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40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. — 317 episodes
Dr. Myron Krys: Successful, Wanted, And Still Alone
Colin Belcourt: Queer Shame, Self-Erasure, and Stop Cleaning Up Your Story
Brad Ryan: 63 National Parks, One Grandmother, and the Healing Gay Men Stop Believing In
Stop Negotiating Which Version of You Shows Up – Skip Sams
Your Body Is Lying to You About Sex: Fran Frye Breaks Down What’s Really Happening For Gay Men
The Quiet Parts Out Loud: Huck Smith on Gay Dating, Bar Culture, and Becoming Real
Stop Swiping, Start Connecting: Court Vox on Attraction, Intimacy, and What Gay Men Over 40 Get Wrong About Desire
The Warning Signs Are Here: Dr. Nas Mohamed on LGBTQ Rights, Authoritarianism, and Gay Complacency
Steven C. Law Spent 45 Years Loving the Same Man. Here Is What He Wants Gay Men Over 40 to Know.
Katherine Wela Bogen on What Gay Men Get Wrong About Bisexuality and Why It Costs All of Them
He Was HIV Positive and Ran Toward Ground Zero Anyway: Neil Adams on Michael Dorian and the Story That Would Not Stay Untold
HIV Is Not Over: Andrew Spieldenner and Alex Garner on Stigma, Survival, and What Gay Men Over 40 Need to Hear
Morgan Rich Says the Version of Masculinity You Were Handed Was Never Going to Fit. Here Is What Does.
Randy Jones Has Been Gay for 30 Years and Still Asks Himself If He Is Gay Enough
Jeff Nally Lost His Husband Without Warning. Here Is What Nobody Tells You About Being a Gay Widower.
Corporate Rejected Joseph Federico. He Said Fine And Bet On Himself!
Shaun Williams Knows Why Gay Men Are Exhausted and Nobody Is Talking About It
Pretty Privilege in the Gay World: Truth, Myth, and the Lie You Keep Telling Yourself – Rick Clemons
Ken Breniman on Naked Yoga, Death Awareness, and Why Gay Men Over 40 Must Stop Avoiding Mortality
Mike Elliott Says the Thing No Man Wants to Hear: Your Relationships Are a Mirror of You
Rich Burns Says the Quiet Part Out Loud That Gay Men Over 40 Have Been Thinking for Years
Kit Roughhouse on Gay Erotica, Reinvention, and Telling the Truth After 40
Belonging, Safety, and the Body: Reclaiming Authenticity as Gay Men with Devin Scott
Living Without an Esophagus: Cancer, Community, and LGBTQ Resilience with Dallas Oliver
Prostate Cancer Is Silent, and Why Gay Men Over 40 Must Pay Attention – Dr. Arthur L. Burnett II
The Truth About Bulimia, Divorce, and the Secrets Gay Men Keep – Kyle Ridley
Heated Rivalry: The Love War You Keep Fighting With Yourself – Rick Clemons
Can You Still Get Hard After 40? Shay Doran on Performance Anxiety for Gay Men
Gay or Straight, Same Relationship Struggles: Attachment, Boundaries, and Starting Over with Ralph Brewer
The Art of Male Boudoir: Confidence, Intimacy & Body Liberation with Photographer Trey Fox
Glowing Up Gay: A Late-Life Coming Out, Authenticity Story with Peter Leahy
From Rock Bottom to Reinvention: Late-Life Gay Awakening & Recovery with David Osterman
Lonely, Sober, and Still Searching: How Gay Men Build Real Connection Without Losing Themselves – Christopher Tompkins
Black Queer Dance, Masculinity & The Politics of Passing – Dr. Mark Broomfield
Why Queer History Matters: Preserving Pride, Power, and Our Stories – Adrian Cardwell
From Number Crunching to Piano Keys: Mike Maimone’s Journey of Love, Loss & Reinvention
Inside the Rise of GADDIES: Building Community, Culture & Confidence for Gay Dads – David Morgenstern
Coming Out at 70: The Courage to Be Courageous with – Dan Bolen
Aging Out Loud: Midlife, Self-Acceptance, and Gay Wisdom with – John Patrick
