3 Cocktails In

Three friends raise their red mocktails in a bittersweet toast as they announce their final podcast episode after nearly two years of weekly recordings. What began as pandemic-era Zoom calls evolved into a journey that pushed them far beyond their comfort zones, teaching them valuable lessons about technology, friendship, and embracing change."When you let something go, it doesn't mean it was a failure. It means it was accomplished," one host reflects, capturing the spirit of this farewell conversation. The trio looks back at favorite moments – from interviewing reluctant but ultimately enthusiastic guests to documenting their adventures in Paris, Florence, and Venice despite minimal language skills. They reminisce about episodes that resonated most with listeners, including discussions about making new friends in midlife, career transitions, and personal growth.Throughout their podcasting journey, these women navigated significant life changes together. One returned to a relationship after five years apart, another received news of becoming a grandmother, and all three made career shifts that transformed their daily lives. One host shares how she finally established a consistent exercise routine after leaving her corporate job, noting that sometimes we need decompression periods before we can move forward: "It just wasn't time yet... but then, all of a sudden, it was time."As they transition back to private weekly Zoom calls – "scheduling friendship" as they call it – the hosts express gratitude to their loyal listeners and leave the door open for possible "special edition" episodes for major life announcements. Their parting wisdom: "Do the thing and surround yourself with people who will cheer you on" and "Pour your energies into the good things that you want to happen."Want more inspiration for embracing change and stepping outside your comfort zone? Follow our Facebook page, where the conversation continues even as this chapter closes.Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Two friends, two carry-ons, and one unforgettable Italian adventure! Amy and Stacey take us along on their summer journey through Florence, Venice, and beyond, sharing candid insights that will inspire even hesitant travelers to pack their bags.Their contrasting travel styles create the perfect balance – Stacey embraces the "we've never been there so how do we know it's not great?" philosophy while Amy researches options meticulously. This partnership leads them to unique accommodations including an art-filled Florentine apartment where royal family portraits hang in bathrooms and an unexpected boxing match unfolds outside their window.The duo navigates Italy's efficient train system between cities, discovering the charm of Murano island with its legendary glass blowing traditions and comically tiny showers where "if you drop the soap, you have to turn everything off and open the door to retrieve it." They explore Florence's historic wine doors from a vintage VW van, tour Chianti vineyards with fascinating backstories, and battle 99-degree heat that transforms museum visits into endurance challenges.What makes this episode particularly valuable is their practical wisdom for everyday travelers. They debunk common fears about language barriers, demonstrate how to pack efficiently for extended international trips, and show that meaningful travel doesn't require expertise – just willingness to embrace new experiences. Their genuine enthusiasm for discovery comes through in every story, from hunting perfect Murano glass souvenirs to sipping Negronis (despite finding them "awful") and shipping home Italian wines.Have you been putting off international travel? Listen as these friends prove that with minimal planning, reasonable budgets, and open minds, unforgettable adventures await. Where will your next journey take you?Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

What would you do with $200 million? It's the ultimate daydream – one that reveals surprising truths about our values, relationships, and what we find most burdensome in daily life.We discovered that fantasizing about lottery winnings can actually be therapeutic. As one host explains, imagining how she'd distribute newfound wealth helps pull her out of bad moods. It's pure fantasy without the disappointment of reality crashing in.Beyond the expected luxuries (dream homes with pools and personal chefs), the conversation takes thoughtful turns. They debate the wisdom of lump sum versus annuity payments, strategies for gifting money to family without creating dependency or resentment, and how to maintain friendships when sudden wealth creates imbalance. One particularly clever idea: creating a "girlfriend travel fund" ensuring annual trips with friends who might not otherwise be able to afford them.What's most revealing are their charitable priorities. Libraries with banned books included, funds ensuring no child misses a school field trip due to family finances, and endowments that continue giving perpetually. These choices reflect deeply held values about education, opportunity, and equity.Curiously absent from their wish lists: fancy cars, designer clothes, and ostentatious displays of wealth. Instead, their desires center around freedom from daily burdens, meaningful experiences, and positive impact. As one host notes, the chances of winning are infinitesimal – "you're more likely to die in a vending machine accident" – but that doesn't diminish the pleasure of the thought experiment.What would YOUR lottery list reveal about what matters most to you? Share your thoughts and join us for this delightful conversation that's less about money and more about examining what we truly value.Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

The journey to forge meaningful adult friendships continues as we check in on month four of our year-long Friendship Project. Overcoming the inertia of social isolation takes creativity, courage, and sometimes just a flat driveway and some pickleball paddles!Stacey shares her brilliant success story of inviting six neighbor women for casual pickleball games, creating a regular gathering where the breaks have become everyone's favorite part. "The best part is when we sit in my lawn chairs, chat, and then finally one of us will say, 'We have to get up and play some more,'" she explains. This organic approach to deepening casual relationships has created consistent social connections that everyone looks forward to.Meanwhile, Amy describes her strategy of making "micro-connections" through thoughtful social media engagement, discovering how these small touchpoints can blossom into rekindled friendships. Kitty reveals how she's leveraging professional online groups to create relationships that will transition to in-person connections at an upcoming convention.Looking ahead to month five, we outline practical next steps for strengthening these budding friendships, including follow-up texts, transitioning group acquaintances into deeper one-on-one relationships, and attending community events with a new mindset. As Kitty reflects on an upcoming concert, "I don't give a crap if we're going with somebody or meeting somebody up there. I just want to go, just the two of us, and who knows who we'll run into?"Join us to learn how small, intentional actions can break through social barriers and create meaningful connections in adulthood. What friendship-building strategy might work for you? Listen, try something new, and let us know how it goes!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Ever held onto a grudge only to realize it was weighing you down more than the person who hurt you? In this illuminating conversation with our friend Deanna, a certified faith-based counselor, we unpack what forgiveness truly means and why it's critical for our emotional health.Forgiveness isn't about pretending nothing happened. As Deanna explains, it's making "a commitment to no longer hold the offender to a standard of moral liability before you." In other words, it's letting them off YOUR hook of justice – not eliminating consequences altogether. This distinction completely changed our understanding of what it means to forgive.The cost of unforgiveness is steep. Deanna walks us through the emotional ladder we climb when we refuse to forgive: from hurt to anger to resentment to bitterness and finally to hatred. Meanwhile, the person who wronged us is often "tripping through the tulips," completely unaffected by our internal turmoil. When we grasp this reality, forgiveness becomes an act of self-liberation rather than a gift to the offender.We tackle tough questions you've probably wrestled with: Should we forgive people who don't think they've done anything wrong? Is "forgive and forget" actually possible? How do you forgive someone who's no longer in your life? And how does setting boundaries play into the forgiveness process? Deanna's insights on these questions are both practical and profound.Whether you're struggling to forgive someone who deeply hurt you, wondering if you should reconcile after betrayal, or simply curious about what healthy forgiveness really looks like, this conversation offers a roadmap for moving forward. As Deanna reminds us, "Forgiveness is worth it. Forgiveness is necessary. All relationships flourish with it."Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

