Pride with the Letter “P”

158

225: Harker Jones – To Find Your Passion – Just Do Something!

159

224: Jon Fischer – Embracing Your Bear and Bare Self

160

223: Rick Clemons – Time To Stop Rejecting Our Gay Brothers

161

222: Jarrod Lee – Daring To Be Fit On Your Terms As A Gay Man

162

221: Wil Fisher – Embracing your deeper self as a gay man

163

220: Court Vox – Sex, Intimacy, and Being Your Most Delicious Erotic Gay Self

164

219: Rick Clemons – BANK on yourself as a gay man

165

218: Sex, Queer, and Christian – OH MY!!! – Jon Carl Lewis

166

217: Rick Clemons – Dating with Dignity, not Drudgery

167

216: Over 40 Fitness Hacks For Gay Men – Brad Williams

168

215: Coming Out & Losing Out – John MacDonald

169

214: Find Your Gay Wellness Match – Peter DeWitt

170

213: Electrifying your way out of gay male body shame – Craig Cullinane

171

212: Don’t Dis The Disabled Guys In Your Gay Dating – Stephen Fratello

172

211: Two Things Getting In The Way of Getting Your Man – Rick Clemons

173

210: Stroking the big “E” to get along better as a gay man – Rob Volpe

174

209: Let Your Sexual Freak Flag Fly – Rick Clemons

175

208: Gay Men’s Get Out of Debt Guide – David and John Auten-Schneider

176

207: Breaking the More, Better, Different Cycle For Success – Rick Clemons

177

206: Hacking Your Way To Better Sexual Health For Gay Men– Dr. Judson Brandeis

178

205: Declutter Your Gay Life For 2023 – RIck Clemons

179

204: Stroke This, Not That, And Survive – RIck Clemons

180

203: Navigating Loss and Grief of a Partner- Jason Arnold

181

202: Overcoming The “Pleaser” Within – RIck Clemons

182

201: Being An Authentic Gay Man: It’s Truly Possible – Coach Maddox

183

200: Give a shot to the heart in your online dating – Michael Kaye

184

199: Leverage your milestones instead of complaining – Rick Clemons

185

198: Up Your Cocksmanship – Susan Bratton

186

197: Find Your Just Right Spot For Aging Gracefully – Loren Ostrow

187

196: How to be a Titan of Building Your Own Business – Stefaan DeVreese

188

195: A Gay Man’s Guide To Life – Britt East

189

194: It’s never too late to come out about anything – Rick Clemons

190

193: Thruples and Polyamory – Kitty Chambliss

191

192: Combating “Button Pushing” Syndrome – Rick Clemons

192

191: Sex, Drugs, and Jesus – DeVannon Hubert

193

190: The New Masculine For Gay Men – Travis Stock

194

189: Stop shaming Monogamy, Open Relationships, and Polyamory – Rick Clemons

195

188: Embracing A Holistic Approach To HIV & Monkeypox – Jill Baker

196

187: Staying Sane As Our LGBTQ Lives Are The Targets Again– Rick Clemons

197

186: Finding Your Passion, Purpose, and A Thriving Career – John Thorpe

198

185: Lessons Learned After Another Trip Around The Sun – Rick Clemons

199

184: Helping Gay Men Feel Seen and Heard – Adam Lippin

200

183: Navigating Your Way To Your Passion and Purpose – Scott Gatz

201

182: Stop being petrified to show up as a gay man – Rick Clemons

202

181: The Joy of Navigating An Ever Changing Career Ride – Michael Novin

203

180: Living an Inspired Queer LIfe After 40 – Darren Stehle

204

179: Getting Your Sexual Mojo On – Bryan “Uncle B” Ayers

205

178: How To Not Lose Yourself As Your Parents Age – Rick Clemons

206

177 – How To Be Proud About Coming Out Late In Life – Rick Clemons

207

176: Overcoming External Validation Syndrome – Rick Clemons

208

175: Having PRIDE at Any Age and Stage of Your Gay Life – Rick Clemons

209

174: Gay Dad, Jocks, and Athletics: Oh MY! – Bradley Jacobs

210

173: No more neckties…Just Be Gay – Dr. Loren A. Olsen, MD

211

172: Moving Past Being “Friendzoned” – Rick Clemons

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171: Are You Making Room For A Man In Your Life? – Rick Clemons

213

170: Lessons Learned From The Frugal Gay – Tom Brickman

214

169: The Art Of Self-Forgiveness – Rick Clemons

215

168: Stop the “Should-ing” and Starting Doing These 10 Things As A Gay Guy – RIck Clemons

216

167: Kicking Ass By Being Your Own Gay Leadership Dude – Dr. Steve Yacovelli

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166: Stop Fooling Yourself & Living A Fools Life – Rick Clemons

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165: Dissecting The Truth Of Gay Men: Coach to Coach – Brian Madigan

219

164: Slaying The Inner And Outer Narcissist – Rick Clemons

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163: The Art of Truly Loving Yourself As A Gay Man – Jerome Braggs

221

162: Give yourself a little RESPECT – Rick Clemons

222

161: Skin Care, Plastics, And All That Anti-Aging Jazz – J. Shea Terry

223

160: Do we really have to play sexual roles? – Rick Clemons

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159: Loving Yourself This Valentine’s Day – Steve Disselhorst

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158: Conquering The Confidence Conundrum – Rick Clemons

226

157: Yup. You’re No Good At Gay Sex! Really? – Rick Clemons

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156: How Do You Do Gay – Rick Clemons

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155 – There is Gay Life Beyond Prostate Cancer – Kenneth A. Johnson