Running Toward Change: Dakarai Larriett on Faith, Politics, and Courage in Alabama – Dakarai Larriett
Intimacy, Aging, and the New Era of Sexual Wellness– Jeff Abraham
Creativity, Authenticity & Aging: A Halloween Conversation with Author Ricky Baxter
From Stonewall to Florida: Drag, Activism, and Keeping Pride Alive in Troubled Times – Eric Swanson
Playfulness, Possibility, and Queer Joy After 40 – Cas Holman
Coming Out, Family, and Community: Brian Bond of PFLAG National on National Coming Out Day
Pleasure Meets Protection: The Power of Talking Condoms – Milla Impola
From Law School to Dance Stage: David Rousseve on Love, Loss, and Bold Artistic Journeys
Writing LGBTQ+ Truths in Turbulent Times – John Casey
How Gay Men Can Get Their Financial Health On Track – Brian Thompson
Discovering The Power of Rituals & Spirituality In Our 40 Plus Gay Lives – Bill Hulseman
Gay Mens Guide To Working the Room Without Working Too Hard – with Rob Giardinelli
Poetry, Prostate Cancer, and Preserving Queer Legacy – A Conversation with Mickie Kennedy
A Story of Queer Family, Reinvention & Radical Love – Brian and Brandon Gorman
Why Gay Men Struggle with “No”: Rejection, Control & the Path Back to Embodiment – JoJo Bear
Party of 3: Love, Lust, and Throuple Realness with Christopher Rice – C. Travis Rice
Rope, Ritual & Erotic Expression In A Chaotic world: A Conversation with Court Vox
Coming Out Later in Life: The Power, The Pain, and The Freedom – Mark Dembo
App Fatigue, Real Connection & Becoming Your Own Damn Matchmaker – with Tammy Shaklee
The Weight of Shame: Gay, Latinx, and Finding Your Way Back to Yourself – Lucas Saiter
How to Navigate A World Bent On Not Talking To Each Other – David Grasso
Your Gay Psyche is a Temple Where Your Super Comes Alive – Cory Schneider
Sashaying Away From Shame This Pride Season – Adam MacLean
Pride, Power & the Politics of Showing Up: A Conversation with Brad Pritchett – Equality Texas
How to Embrace Queer Joy This Pride Season – Damian Pelliccione (They/Them)
Taking PRIDE in our Mental Health – Will Dempsey
Reimagining Mental Health for Gay, CIS and Trans Queer Men – Rahim Thawer
What does it really mean to be Queer and Christian? – Brandan Robertson
The Trouble With Throuples – Jeff Hudson
Navigating Breakups and Toxic Relationships as A Gay Man – Lonay Halloum
Why Staying In Your Hetero Marriage As A Gay Man Can Work – Wayne Scott
How To Make Money Your Gay Best Friend (MGBF) – David Lester
Discovering The Connection to My Inner Erotic Self – Rick Clemons
How to step into the color of your life - Corey Powell
The Law of Zero For Gay Men – Chad Michael Hardy
Safe Ways To Travel and See The Planet as a Gay Man – Lindsey Danis
The Oneness Of Being Queer and Jewish – Rabbi Steve Greenberg
Embracing the Beauty of Being Gay, Black, and HIV Positive – Jordan J. Edwards
Dear Black Gay Men – Jai The Gentleman
The Art & Adventure Open Relationships – Dr. Wade Maggert
315: Sex, Science, and Solutions For Gay Men – Dr. Joshua Gonzales
314: How Not To Lose Your Sanity As A Gay Man In These Crazy Times - Rick Clemons
313: How Disco Defined Gay Life Today – Frank DeCaro
312: Sex, Shame, Boundaries, Tech, and Porn for the Gay Man. – Brandon Simpson
311: Connecting Deeper with Bodily Pleasure As Gay Men – Court Vox
310: Overcoming Trauma with Mindfulness – Dr. Jason Durant
309: Mindful Aging For Gay Man – Theresa Skaar
308: The Go To Relationship Guide For Gay Men – Tom Bruett
307: How Gay Camping Helps You Overcome Social Anxiety & Embracing Mistakes – Upton Rand