What happens when beloved stories from our past get reimagined for today? The Four Seasons, a 1981 film starring Alan Alda and Carol Burnett, recently received the Netflix treatment as an eight-episode series. This transformation provides the perfect lens to examine how our storytelling, character development, and cultural values have evolved over forty years.The original film centered on three couples who vacation together throughout the year until one husband abruptly divorces his wife and introduces a younger girlfriend into their tight-knit circle. While this core premise remains in the Netflix reboot, the modern version dives deeper into the emotional complexities and friendship dynamics that ensue. One fascinating revelation: while the basic human emotions around friendship breakups haven't changed much, social media has profoundly altered how these ruptures unfold. As one host notes, "What you didn't know didn't hurt you" in the pre-digital era – but today, we're constantly confronted with visual evidence of events we weren't invited to.Perhaps the most striking evolution appears in how women are portrayed. The 1981 film presented female characters primarily as "the wives," reacting to their husbands' actions despite being smart and witty in their own right. Fast forward to the Netflix series, and we find women as entrepreneurs, therapists, and creatives with full agency and independent storylines. In some cases, the dynamic flips entirely, with female characters taking on the dominant roles their male counterparts occupied in the original. This shift reflects four decades of progress in how we represent women in media.The conversation extends beyond The Four Seasons to consider other classics that have been (or perhaps should be) remade. Some, like The Ten Commandments, might benefit tremendously from modern cinematography and storytelling approaches. Others, like The Sound of Music, stand perfectly well on their own. What makes a reboot worthwhile? When it honors the original while bringing something new to the conversation – exactly what the Four Seasons series managed to accomplish. Have you watched both versions? We'd love to hear which elements you think were most successfully updated for today's world.Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

What small things make your blood boil? Those tiny, seemingly insignificant behaviors or mistakes that somehow manage to drive you absolutely crazy? We're diving headfirst into the therapeutic world of pet peeves in this candid, laugh-out-loud episode.Grammar mistakes top our list of irritations. From the cringe-worthy "these ones" and "irregardless" to people who say "I seen that," we're letting loose about the language errors that make our skin crawl. As one of us points out, "It makes you sound uneducated, and I would think you'd want to improve." But our venting doesn't stop there.The marketing world gives us plenty to complain about, particularly with misleading product descriptions. "Vegan leather" – an oxymoron deserving special scorn – alongside "almond milk" and "cauliflower rice" exemplify how language gets twisted for sales purposes. Meanwhile, social interactions provide endless material: conversation dominators, one-uppers, and people who simply cannot read social cues that it's time to wrap things up.Technology and media haven't escaped our notice either. News programs that tease stories only to deliver them at the broadcast's end, vague social media posts asking for "thoughts and prayers" without context, and those multi-post Twitter threads that force readers to hunt for information all earn our collective eye-rolling.We wrap up by comparing our grievances with the "official" top ten pet peeves, finding common ground in universal irritations like loud chewing, chronic tardiness, and the office criminal who reheats fish at lunchtime. This episode serves as both comic relief and validation – you're definitely not alone in being bothered by life's little annoyances!What's your biggest pet peeve? We'd love to hear what drives you crazy. And feel free to share this episode with that friend who's guilty of your particular irritation. As we say, "Blame it on us – we've got big shoulders."Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Have you ever caught yourself scrolling through social media and suddenly feeling inadequate? Or glanced sideways at a colleague's success while trying to stay in your lane? The comparison trap has a sneaky way of creeping into our lives, stealing our joy and zapping our confidence in milliseconds.In this deeply relatable conversation, we unpack the various ways comparison manifests in our lives – from coveting the seemingly perfect lives of social media influencers to measuring ourselves against colleagues' successes and even comparing our current selves to who we once were. We explore how comparison operates on multiple levels and why it can feel so difficult to escape its clutches.The discussion takes an honest turn as we share personal struggles with comparison and the self-doubt that follows. We examine how social media creates unrealistic benchmarks for success and happiness, showcasing curated versions of reality that nobody – not even the influencers themselves – can actually maintain. But this isn't just about identifying the problem; we offer practical strategies to break free: unfollowing accounts that trigger negative feelings, focusing on your unique journey, practicing gratitude, and celebrating others' successes without feeling diminished.Perhaps most powerfully, we discuss the importance of extending grace to ourselves. As one host notes, "The comparison trap is the opposite of grace." Learning to accept where we are right now doesn't mean giving up on growth – it means acknowledging our humanity and treating ourselves with the compassion we'd easily offer others.Ready to break free from the comparison trap? Listen now, and remember this powerful affirmation: "My worth isn't up for comparison. My story is mine alone." Subscribe, share your experiences with comparison, and let us know what topics you'd like us to explore in future episodes!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Ever found yourself staring blankly at something that absolutely refuses to make sense? You're not alone. In this hilarious and relatable episode, we dive headfirst into life's most persistent mysteries – those things we just don't get no matter how many times they're explained.Retirement savings limitations kick off our confusion tour. Why, when you're finally making enough money to seriously save for retirement, does the government cap how much you can put away tax-free? This leads us down the rabbit hole of unnecessarily complicated tax systems. We've all seen the memes about the IRS making you guess what you owe – but the frustrating reality isn't far off!The conversation takes a turn toward the automotive when we ponder why anyone would want their car to be louder with dual mufflers, or trucks to be higher with lift kits. Is there a practical purpose, or is it just about making a statement? Either way, we remain thoroughly perplexed.Things get particularly entertaining when we explore modern slang terms that leave older generations completely bewildered. From "gyat" to "sigma males" to the completely nonsensical "chicken jockey" (apparently something you randomly shout to disrupt quiet moments?), we attempt to decipher the code of Gen Z communication with mixed results. Our conclusion? Maybe every generation creates linguistic barriers specifically to confuse their elders.We also touch on the psychology behind internet trolls, the importance of establishing family "safe words" to protect against sophisticated AI scams, and why meaningful change to broken systems faces such strong resistance. Through it all, we find comfort and humor in our shared confusion.Want to join the conversation? Share the things that leave you scratching your head with us on social media, or submit your own questions for a future episode! And remember – sometimes the best response to life's mysteries is simply "chicken jockey."Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