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154: Breaking The “I don’t know syndrome!” – Rick Clemons

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153: Ready. Set. Let Your Intentions Guide You in 2022 -Rick Clemons

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152: 12 Gifts You Should Give Yourself This Holiday – Rick Clemons

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151: Healing Religious Wounds – Eric Feltes

233

150: What if there were no hook-up apps? – Rick Clemons

234

149: You’re Never Too Old To Say – Judge Me Not – James Merrick

235

148: Holiday Prep – No Douche Required – Rick Clemons

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147: Killing Your Relationship Expectations – Rick Clemons

237

146: Self-Awareness – The Gay Man’s Key To LIfe’s Big Ticket Questions – Ed WIlson

238

145: Internalized Homophobia – Knock That Sh*t Off – Rick Clemons

239

144: Owning That Dad Bod – Anthony Catalino

240

143: Defining A Healthy Gay Relationship – Rick Clemons

241

142: Loving Yourself Through and Out of Addiction – Gregory Silva

242

141: The Art of Relating, Man-to-Man – Rick Clemons

243

140: All The Sh*T You Can Do After 40 – Anthony Hand

244

139: Why Open Relationships Work – Canaan

245

138: Gay Man’s Manifesto For Living: Part 3 – Rick Clemons

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142.1: 20 Years of Making It Work With My Man – Rick Clemons

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137: Gay Man’s Manifesto For Living: Part 2 – Rick Clemons

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136: Gay Man’s Manifesto For Living: Part 1 – Rick Clemons

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135: Why are gay friendships so hard to make? – Rick Clemons

250

134: Date Smarter. Sexier – Andrea LaRosa

251

133: How To Start Having Better Sex Now – Rick Clemons

252

132: Dating for the modern gay guy – Tyler Greenberg

253

131: Getting Over Your Money BS – Martin Cowart

254

130: Break free from the “You’ve done so much wrong” syndrome – Rick Clemons

255

129: How To Break Free From Your Hidden Addictions – Rick Clemons

256

128: Quit Bitching and Step Up To The Plate – Rick Clemons

257

127: Why Validation and Attention Seeking is F*CKING You Up! – Rick Clemons

258

126: It’s Fat Loss Not Weight Loss For The Gay Man – Jack Kunkel

259

125: Infatuation or love…what is it you really feel? – Rick Clemons

260

124: Should you be OUT at work – yes or no? – Rick Clemons

261

123: Stop being commitment phobic you silly homo – Rick Clemons

262

122: Confidence For The Queer Guy – Yannick Picard

263

121: Gay GHOSTING is Not Pretty on you – Rick Clemons

264

120: Dadding, Careers, And All That Gay Stuff – Hans M Hirschi

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119: How not to FREAK out when the sex dies – Rick Clemons

266

118: Aging as a Transman – Sex and all that jazz – Buck Angel!

267

117: The Ultimate Circle Jerk – Rick Clemons

268

116: To Be Out or Not To Be Out In Corporate Life – Jeff Nally

269

115: Let Go Of Your Ex or Shut The F#CK Up – Rick Clemons

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113: Pushing Past Loneliness As A Gay Man - Rick Clemons

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112: Jealousy and Insecurity – Gay Men’s Worst Enemies – Rick Clemons

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111: Why gay men avoid commitment – Rick Clemons

273

110: Just Be Gay, Gay, Gay…Your Way – Rick Clemons

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109: What’s Right With Having An Open Relationship – Rick Clemons

275

108: How To Have the Confidence Of A Porn Star – Rick Clemons

276

107: Determined To Be A Dad – Steve Disselhorst

277

106 – Can you really handle an Intergenerational Relationship? – Rick Clemons

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Temporary Show Hiatus

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105: How To Avoid Gay Death Bed – Rick Clemons

280

104: Best Life Hook-up Tips For 2021 – Rick Clemons

281

103: The One Gift – Rick Clemons

282

102 – How To Get Out of Your 40 Plus Life Rut – Rick Clemons

283

101: Finding Your Soul Center As A Man – Chris Failla

284

100: 10 Things I’ve Learned As A Guy Over 40 – Rick Clemons

285

099: The art of Humility & Acceptance – Rick Clemons

286

098: You’re never too old to be fully yourself – Colton Ford

287

097: Men, Intimacy, and Affection – Get Over It Already – Rick Clemons

288

096: More To Life and Work After Coming Out Late In Life - Peter McGuire

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095 - Embracing a "Why Not" Mindset - Rick Clemons

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094: Being Better Beings – Michelle Zellner

291

093: Stepping Into and Letting Go of Love – Rick Clemons

292

092: Tap Into The Power of Your Younger Self, Even In a Pandemic – Rick Clemons

293

091: How your hard “No’s” are ruining your life – Rick Clemons

294

090 – Helping men find peace in a chaotic world – Steve Strother

295

089: Becoming A Boomer Musician – Michael Fairman

296

88: Creating Radical Alignment In LIfe & Love – Alexandra Jamieson & Bob Gower

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087: How to come to terms with the “What’s next?” question – David Hooper

298

086– Gay and 40 Plus – William Smith

299

085: Fitter Healthier Dad – Darren Kirby

300

084 – Developing The Attitude of Gratitude – Chris DT Gordon

301

083: Stop playing it safe and do what you love – Tripp Lanier

302

082: Embracing F*CK Ups When They Happen– Rick Clemons

303

081: Why your mindset makes the day, every day of your life – Tomi Dagan

304

80: Real Talk, About Being A Male Victim of Sexual and Physical Abuse – Brian Cardoza