306: Let’s Talk About Enhancing Pleasure for Gay Men – Dr. Israel Martinez
305: Breaking the Stigma: Embracing Gay Sex Work with Respect and Understanding – Matthew Roberts
304: Gay Man's Guide For Finding Healing and Strength in Chaotic Times – Wil Fisher
303: Confidence to embrace the master and slave within for an amazing life – Philip Poole
301: The Art of LGBTQ Affirming Therapy and Sex Positivity – Ann Russo
301: Standing Proud, Meeting The Moment – Voting For Your Life – Rick Clemons
300: How To Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind – Todd Baratz
299: How to move from apathy, empathy, and Into action – Darren Calhoun
298: National Coming Out Day and Get Out To Vote – Rick Clemons
297: How to release yourself into the fantasy and reality of being a sexual being – Emma Sayle
296: Exploring the Girth Of Your Manhood – Dr. Joel Pash
295: Jin DeLuong – The Naked Way To Connect – With or Without Sex
294: Unleashing the Monsters In Our Closets – Mark Julien
293 – Erotic Pleasure – It’s Every Gay Man’s Right To Experience – Ayce Kyptyn
292: Craig Cullinane – Using The Body Electric to Heal From Religious Programming
291: Max Austin – We can’t be wrong and other gay truths
290 – Never Let The Making of Our Gay History Be Forgotten – Erick Marcus
289: Luis Baez – Charting your course and career as a gay man
288: – Finding Peace As A Gay Man – Dr. Wade Maggert
287: Christopher Adams – Reliving Where We Came From As Gay Men To Thrive
286: Mark Pettit – Living his best ANKRBOY life
285: Ronald Hunter – Discover what happens when gay angels get their wings
284: Jay Claypool – Gay AF from the farm, military, to the drag stage!
283: C. Travis Rice – Making Room For Romance In Your Gay Life
282: Wade Maggert – Breaking Free and Practicing Self-Love
281: Kadeem Alphanso Fyffe – Threading the needle of gay success
280: Michael Pezzullo – How To Navigate The Partying Ways Of Gay Life
287: Michael Andor Brodeur – The true meaning of muscle in a gay mans world
278: Dr. Gary Bucher – Making Butt Health A Priority
277: Rick Clemons – Your Pursuit of Passion is BS
276: Matt Boyles – Fitter Confident YOUNIVERSE for Gay Men
275: Jeza Belle – Yes You Can Be Christian and a Drag Queen
274: Kevin Spirtas – Navigating Fame, Love, Loss, and Hollywood
273: Steve Milliken – A Late Bloomer, Baby Bloomers Guide to Being Gay
272: Allen Scott – From Pornography Addiction to Redemption
271: Adam Lippin – Tap into being heard with HearMe.app As A Gay Man
270: Gregory Allen – 40 + and thriving beyond the monsters in his life!
Rick Clemons – Gay and Gray – The Party is Not Over!
268: Justin Reinert – Creating a Sense Of Belonging For You and Your Community
267- Rick Clemons: 10 Ways To Move on After A Breakup
266: Stan Goldberg – Preventing Senior Moments
265: Rick Clemons – 10 Things Gay Men Can Do To Drop Their B.S. And Be Happier!
264: Joli Hamilton – Uncomplicating the fire of open relationships
263: Legrand Wolf – Why Normalizing Gay Porn and Gay Fantasies Is Good For The World
262: Craig Cullinane – Why every gay man needs erotic and pleasure education!
261: Tommy Whitehead – Living Out And Proud In Your Industry
260: MJ Harris – How to Get THe F*CK Out Of Your Own Way
259: Sean Fitzgerald – Alternatives For Staying On Top Of Your Health
258: River Faire – Stepping Into Radical Integrity As A Gay Man
257: Rick Clemons – What are you willing to…in 2024
256: Kevin Jones – Living Out & Proud In The Corporate Closet
255: Adam Fitzgerald – Recovering from Recovery. Another way to sobriety.
254: Dr. Elliot Justin – How to have thriving erections at any age!