The friendship drought is real. As we navigate our busy adult lives, making genuine connections becomes increasingly challenging, especially when established friends move away. In this heartfelt episode of Three Cocktails In, Stacey, Kitty, and Amy continue their year-long "Project 2025: Make a New Friend" journey with practical strategies for connection in the digital age.Surprisingly, Facebook groups emerge as friendship goldmines when centered around shared interests. Amy shares how her crafting community has blossomed into meaningful relationships despite members living states apart. The hosts exchange laughs about their collective failure to join new in-person groups last month while acknowledging the very real time constraints that make digital connections so valuable for busy adults.Summer offers unique opportunities for connection, and the conversation sparkles with creative ideas: community education classes that group people by skill level, neighborhood "porch crawls," farmers' markets, local baseball games, and art festivals. The key insight? Consistency matters more than the specific activity—showing up regularly to the same places increases your chances of forming relationships with fellow regulars.The conversation takes a poignant turn as Kitty opens up about the anger she felt when close friends moved away without warning. This resonates deeply as the hosts acknowledge we're entering life stages where retirements and relocations will increasingly challenge our friendship circles.With equal parts humor, vulnerability, and practical advice, this episode validates the struggle while offering a roadmap for connection. Whether you're an introvert seeking digital communities or ready to organize that neighborhood gathering, you'll find strategies that respect your comfort level while gently expanding your social horizons.Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Two months after the Oscars, it's time to revisit the award-winning films with fresh perspectives and honest opinions. Did these movies truly deserve their golden statues, or were some victories more puzzling than impressive?"Conclave" emerges as the unexpected star of our conversation. This papal election drama gained eerie relevance following recent Vatican events, with all hosts agreeing it deserved more than its single Oscar for Best Adapted Screenplay. The film's exploration of church politics, stunning ensemble cast, and nuanced storytelling make it a unanimous recommendation.Meanwhile, Best Picture winner "Anora" proves divisive. Described by one host as "incredibly depressing, disgusting, and dirty," this so-called "indie dramedy" raises questions about what makes a film Oscar-worthy. The revelation that Academy voters weren't previously required to watch all nominated films before voting casts doubt on the legitimacy of past winners, suggesting some victories might be more about marketing than merit.Other films receive varied verdicts: Bob Dylan biopic "A Complete Unknown" surprises Dylan non-fans with its engaging storytelling and Timothée Chalamet's committed performance; "The Brutalist" proves worth its three-hour runtime with Adrian Brody's captivating portrayal of a Holocaust survivor; while horror-satire "Substance" prompts discussion about why established actors like Demi Moore choose such unusual projects.Beyond film analysis, we propose a new segment for future episodes—"Weirdest Thing on Social Media"—sharing bizarre findings that left us scratching our heads. We also touch on Nicole Kidman's impressive work ethic, appearing in countless diverse projects while rumors swirl about her personal life.What Oscar films have you caught up on since March? Which deserved their accolades, and which left you confused? Share your thoughts and recommendations for what we should watch next!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

What happens when three lifelong friends tackle the complex, beautiful, and often hilarious topic of motherhood? Heartfelt stories, nostalgic memories, and plenty of laughter.Our journey begins with the TV moms who shaped our expectations—from Carol Brady's perfect flip to Claire Huxtable's groundbreaking career-mom balance. We reflect on how these fictional mothers set up ideals that real motherhood rarely matches. Remember June Cleaver vacuuming in pearls? Or the gloriously eccentric Moira Rose? Some of these characters influenced how we viewed motherhood long before we experienced it ourselves.The conversation turns deeply personal as we share the phrases our mothers said that somehow found their way into our own parenting vocabularies. "Because I said so" becomes the ultimate placeholder when we're too exhausted to explain. "You're fine" and "rub some dirt on it" slip out automatically when faced with minor injuries. We've created our own family sayings too, like "It's hard to be you"—which began as genuine empathy for a four-year-old but evolved into good-natured sarcasm over the years.Most touching are our cherished memories: mothers who created beautiful dinner party deco from odds and ends around the house, the lingering scent of perfume as they headed out for the evening, the calm reassurance during difficult moments of early parenthood. We explore how our relationships with our mothers transformed as we aged, moving from parent-child dynamics to deep adult friendships.Whether your mother taught you everything she knew or kept you out of the kitchen entirely, whether she's still with you or lives on in memories, this episode celebrates the women who shaped us and the mothers we've become. Share your own favorite "mom-ism" with us or tell us which TV mom most influenced your idea of motherhood!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

What would you tuck inside a time capsule that tells the story of your life right now? What objects capture your authentic self, your daily rhythms, and what brings you joy? More importantly, how do you want to be remembered when you're gone?In this surprisingly deep conversation, Amy, Stacey, and Kitty explore the powerful concept of preservation and legacy. What begins as a lighthearted discussion about childhood time capsules quickly evolves into a thoughtful examination of what truly matters in our lives and the impression we hope to leave behind.Stacey reveals how her basement has become an unintentional museum of memories, housing everything from high school clothes to her grandmother's vintage hats from the 1950s. "To most people it's going to say, well, this is just junk. It's more like a museum, I suppose. But I just can't get rid of some of that stuff because it is nostalgic and it does have a story."Kitty shares that she'd include jewelry symbolizing her entrepreneurial journey, a handwritten note to future female entrepreneurs, and the podcast microphone – all emblems of her current happiness. "I'm in this whole new phase of life and it's the happiest I've been in my life, and I want a snapshot of this."Amy contemplates documenting her downtown living experience before her next chapter begins, highlighting how our time capsule selections might change throughout different life stages. The hosts also discuss how preservation methods have evolved from meticulously created photo albums to thousands of digital photos that never get printed.The conversation naturally flows to the deeper question of legacy. "I want to be remembered as somebody who lifts other people up with authenticity and sparkle and helps people feel really great about themselves," Kitty explains. Amy shares her hope to be remembered for bringing laughter and joy, making others feel understood and less alone.Listen in as the trio explores family recipes that create bonds between generations, technology that will become fascinating artifacts for future generations, and the realization that legacy isn't about grand accomplishments but about the impact we have on those closest to us.What would you preserve from your life right now? And how do you hope to be remembered? Join the conversation and let us know your thoughts!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Raw vulnerability takes center stage as we open our hearts about life's most difficult decisions and their lingering emotional impact. Jay Shetty's quote, "Feeling sad after making the right decision does not mean that it wasn't the right decision," serves as our touchstone while navigating deeply personal territory.Amy bravely shares her recent dating disappointment—how a promising four-month relationship collapsed when her partner discovered her photo in Match.com marketing emails and jumped to conclusions about her honesty. Her story uncovers the specific challenges of dating after fifty, when experience makes us more cautious but doesn't shield us from heartbreak. Her candid questioning—"How could I be this wrong?"—echoes what many of us feel after relationship endings.In perhaps our most vulnerable moment, Kitty confesses about walking away from her first marriage at age 28, a decision that, while ultimately right, left lasting emotional impact. "The who you are at 22 is not who you were meant to stay," she reflects, articulating how personal evolution sometimes necessitates painful choices. Despite knowing her current life with her husband and son is exactly where she belongs, she still carries the weight of having hurt someone deeply.Stacey's reflections center on parenting regrets—wondering if she was present enough during her children's formative years, especially through divorce. Despite raising three successful adults, the question of "could I have done better?" continues to linger, a universal parenting doubt that transcends circumstances.What emerges from our conversation is a powerful truth: none of us had adequate guidance navigating these major life transitions. "There's no manual for this stuff," we acknowledge, highlighting how talking openly about these experiences not only lightens our own burdens but potentially helps others feel less alone in their similar journeys.Ready to hear how three friends support each other through life's most challenging reflections? Listen now, and perhaps find the courage to share your own story with someone who cares.Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Navigating the complex landscape of generational differences reveals fascinating insights about how we learn, work, and relate to each other. From Baby Boomers and Gen X to Millennials and Gen Z, each generation brings unique perspectives shaped by the world they grew up in.Remember learning how to code in high school without really understanding why? That's the Gen X experience of technology—figuring it out as it evolved, using computers as glorified typewriters in college, and witnessing the birth of the digital world. Meanwhile, younger generations grew up immersed in technology, with Gen Z never knowing a world without smartphones and instant information access.What really stands out is how these technological differences have shaped our approaches to work and life. While Gen X valued job stability and "paying dues," younger generations prioritize learning opportunities and fair compensation—they'll readily move on if a position isn't serving their growth or financial goals. Their fearlessness and self-advocacy challenge traditional workplace cultures in ways that benefit everyone.Perhaps most remarkable is Gen Z's social consciousness and brand loyalty. They're incredibly thoughtful about where they spend their money, supporting companies that align with their values on social justice, climate change, and other pressing issues. This approach would have been nearly impossible for previous generations who lacked immediate access to information about corporate practices.The beauty of our multi-generational world is that we can learn from each other. Gen X's adaptability, Millennials' bridge-building between analog and digital worlds, and Gen Z's bold innovation all contribute to collective progress. Rather than focusing on stereotypical differences, we're discovering how these distinct perspectives enrich our workplaces, families, and communities.Ready to understand the generation gaps in your life? Listen now and gain insights that might just transform how you communicate across age divides. Share your own generational observations with us—we'd love to hear what you've learned!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Ever wonder why you maintain odd routines that make no logical sense? You're definitely not alone! This light-hearted, revealing conversation explores the mysterious world of personal rituals, superstitions, and habits that shape our daily lives.We start by questioning whether luck actually exists or if we create our own good fortune through preparation. Sharing stories of unexpected windfalls—from discovering hidden cash in inherited quilt supplies to winning expensive power tools in random drawings—we examine those rare moments when the universe seems to single us out for special treatment. These experiences leave us wondering: was it pure chance, or something more?The conversation takes a fascinating turn when we confess our quirky personal habits. One of us always books seats on the right side of the airplane and feels genuinely uncomfortable breaking this pattern. Another meticulously organizes office binders with all labels facing precisely the same direction. Most surprisingly, we discover 2 out of the 3 of us count steps when climbing stairs—every single time, on every staircase, anywhere we go! We explore the fine line between beneficial habits and anxiety-driven compulsions, noting how these patterns provide comfort and predictability. From the ancient pagan origins of "knocking on wood" to why certain numbers are considered lucky or unlucky across different cultures, we examine how humans have always sought to create meaning and control through ritual.What quirky habits do you maintain? Do you count steps like us? We'd love to hear about your unexplainable routines! Share them in the comments when this episode posts—let's normalize the wonderfully weird things we all do when no one's watching.Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

