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100 First Dates

by Ally & CJ

dating & relationships chit-chat in NYC

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Episodes

  1. Not That Complicated 12: Willy's Got Wings (The App)

    Entrepreneur and designer, Willy, 28, sits down with us to talk about his app in development, called Wings. Like a wing-man or wing-woman, the app crowdsources advice on what to say and do while navigating the choppy skies of online dating. Want to send or respond to a text? How long to wait?…

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  2. Not That Complicated 11: Lookin' For My Person

    Beth and I met a couple years ago and have a ton in common. We're the same age, we're improvisers, writers, beautiful, fun, and share the same values. AND...we're both looking for our person - not "the one", but the right one for us. We banter about the best and worst dating apps - I introduced…

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  3. Not That Complicated 10: City of Unrequited Love

    I met Jay the typical New York way: a friend's cousin's wife's friend or some person whose relationship to me is so-complicated-I-don't-even-remember introduced us because we both have blogs about love. Now we're direct friends and I'm glad because he's smart, creative, single (and tall!), sweet,...

  4. Not That Complicated 9: VDay & The Roster

    People, it's February. It's below freezing outside every day in NYC. Let's get real: you're not dating until spring and neither am I. Stay inside, grab a blanket and a mug of hot chocolate, and find out what the heck this photo has to do with anything. Special guest Nicole,...

  5. Not That Complicated 8: Nourish Your (Gay) Soul

    A scene from Craig's beautiful, clean apartment Hard to believe this podcast is one year old (they grow up so fast!). For this special anniversary, CJ and I invited our friend Craig who is gay, handsome, and single to chat about gay dating culture, weird ways to meet men (what happens in gym…

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  6. Not That Complicated 7: Ben the Farmer

    With Autumn comes beards, flannels, and apparently...Lumbersexuals. On this episode CJ and I chat with Ben the Farmer, who is a real farmer and a real Lumbersexual (not the hipster kind). Remember Ben? He was one of the #BeMy100 date finalists with his faceless, ax wielding, yet sexy Instagram...

  7. Not That Complicated 6: Culture Matters - US v. Scandinavia

    Emily drank a latte and did her nails in 5 different colors while chatting with CJ and I about what it's like to date in Sweden and Norway versus NYC. Let's just say I looked into plane tickets right after this taping. It all sounds much easier and organic and frankly, quite dreamy. Why? Because,...

  8. Not That Complicated 5: Polyamory - I love you, and you, and you.

    CJ and I learn about polyamory, open relationships, and swinging. They are not the same! Although Suzie claims her polyamorous relationship with Blaine is "a lot more boring than you think", we couldn't disagree more. Like any relationship it requires open communication, trust in your partner and...

  9. Not That Complicated 4: Two Dudes & Some Online Dates

    Asher and Nick (two dudes) talk to us about online dating from the guy's point of view. Profiles, pictures, what to do when the freak flags fly. From Tinder to JDate we chat about it all. And yeah...apparently there are prostitutes on Tinder. Ok, sure.

  10. Not That Complicated 3: The Science of Love (and dating)

    This episode CJ and I chat with science-lover Amy about how we humans are wired for romantic love, why you should run away from bad-smelling dates, and always, always trust your gut.

  11. Not That Complicated 2: Women Are Like Salsa

    In our sunny kitchen in Wiliamsburg, Brooklyn, my "domestic partner" Tony and I talk about the weird singles event we went to in February (free Bud Light!), technology's affect on relationships, and how dating in NYC is like shopping for salsa. Music by DJ Snatch, a radio edit of Louis…

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  12. Not That Complicated 1: Resolutions & Evolutions

    In a kitchen on the upper (upper) west side, good friend CJ and I talked New Year's resolutions, past relationships, casual monogamy, and what the hell this talk show is all about. Have a listen and then share your questions, thoughts, and revelations in the comments or here. Music by Prince, "I...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

dating & relationships chit-chat in NYC

HOSTED BY

Ally & CJ

Produced by Lisa Pertoso

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dating & relationships chit-chat in NYC

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