253: Tammy Shaklee – Making A Match With Your Dream Man
252: Rick Clemons – Avoiding The Hurry Scurry Holiday Syndrome
251: Warren Augustin – Transforming Into Yourself & Letting Go
250: Elliott Kronenfeld – Navigating Gay Empty Nester Syndrome
249: Tate Barkley – Moving Beyond The Chaos Of Your Past As A Gay Man
248: Wyatt O. Evans – Confronting The Reality of Intimate Partner Violence and Abuse
247: Kenny Bramlett-Martin – The art of being yourself at any age and owning it
246: Victor Diaz – Stepping Beyond Your Past
Rick Clemons – Let’s Celebrate National Coming Out Day
245: Kevin Kasir – Navigating The Daddy Thirst Trap
244: Ed Wilson – What Does It Really Mean To Be A Gay Man?
243: Dale Allen-Rowse – Finding the Spiritual Disco of Your Soul
242: Matthew Bennett – Being The Leather Master of Your Life
241: Grant Miller – Navigating His Life Line One Obstacle At A Time
240: Jason Galvez – Moving Beyond Betrayal and Trauma
239: Corey and Kendall Stulce – Finding Your Self & The Life You Missed
238: Rob Gutro – Uncovering the life lessons in the after life
237: Jonathan Lee – 40 Single Gay…You’re Not Alone!
236: Gary Logan & Rob Grover – The magic of mushrooms and conscious gay living
235: Amber LeMay (Bob Bolyard) – Living Out & Proud And Having Fun
234: Michael Coleman – Live Your Best Gay Life Without Apologies
233: Nick Santo – Your better than your guilt, shame, and anxiety
232 Bill Robertson – How To Never Stop Being Yourself
231: Dr. Roger Leslie – Doing your gay life your way
230: Jim Fielding – Living a All Pride, No Ego Life
229: Rick Clemons – Celebrating Pride with the Letter “D”
228: Rick Clemons – Celebrating Pride with the Letter “I”
227: Rick Clemons – Celebrating Pride with the Letter “R”
226: Rick Clemons – Let’s Celebrate Pride with the Letter “P”
225: Harker Jones – To Find Your Passion – Just Do Something!
224: Jon Fischer – Embracing Your Bear and Bare Self
223: Rick Clemons – Time To Stop Rejecting Our Gay Brothers
222: Jarrod Lee – Daring To Be Fit On Your Terms As A Gay Man
221: Wil Fisher – Embracing your deeper self as a gay man
220: Court Vox – Sex, Intimacy, and Being Your Most Delicious Erotic Gay Self
219: Rick Clemons – BANK on yourself as a gay man
218: Sex, Queer, and Christian – OH MY!!! – Jon Carl Lewis
217: Rick Clemons – Dating with Dignity, not Drudgery
216: Over 40 Fitness Hacks For Gay Men – Brad Williams
215: Coming Out & Losing Out – John MacDonald
214: Find Your Gay Wellness Match – Peter DeWitt
213: Electrifying your way out of gay male body shame – Craig Cullinane
212: Don’t Dis The Disabled Guys In Your Gay Dating – Stephen Fratello
211: Two Things Getting In The Way of Getting Your Man – Rick Clemons
210: Stroking the big “E” to get along better as a gay man – Rob Volpe
209: Let Your Sexual Freak Flag Fly – Rick Clemons
208: Gay Men’s Get Out of Debt Guide – David and John Auten-Schneider
207: Breaking the More, Better, Different Cycle For Success – Rick Clemons
206: Hacking Your Way To Better Sexual Health For Gay Men– Dr. Judson Brandeis
205: Declutter Your Gay Life For 2023 – RIck Clemons
204: Stroke This, Not That, And Survive – RIck Clemons
203: Navigating Loss and Grief of a Partner- Jason Arnold
202: Overcoming The “Pleaser” Within – RIck Clemons
201: Being An Authentic Gay Man: It’s Truly Possible – Coach Maddox
200: Give a shot to the heart in your online dating – Michael Kaye
199: Leverage your milestones instead of complaining – Rick Clemons
198: Up Your Cocksmanship – Susan Bratton
197: Find Your Just Right Spot For Aging Gracefully – Loren Ostrow