The journey to make meaningful friendships as adults isn't easy, but it's a challenge worth pursuing. In this candid conversation, we dive into month three of our year-long friendship-building experiment, examining what's working, what's not, and why building connections seems harder than ever.After a midnight confrontation with a weed-smoking neighbor (not exactly friendship material), we share our progress from last month's challenge. Success stories include reconnecting with an acquaintance over "one glass of wine" that turned into an evening requiring a designated driver pickup, vacationing with friends we hadn't spent quality time with recently, and brave solo outings to local establishments. Each small victory represents a step toward building a richer social life.For month three, we're tackling group activities – joining clubs, volunteering for community events, attending fitness classes, or hosting gatherings. These structured environments provide natural conversation starters and connect people with shared interests. We explore why this approach might be especially important today, as traditional community-builders like religious organizations play a diminishing role in many people's lives.The statistics are eye-opening: approximately 42% of younger generations identify as less religious than their predecessors, removing what was once a natural foundation for friendship formation. Without these built-in communities, we must work harder to create meaningful connections.The takeaway is clear: friendship requires a plan, persistence, and patience. Not every social outing yields a new best friend, but each attempt builds confidence and creates possibilities. Join us as we navigate this journey together, sharing both successes and awkward moments along the way.Ready to build your own friendship circle? Listen now, then follow along with our monthly challenges. We'd love to hear your experiences too!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

What does it take for you to finally say "no" to work during your vacation? We dive deep into the complex relationship between professional dedication and personal time off through Amy's recent experience of cutting a getaway short for a real estate showing.The statistics are startling—40% of American employees don't use all their allotted vacation days, with the highest numbers among those with bachelor's degrees and upper income brackets. We explore why so many of us struggle to disconnect, examining everything from workplace expectations to our own psychological need for achievement and recognition.While generational differences exist in approaches to work-life balance, the data challenges some common assumptions. Only 21% of Millennials take their full vacation allotment despite being portrayed as more boundary-conscious than their predecessors. We discuss the psychology behind "unlimited PTO" policies and why they often result in employees taking less time off.The conversation takes a poignant turn when we share personal regrets about work-life choices, particularly regarding time with our children. When Amy  reveals her mother passed away with 186 unused vacation days and unfulfilled dreams, it drives home the reality that time eventually runs out for everyone.Whether you're wrestling with work-life boundaries, curious about generational workplace differences, or simply need permission to use your vacation days, this episode offers both practical insights and emotional validation. After all, as we remind ourselves, most jobs aren't "selling kidneys"—the world will keep turning if we take a day off.Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Step into the world of glitz and glamour as we unravel the highlights from this year's Academy Awards. With a blend of laughter and insightful conversation, we discuss the films that stole the show, the contenders that left us surprised, and the implications of streaming services on the cinematic experience. From Oscar-winning moments to favorite performances, we share personal stories and entertaining anecdotes while pondering the landscape of modern film as it navigates the challenge of competition from home streaming platforms.Join us as we speak with Amy's sister Ann, a passionate cinephile who shares her unique Oscar preparation rituals, providing listeners with a captivating glimpse into the dedication that goes into watching all nominated films. The episode sparks discussion around voting processes, artistic merit, and the comparisons between independent cinema and blockbuster hits. We unpack the themes of connection within cinema, reflecting on the communal experience that a movie theater offers against the convenience of home viewings.Whether you cheered for the winners or were shocked by the outcomes, this engaging discussion invites you to reflect on your cinematic preferences and choices. Join the conversation and let us know which films spoke to you this award season. Subscribe, share your favorite movie moments, and help keep the magic of cinema alive!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Welcome to this engaging episode of “3 Cocktails In,” where we delve deep into the captivating world of reality television! Get ready for light-hearted banter as we engage in lively discussions about our favorite—and most dubious—reality TV shows. We share our heartfelt and often humorous recollections of classics like “Survivor” and more modern hits such as “The Bachelor.” As we navigate the crazy world of reality TV, we shine a light on why we keep coming back for more, despite the eye-roll-worthy moments found in every episode.In the midst of our laughter, we explore the repetitive yet strangely comforting tropes widely used in reality shows. Whether it's a generic home makeover trend or the polished reality romance, we reflect on what keeps viewers hooked. Our conversation takes a creative turn as we brainstorm new ideas for reality TV, such as shows where your friends choose your date for you—imagine the unpredictable turns of events that could stem from that concept!Join us as we dissect and critique the current state of reality TV, considering its implications on society. Through our playful exchanges, we unearth what these shows reflect back about real life and our relationships. Be part of the ongoing conversation—what do you think makes reality TV delightful or devastating? Don't forget to subscribe, share with friends, and join us next week for more insightful and laugh-filled discussions!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Anger can often feel like an insurmountable force, but the truth is, understanding this powerful emotion can lead to healthier relationships and personal well-being. In this engaging episode, we sit down with guest Deanna, a certified counselor with extensive experience navigating complex emotional landscapes. Together, we dive deep into the nature of anger, exploring how perceptions shape our responses and why understanding our reactions is critical in today's emotionally charged world.Deanna shares compelling insights from her years in practice, highlighting the rise of anger issues, particularly among younger generations as they cope with the stresses introduced during the COVID-19 pandemic. Listeners will gain valuable tools for managing their anger and recognizing the underlying emotions that often spur reactions, prompting helpful conversations and improved dynamics in relationships.We also discuss the potential for anger to serve a constructive purpose — from advocating for justice to driving personal change. Whether you're seeking to understand your emotional responses better or looking to support someone struggling with anger, this discussion promises to inspire and enlighten. Join us for an enriching conversation that redefines how we view anger, equipping you with the knowledge to navigate emotional turbulence with confidence.Don't forget to subscribe, share this valuable episode with others, and leave a review to let us know what you think!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Imagine transforming your winter blues into a season of vibrant social connections. That's exactly what we aim to help you achieve in this episode of "3 Cocktails In:  Addicting Conversations." We kick things off by sharing our personal experiences of building micro connections, like Kitty's adventures in local coffee shops and Stacey's aspirations to step into more social gatherings. We explore the baby steps it takes to form lasting friendships and the importance of consistency and openness in building these new bonds. Whether it's through a warm smile at your neighborhood café or accepting a dinner invite, these small actions can accumulate into significant and meaningful relationships.The discussion continues with practical strategies for expanding your social circle by frequenting local haunts such as bars, gyms, and coffee shops. Kitty shares her commitment to maintaining her coffee shop visits, while Stacey  sets sights cocktail bar, Juniper and Olive. Amy plans to continue inviting friends to attend exciting functions in the city. We touch on the thrill of meeting new people on vacation through shared interests and the potential to deepen professional ties by engaging with coworkers outside the office. Additionally, we delve into the joys of nurturing friendships across different generations, as illustrated by the younger generations planning regular gatherings and events. Say yes to invitations and watch how new connections can enrich your life, regardless of the season.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Ever Googled something completely mundane only to be led down an unexpected rabbit hole? That's exactly what happened to us as we embarked on our latest escapade with "Three Cocktails In." Amid the clinking of glasses and lots of laughter, you’ll hear all about our curious Google searches that took us from movie reviews for "You're Cordially Invited" to mouth-watering chili recipes. We promise a cocktail-infused peek into our lives that feels quite relatable.Switching gears but keeping the fun alive, we dive into the world of subscription services and their quirky charm. Ever wondered if a massage membership could be your next guilty pleasure? We chat about the allure of Massage Envy and Rent the Runway, where fashion meets practicality for those black-tie affairs. But it’s not all smooth sailing—hear our tales of persuasion in getting the younger generation to embrace the rental fashion trend. To top it off, we’re on the hunt for fresh, free radio options that can brighten up any workday, beyond the familiar Yacht Rock vibes.And what’s a cocktail chat without some fashion gossip and a stroll down memory lane? Join us as we share amusing political moments, Jenna Bush Hager’s morning TV charm, and our adventures at Northeast Minneapolis's First Thursdays. From 50s costume antics to Chapel Roan's daring fashion choices, we cover it all. Our recent special event still has us buzzing with excitement, and we’re eager to share the ambitious momentum that keeps us moving forward—cheers to fresh adventures and the camaraderie that lights up our journey!Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

This podcast episode celebrates Galentine's Day and the significance of female friendships. With our group of fabulous guests, we share anecdotes about iconic female duos, discuss friendship love languages, and explore how our relationships evolve over time.• Emphasis on Galentine's Day and its origin • Discussion about iconic female friendships in pop culture • Insights on acceptance and evolving friendships • The importance of spending quality time together • Reflections on acts of kindness and appreciation

Ever turned leftover cocktails into slushies? That's just one of the fun tidbits we're serving up on this episode of "3 Cocktails In".  From quirky kitchen hacks to the ever-evolving landscape of fashion norms, we explore how attire speaks volumes about who we are and how we're perceived. As we sip on our drinks, we ponder the shift from formal to business casual attire, sharing personal tales of fashion faux pas and triumphs. Whether you're the type to challenge dress codes or strategically overdress, join us for a conversation that ties together creativity, personal style, and societal expectations.But professional attire is just the start. We venture into the realm of personal branding, where every small habit can leave a lasting imprint. Drawing inspiration from films like "The Intern," we question if there's still merit in the traditional suit and tie and how it stacks up in today's casual world. Through anecdotes, like Grandpa Fred's poignant legacy, we reflect on how consistent actions can define how we're remembered. This episode promises to inspire self-awareness and offers insights into aligning our outward image with our inner essence, all while sharing a laugh and a toast along the way.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

How does Hollywood keep us glued to our screens with stories that repeat and actors we can't seem to forget?" Our latest episode of "Three Cocktails In" begins with a chuckle-worthy tale of Amy's epic showdown with a cold she whimsically dubs "the plague." As we laugh through the importance of taking sick days seriously, we find ourselves retreating indoors, where TV marathons become inevitable. This leads us to ponder the magnetic pull of celebrities—why some stars shine brighter in our eyes, while others leave us mystified. Through our personal anecdotes and thoughts, we explore what makes certain celebrities so captivating and how our individual perceptions play a role.Hollywood's typecasting is nothing new, but why do actors like Jennifer Garner and Reese Witherspoon often land similar roles? We muse over how their portrayals have influenced their careers and reflect on David Schwimmer's struggle to break away from his iconic "Friends" character. The discussion gets juicier as we dissect Angelina Jolie's enduring allure and speculate on whether the scandalous elements of her public persona drive her mystique. Together, we unravel how the film industry molds our understanding of celebrity trends and ignite conversations about the ever-evolving world of stardom.Pop stars take center stage as we debate the impact of generational shifts on music and talent. From Beyoncé's captivating performances to Billie Eilish's songwriting genius, we dive into the diverse talents shaping today's music scene. Our conversation spans the changing landscape of female pop stars, critiques of bands like Coldplay and bro country, and the timeless debate of talent versus appearance in the music industry. We cap off our episode with lively recommendations, including the Netflix series "Black Doves" and Ruth Ware's book "The It Girl," perfect companions for those cozy nights indoors. Join us for this spirited discussion and discover what makes these stars and their stories so unforgettable.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Is "circle back" the new "synergy"? Stacey, Kitty, and our absent friend Amy, who’s recovering from a bout of seasonal illness, are here to navigate the wacky world of corporate jargon and modern communication trends. We promise a laugh-filled journey as we vent about the overuse of buzzwords like "hack" and "circle back," while channeling Amy's thoughts about a "thought leader" and words like "surreal" and "ideate"  in spirit. Plus, we recommend checking out Corporate Natalie for a satirical look at corporate life. Prioritize your health, folks—because no one wants to spread more than just office gossip.From emails to emojis, the workplace is shifting, and we’ve got you covered on how these changes affect dynamics and communication style. Perplexed by new slang like "rizz" and witnessing older generations' awkward attempts to use them? We’ve got hilarious anecdotes and insights on this generational gap. As we reflect on the transition from rigid office life to personal business ventures, find out how to maintain structure and social ties in this new chapter. Discover the 'Mindscape' app as a refreshing, productive break from endless scrolling. Jump in for a mix of humor, personal stories, and thoughtful examination of today's professional landscape.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