196: How to be a Titan of Building Your Own Business – Stefaan DeVreese
195: A Gay Man’s Guide To Life – Britt East
194: It’s never too late to come out about anything – Rick Clemons
193: Thruples and Polyamory – Kitty Chambliss
192: Combating “Button Pushing” Syndrome – Rick Clemons
191: Sex, Drugs, and Jesus – DeVannon Hubert
190: The New Masculine For Gay Men – Travis Stock
189: Stop shaming Monogamy, Open Relationships, and Polyamory – Rick Clemons
188: Embracing A Holistic Approach To HIV & Monkeypox – Jill Baker
187: Staying Sane As Our LGBTQ Lives Are The Targets Again– Rick Clemons
186: Finding Your Passion, Purpose, and A Thriving Career – John Thorpe
185: Lessons Learned After Another Trip Around The Sun – Rick Clemons
184: Helping Gay Men Feel Seen and Heard – Adam Lippin
183: Navigating Your Way To Your Passion and Purpose – Scott Gatz
182: Stop being petrified to show up as a gay man – Rick Clemons
181: The Joy of Navigating An Ever Changing Career Ride – Michael Novin
180: Living an Inspired Queer LIfe After 40 – Darren Stehle
179: Getting Your Sexual Mojo On – Bryan “Uncle B” Ayers
178: How To Not Lose Yourself As Your Parents Age – Rick Clemons
177 – How To Be Proud About Coming Out Late In Life – Rick Clemons
176: Overcoming External Validation Syndrome – Rick Clemons
175: Having PRIDE at Any Age and Stage of Your Gay Life – Rick Clemons
174: Gay Dad, Jocks, and Athletics: Oh MY! – Bradley Jacobs
173: No more neckties…Just Be Gay – Dr. Loren A. Olsen, MD
172: Moving Past Being “Friendzoned” – Rick Clemons
171: Are You Making Room For A Man In Your Life? – Rick Clemons
170: Lessons Learned From The Frugal Gay – Tom Brickman
169: The Art Of Self-Forgiveness – Rick Clemons
168: Stop the “Should-ing” and Starting Doing These 10 Things As A Gay Guy – RIck Clemons
167: Kicking Ass By Being Your Own Gay Leadership Dude – Dr. Steve Yacovelli
166: Stop Fooling Yourself & Living A Fools Life – Rick Clemons
165: Dissecting The Truth Of Gay Men: Coach to Coach – Brian Madigan
164: Slaying The Inner And Outer Narcissist – Rick Clemons
163: The Art of Truly Loving Yourself As A Gay Man – Jerome Braggs
162: Give yourself a little RESPECT – Rick Clemons
161: Skin Care, Plastics, And All That Anti-Aging Jazz – J. Shea Terry
160: Do we really have to play sexual roles? – Rick Clemons
159: Loving Yourself This Valentine’s Day – Steve Disselhorst
158: Conquering The Confidence Conundrum – Rick Clemons
157: Yup. You’re No Good At Gay Sex! Really? – Rick Clemons
156: How Do You Do Gay – Rick Clemons
155 – There is Gay Life Beyond Prostate Cancer – Kenneth A. Johnson
154: Breaking The “I don’t know syndrome!” – Rick Clemons
153: Ready. Set. Let Your Intentions Guide You in 2022 -Rick Clemons
152: 12 Gifts You Should Give Yourself This Holiday – Rick Clemons
151: Healing Religious Wounds – Eric Feltes
150: What if there were no hook-up apps? – Rick Clemons
149: You’re Never Too Old To Say – Judge Me Not – James Merrick
148: Holiday Prep – No Douche Required – Rick Clemons
147: Killing Your Relationship Expectations – Rick Clemons
146: Self-Awareness – The Gay Man’s Key To LIfe’s Big Ticket Questions – Ed WIlson
145: Internalized Homophobia – Knock That Sh*t Off – Rick Clemons
144: Owning That Dad Bod – Anthony Catalino
143: Defining A Healthy Gay Relationship – Rick Clemons
142: Loving Yourself Through and Out of Addiction – Gregory Silva
141: The Art of Relating, Man-to-Man – Rick Clemons
140: All The Sh*T You Can Do After 40 – Anthony Hand
139: Why Open Relationships Work – Canaan