We're not here to criticize but to express our genuine concerns for stars like Nicole Kidman and Ariana Grande, while also celebrating Demi Moore's radiant comeback. It's a candid chat with a splash of humor, aiming to highlight the importance of health and well-being in the spotlight.Friendships—how do they evolve as we journey through different life stages? Reflecting on insights from Simon Sinek and Trevor Noah, we explore the fascinating dynamics of adult friendships and the effort required to nurture new bonds. Whether it's moving to a new city or transitioning through various phases of life, expanding our social circles can enrich our experiences. We delve into intriguing statistics and share personal anecdotes on the importance of maintaining diverse social circles, emphasizing the joy and growth that come from embracing new connections.We wrap up the episode with a heartfelt celebration of connection and conversation. From striking up small talk to finding friends through shared interests, we share our personal stories and practical advice on overcoming hesitations in social settings. Ready to turn up the volume on life? We encourage you to seize every moment, embrace spontaneity, and revel in the collective joy of friendship and celebration. Join us for an episode filled with laughter, insights, and the irresistible urge to live life to the fullest.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Ever felt the sting of loneliness despite being surrounded by people? Join us as we unpack this universal experience and explore how to form meaningful connections in 2025. Inspired by our friend Julie's query about making friends as adults, we're on a mission to help everyone, including ourselves, forge at least one solid new friendship by year's end. We'll chat about the evolving landscape and dive deeply into the often-unspoken challenge of finding and maintaining friendships as life's circumstances change. Ever wondered why loneliness weighs so heavily on us? We shed light on this profound topic, drawing inspiration from thought leaders like Simon Sinek and Trevor Noah. Our discussion reveals intriguing insights into the relational strengths of women and the societal pressures they face. As we navigate the impact of remote work and empty nests on social lives, we highlight startling statistics that equate loneliness to smoking 15 cigarettes a day. Listen in as we categorize loneliness and emphasize the necessity of a close personal connection, regardless of marital status. Imagine stepping into a room, assuming everyone will like you. Sounds daunting, right? Kitty recounts her transformative experience of overcoming self-consciousness during a work trip, which lead to unexpected friendships. Together, we explore strategies to overcome internal doubts and actively seek new social opportunities. Despite modern challenges, finding a community or group to belong to remains crucial. We reflect on how previous generations also faced loneliness, even amid seemingly abundant social groups. As we wrap up, we celebrate the thrill of new beginnings and the joy of sharing life's journey with friends by our side.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Kicking off 2025 with a bang, we embrace a whole new way to tackle New Year's resolutions. Instead of the usual daunting list, we're championing the power of a single guiding word to shape our journey ahead. Kitty reflected on last year's mantra, "reach," we eagerly anticipate unveiling her new word for the year, sharing insights on why manageable goals often trump sweeping resolutions. Celebrate with us as we reframe New Year's from a reminder of passing time into an opportunity for renewal and growth, backed by a fresh perspective and a touch of personal change.Navigating the dating scene in your fifties is no walk in the park, especially with today's modern quirks and challenges. Amy shares candid stories about first dates, ghosting, and the notorious "ick" factor, offering a humorous yet realistic look at love in midlife. From the importance of actions over words to the value of a "slow burn" romance, she unravels myths and truths about dating dynamics. Plus, we explore how friends can be pivotal matchmakers, making the journey a little less daunting and a lot more fun.As we close out the episode, we dive into the art of balancing personal and professional goals with a positive outlook. Drawing inspiration from Mel Robbins, we highlight the importance of surrounding yourself with joy-filled activities and relationships while cutting out negativity. Through anecdotes and practical tips, we emphasize recognizing small victories and maintaining a mindset that propels you forward. With a festive spirit and an optimistic outlook, we toast to new beginnings and the exciting journey ahead, eager to embrace good times with friends and cherished moments.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

What happens when a homemaker transforms into a media mogul? As we sip on our signature "Nefertini" and a fresh tequila concoction, we untangle the complexities of Martha Stewart's rise to fame through her enthralling Netflix documentary. In this episode, we challenge the notion of success being solely a result of one's environment versus the ability to craft one's destiny. Martha's journey from homemaking to empire-building offers lessons in seizing opportunities that align with one's surroundings, a skill she honed to perfection.We embark on a captivating exploration of Martha Stewart's life, from her entry into the male-dominated finance world to her groundbreaking approach to publishing, which shattered the mold of the traditional homemaker. Rather than striving for superwoman status, Martha embraced her role as an everywoman, teaching others through her media prowess. We reflect on her resilience and perfectionism, influenced by her strict upbringing, and discuss how these traits fueled her relentless pursuit of excellence and innovation.The conversation shifts to Martha's personal life, revealing the complexities beneath her polished public persona. Her tumultuous marriage and emotional challenges paint a picture of vulnerability that resonates with many. We marvel at her remarkable resurgence post-imprisonment and her innovative partnerships, including her unexpected collaboration with Snoop Dogg. Through Martha's story, along with insights from other inspiring women like Taylor Swift and Ina Garten, we celebrate the power of resilience, adaptability, and the daring spirit that often accompanies life's later chapters. Join us for a thought-provoking evening of cocktails and conversation.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Ever wondered who gets the unique responsibility of deciding when Thanksgiving graces our calendars? We kick off this episode by unraveling that mystery and sharing a few of our own holiday blunders that have left us chuckling for years. From the chaos of a late Thanksgiving to the quirky debates over perfect gifts—should you go for what they want or what you think they'll love?—we've got stories that'll tickle your funny bone. Who knew that giving fishing rods as Christmas gifts could lead to such a hilarious misunderstanding?Next, we're hopping on a nostalgia train filled with memories of childhood antics and Christmas traditions gone awry. Remember the thrill of sneaking a peek at presents or the chaos that ensues when you forget to label them? We certainly do, and we're sharing all the giggles with you. And if you've ever had a cat that couldn't resist the lure of a glistening Christmas tree, you'll feel right at home with our tales of feline festive fiascos. Whether you're a holiday hero or a baking bandit, there's a laugh waiting for you as we reflect on the humor and warmth of holiday chaos.We also take a detour through the winding roads of healthcare and personal wellness journeys, spiced up with some suggestions from trusted medics and even a debate on probiotics versus yogurt. Our escapades aren't confined to holiday hilarity, as we sprinkle in some chatter about a solo Disney trip and our latest TV binge, "The Bear." With our blend of banter and humor, we're setting the stage for a good old-fashioned celebration of funny mishaps and shared laughter. So, get ready to share your own stories because we promise anonymity and a hearty laugh in return.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Have you ever felt the tension in the air when generations collide in the workplace? On this episode of "Three Cocktails In," we unravel the complexities of intergenerational dynamics through a captivating social media clip that has everyone talking. Listen as we share personal stories and observations about young women encountering hostility from older colleagues. Together, we explore the nuances of feedback, criticism, and the often misunderstood interactions between different age groups. We tackle the stereotypes that haunt older women in corporate settings, aiming to foster a deeper understanding and promote constructive dialogues that can bridge these generational gaps.Mentorship, workplace friendships, and even vacation tales take center stage as we shift gears with humor and warmth. Discover how mentors can be the guiding light for young professionals navigating tricky workplace relationships. We reflect on the challenges of making friends at work and how a supportive colleague can make all the difference in job satisfaction. Our anecdotes about vacation adventures, self-driving cars, and binge-worthy streaming recommendations bring a delightful twist to the conversation. Whether you're navigating the professional world or planning your next getaway, this episode is packed with insights and laughter to enrich your personal and professional journey.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Why do we keep seeing older women and younger men on the big screen, and what does that say about us? We're pulling back the curtain on May-December romances in film that flip the script on traditional age dynamics. From Anne Hathaway's polarizing role in "The Idea of You" to the nostalgic impact of "The Graduate," we're ready to challenge the norms and stick our noses into the controversies surrounding casting and age gaps. With one foot firmly planted in the world of streaming platforms like Netflix and Hulu, we highlight how female creators are shaking things up and question why Hollywood can't seem to let go of its ageist tendencies.As we stroll down memory lane, you'll hear us spotlight how films like "A Family Affair" and "Under the Tuscan Sun" empower older women by challenging stereotypes and offer viewers a juicy slice of escapism. We poke fun at how these narratives often skip over real-life complications like ex-partners and kids, focusing instead on self-assured women who refuse to be boxed into the "cougar" stereotype. Is it any wonder these stories resonate with audiences looking for something a little more authentic and a lot more fun?And for those navigating the maze of age-gap relationships, we tackle the pros and cons of dating across generations, encouraging listeners to stay present rather than future-tripping. Plus, if you're looking to switch up your Thanksgiving viewing habits, we've got some entertainment suggestions that have nothing to do with touchdowns. And yes, we even throw in a quirky tip about keeping your bananas fresher for longer. As always, we wrap things up with gratitude for your support and the occasional tech hiccup along the way. Happy Thanksgiving, friends!Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Ever wondered what advice Taylor Swift would need for her cat's wild nighttime antics? We promise a hilarious adventure through the ups and downs of friendship, technology, and amusing advice-giving. From Amy's epic camera fails to our outrageous suggestions for dealing with a fictional celebrity feline dilemma, this episode is packed with unpredictable fun and laughter. We kick things off by embracing the chaos of our recording adventures and dive right into a whimsical advice segment that's guaranteed to leave you smiling.Confidence building and handling those pesky habits we all encounter take center stage as we share personal stories and practical insights. We explore how stepping out of your comfort zone can be a game-changer and reveal the secret to boosting self-esteem with a little help from your friends. Tackling the tricky task of surviving loved ones’ quirky habits, we ask when it's worth the effort to address them and when it's best to chuckle and move on. Whether it's gifting solutions for minor annoyances or finding humor in faux Martha Stewart's laundry conundrum, expect a blend of empathy and light-hearted advice.Join us for a casual chat about the joys of watching "Shrinking" on Apple TV and a laugh over Kitty's limited shot tolerance. As we wrap up, we share our excitement about reconnecting soon for more engaging discussions. Our energetic sign-off teases more entertaining content in future episodes, and we can't wait to hear from our listeners. Tune in for a feel-good mix of humor, relatable anecdotes, and heartfelt moments designed to brighten your day.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Why does canned cranberry jelly always end up the VIP of Thanksgiving dinner? Join us for a fun dive into the quirky traditions that make Turkey Day so special. From the thrill of flipping through recipes with a glass of wine (because who doesn’t need liquid courage to tackle that menu?) to the chaos of last-minute grocery runs, we’re here to embrace it all.We’ll dish out simple tips like cooking your turkey a day ahead (hello, extra oven space) and how a crockpot can save your mashed potato sanity. Plus, learn why “Stovetop” stuffing, started in the microwave and crisped in the oven, might just be the real MVP.Along the way, we’ll laugh about fancy table settings, grandma’s nut cups, and the infamous turkey drippings disaster that left Amy’s family gravy-less. And don’t worry, we’re all about the shift from formal holiday attire to cozy jeans and stretchy waistbands—priorities, right?This episode is all about celebrating the food, family, and funny moments that make Thanksgiving the perfectly imperfect holiday we love.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Unlock the secrets to transforming your passions into thriving businesses as we explore the dynamic landscape of entrepreneurship. With Millennials and Gen Z leading the charge, discover how social media, specialized degrees, and the unforeseen impacts of the pandemic are reshaping career paths. We promise you’ll learn how to harness flexibility and self-determination as we share personal anecdotes and compelling statistics. This episode is designed to inspire, encouraging you to recognize your unique talents and identify market needs that could turn your dreams into reality.Join us for a compelling discussion on daring to take risks and the power of personalized services that exceed corporate offerings. We’ll brainstorm innovative solutions to unmet needs, spotlighting areas where entrepreneurs can truly make a difference. Plus, delve into the fascinating case study of Martha Stewart, whose resilience and branding prowess offer invaluable lessons, despite the controversies. Her story challenges societal perceptions and underscores the potential to redefine traditional roles, proving that with grit and innovation, anyone can build an empire. Don’t miss out on this engaging conversation filled with insights and inspiration for aspiring entrepreneurs.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Ever found yourself battling the irresistible allure of Halloween candy? We've all been there, juggling candy cravings while trying to maintain self-control as trick-or-treaters swarm our doorsteps. Join us as we share personal stories of sneaky Rolos and the quirky texture of Airheads, and reveal our top strategies to keep our sweet tooth in check, including the genius idea of placing candy just out of arm's reach. And don't miss out on the unexpected fashion gem Kitty discovered at Walmart, perfect for those last-minute Halloween preparations.Our conversation takes a fascinating turn as we explore the evolving role of AI in our everyday lives. We've seen AI become as indispensable as Google, transforming how we solve problems and access information. From personalized Netflix recommendations to robust banking security, technology is shaping our world, often balancing convenience with skepticism. Dive into the discussion on how AI, with tools like ChatGPT, is revolutionizing personal and business landscapes, making technology an essential part of modern life.But what does this mean for creativity and ethics? Listen in as we tackle the complexities of AI's role in education and creative industries. While initial concerns about AI replacing human jobs are valid, there's a growing appreciation for AI as a collaborative tool that enhances creativity. We ponder over the importance of crafting precise prompts for AI, and how this technology can streamline processes for artists and writers. You'll gain insights into the dynamic collaboration between AI and human ingenuity, and the exciting, albeit occasionally controversial, future this partnership holds.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