138: Gay Man’s Manifesto For Living: Part 3 – Rick Clemons
142.1: 20 Years of Making It Work With My Man – Rick Clemons
137: Gay Man’s Manifesto For Living: Part 2 – Rick Clemons
136: Gay Man’s Manifesto For Living: Part 1 – Rick Clemons
135: Why are gay friendships so hard to make? – Rick Clemons
134: Date Smarter. Sexier – Andrea LaRosa
133: How To Start Having Better Sex Now – Rick Clemons
132: Dating for the modern gay guy – Tyler Greenberg
131: Getting Over Your Money BS – Martin Cowart
130: Break free from the “You’ve done so much wrong” syndrome – Rick Clemons
129: How To Break Free From Your Hidden Addictions – Rick Clemons
128: Quit Bitching and Step Up To The Plate – Rick Clemons
127: Why Validation and Attention Seeking is F*CKING You Up! – Rick Clemons
126: It’s Fat Loss Not Weight Loss For The Gay Man – Jack Kunkel
125: Infatuation or love…what is it you really feel? – Rick Clemons
124: Should you be OUT at work – yes or no? – Rick Clemons
123: Stop being commitment phobic you silly homo – Rick Clemons
122: Confidence For The Queer Guy – Yannick Picard
121: Gay GHOSTING is Not Pretty on you – Rick Clemons
120: Dadding, Careers, And All That Gay Stuff – Hans M Hirschi
119: How not to FREAK out when the sex dies – Rick Clemons
118: Aging as a Transman – Sex and all that jazz – Buck Angel!
117: The Ultimate Circle Jerk – Rick Clemons
116: To Be Out or Not To Be Out In Corporate Life – Jeff Nally
115: Let Go Of Your Ex or Shut The F#CK Up – Rick Clemons
113: Pushing Past Loneliness As A Gay Man - Rick Clemons
112: Jealousy and Insecurity – Gay Men’s Worst Enemies – Rick Clemons
111: Why gay men avoid commitment – Rick Clemons
110: Just Be Gay, Gay, Gay…Your Way – Rick Clemons
109: What’s Right With Having An Open Relationship – Rick Clemons
108: How To Have the Confidence Of A Porn Star – Rick Clemons
107: Determined To Be A Dad – Steve Disselhorst
106 – Can you really handle an Intergenerational Relationship? – Rick Clemons
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105: How To Avoid Gay Death Bed – Rick Clemons
104: Best Life Hook-up Tips For 2021 – Rick Clemons
103: The One Gift – Rick Clemons
102 – How To Get Out of Your 40 Plus Life Rut – Rick Clemons
101: Finding Your Soul Center As A Man – Chris Failla
100: 10 Things I’ve Learned As A Guy Over 40 – Rick Clemons
099: The art of Humility & Acceptance – Rick Clemons
098: You’re never too old to be fully yourself – Colton Ford
097: Men, Intimacy, and Affection – Get Over It Already – Rick Clemons
096: More To Life and Work After Coming Out Late In Life - Peter McGuire
095 - Embracing a "Why Not" Mindset - Rick Clemons
094: Being Better Beings – Michelle Zellner
093: Stepping Into and Letting Go of Love – Rick Clemons
092: Tap Into The Power of Your Younger Self, Even In a Pandemic – Rick Clemons
091: How your hard “No’s” are ruining your life – Rick Clemons
090 – Helping men find peace in a chaotic world – Steve Strother
089: Becoming A Boomer Musician – Michael Fairman
88: Creating Radical Alignment In LIfe & Love – Alexandra Jamieson & Bob Gower
087: How to come to terms with the “What’s next?” question – David Hooper
086– Gay and 40 Plus – William Smith
085: Fitter Healthier Dad – Darren Kirby
084 – Developing The Attitude of Gratitude – Chris DT Gordon
083: Stop playing it safe and do what you love – Tripp Lanier
082: Embracing F*CK Ups When They Happen– Rick Clemons
081: Why your mindset makes the day, every day of your life – Tomi Dagan
80: Real Talk, About Being A Male Victim of Sexual and Physical Abuse – Brian Cardoza