What happens when a personal journey from art enthusiast to tattoo artist combines with the electric energy of a Monday night recording session? Join us on "3 Cocktails In" as we celebrate career milestones and successes, featuring the inspirational story of Georgia Bebler, Amy's talented daughter who's making her mark in the tattoo industry. With a canned espresso martini in hand, Georgia shares the creative twists and turns of her career path, from art education to costume design, and finally to tattooing at Grand Avenue Tattoo in St. Paul, Minnesota.Throughout this episode, we explore the nuances of tattoo apprenticeship and licensing, diving into Georgia's experiences in the industry. Her insights into the craft of tattooing, from traditional hand-poked designs to state-of-the-art electric machines, offer listeners a fascinating glimpse into an art form that continues to evolve culturally. Georgia's journey underscores the importance of persistence, an old-school approach, and the value of learning from seasoned artists, making her story both compelling and educational.But there's more than just ink and needles. We tackle the technical aspects of tattooing, discuss modern trends, and share practical advice for those considering a tattoo, especially on sensitive areas. Georgia emphasizes the importance of patience and goal-setting in achieving success, blending her personal experiences with tips for the aspiring tattoo artist or anyone looking to move their career forward. As we wrap up, our heartfelt gratitude to Georgia sets the stage for even more addictive conversations in future episodes, ensuring you'll want to listen in again next week.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Ever stumbled across an online dating profile that made you laugh out loud? Amy has, and she shared the tale, venturing into the world of digital dating with humor and honesty. From the challenges of outdated photos to the sometimes audacious claims people make, we compare our experiences with the polished portrayals seen on TV shows like "The Golden Bachelorette." Opening up about the idea of expanding age preferences, we question conventional dating norms and discuss the nuanced difference between wanting versus needing a partner, a topic that often triggers strong reactions.As we launch season two of 3 Cocktails In, we ask if you ever felt a sign from the universe guiding your decisions? Our conversation shifts to the power of recognizing these signs and the role of positive thinking in shaping our lives. Through personal stories, we illustrate how these moments can provide comfort and direction, whether seen as spiritual connections or mere coincidences. With a focus on personal growth, we explore trusting intuition and tuning into our instincts. We celebrate the diverse viewpoints that enrich our lives, emphasizing the empowerment found in investing in oneself and believing in what truly resonates.We also revisit from a previous episode what happens when the boundaries between work and personal life blur? We tackled this question head-on with a candid exploration of work-life balance, drawing from our own experiences in salaried positions. We debate whether exceeding the 40-hour workweek might actually bring unexpected benefits, and share our evolving perspectives on balancing responsibilities as life’s priorities shift. Our chat offers tips on how to approach this topic during job interviews, reminding listeners that balance is a personal journey defined by individual circumstances.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Ever wondered what connects chin hair, the pandemic, and blue cheese? Our journey with @3CocktailsIn podcast began as a way to navigate midlife milestones during the COVID-19 pandemic, and now a year later, we're celebrating the community we've built. Through candid discussions on everything from unexpected facial hair to heartfelt personal stories, we've missed only one recording week despite life's curveballs. We've cherished feedback from listeners who see themselves in our conversations, creating a space where shared dislike of eggs becomes a bond, and where we laugh about life's absurdities together.Reflecting on the past year, technology has been our lifeline, allowing us to form surprising connections despite the miles between us. We've had the pleasure of engaging with diverse ideas, like the quirky suggestion of handing out bouncy balls for Halloween, and welcoming male voices into our conversations. With plans for live sessions, we aim to amplify our camaraderie, turning menopause woes into shared laughter. Our favorite episodes and guests like Sarah's leap into entrepreneurship, Shannon's insightful coaching, Amy Bruns challenging the travel industry and Malory's path to finding the one, have all been the highlights, offering wisdom and humor in equal measure.As we look to the future, we're eager to reintroduce our "three shots" segment, designed to fuel personal growth and exploration. We hope our stories resonate with the trials and triumphs of midlife. We're grateful to each listener who has joined us on this wild ride, and we can't wait to see what the upcoming year has in store for @3CocktailsIn. Cheers to community, connection, and all the hilariously relatable moments in between!Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

From the great toilet paper debate, "beard or mullet", to fashion quirks like the French tuck, we take a humorous look at the everyday annoyances that permeate our lives. Why are toilet seats expected to be down and what's the deal with panty lines? These trivial yet relatable aspects of daily life unravel with a sense of humor and camaraderie, as we uncover the quirks and preferences that often go unnoticed. It's a light-hearted segment full of banter, promising to entertain while providing fresh perspectives on the little annoyances that we all encounter. Ever found yourself trapped in the tug-of-war between work demands and personal life? We tackle this age-old conundrum with a lively discussion on the evolving expectations of salaried jobs, questioning whether we're paid for our time or for completing tasks. Through the lens of generational differences, we explore how younger workers are redefining what corporate commitment truly means. With a playful devil's advocate approach, we highlight the insistence on fair compensation and clear job descriptions, especially when overtime is expected but not paid. Join us as we navigate the complicated dance of balancing corporate expectations with personal boundaries.In our final segment, we dive into domestic hilarity with tales of kitchen cabinet etiquette and the mysterious distinction between "good" and "bad" rags. Who knew that leaving cabinets open could spark such passionate household debates? Through laughter and stories, we invite listeners to reflect on their everyday habits, considering which quirky customs they might want to change. Enjoy the ride as we wrap up with playful banter and a heartfelt invitation to share your own experiences with us.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

What happens when life throws you a whirlwind of change? Amy kicks off the episode with a lively tale of a hurried dash to close a door, setting the scene for a jam-packed conversation about moving back to familiar grounds and navigating single life once more. Then Kitty shares her big leap from the comfort of a corporate marketing job into the unknown terrain of entrepreneurship. We’ll unravel the emotions of resigning from a job that no longer inspired us, and the thrill of setting sail on our own ventures, a jewelry business and the budding project, Hart Matters.Ever wondered what it feels like to leave a sales role that feels more like a chore than a calling? We open up about the mixed emotions and formalities of that decision, celebrating the freedom that comes with pursuing one’s passions. Listen in as we discuss how to prioritize amidst the chaos of new opportunities and the nuances of corporate culture versus authentic connections. Our journey from a side hustle to a full-time business owner is not just about work-life balance but about finding fulfillment beyond a paycheck.Join us as we toast to growth and personal achievements in our podcast journey. We’re reflecting on our early episodes and the milestones we’ve hit along the way. Celebrate with us as we look back and step forward, sharing our progress and setting the stage for an exciting future. Whether you're here for the personal stories, entrepreneurial insights, or just some joyful vibes, we've got something special lined up! Turn up the volume and join our journey.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Ever wondered how a dating app could be the bridge to finding true love? This episode will answer that question as we chat with Stacey's daughter Malory, an English teacher at Iowa Western Community College, who shares her touching story of meeting her husband on Hinge. Malory's tale isn't just about romance; it's a beautiful blend of family similarities and the joys of finding a match that truly feels like home. Plus, we kick things off with some cheerful updates—Kitty's exciting trip to Las Vegas for her jewelry business venture and some insights from Amy into the booming housing market from the Parade of Homes in Minneapolis.Transitioning from dating app matches to friendships can be tricky, and we have some hilarious and awkward stories to prove it! From receiving fake butterflies and glitter to a dead plant on a first date, our chat is filled with laughter and lessons learned. We also dive into the unique marketing strategies of apps like Hinge, designed to be deleted once you find "the one," and discuss how various apps cater to different demographics. This segment promises both humor and thought-provoking insights into the world of modern dating.But that's not all; we explore the rich tapestry of cultural dynamics, especially as they relate to wedding planning and family interaction. Integrating Indian traditions into American life can be both challenging and rewarding, as we share personal experiences of accommodating extended family visits, culinary adventures, and the humorous yet touching moments of learning a new language. Malory also opens up about her personal growth journey following significant life changes, emphasizing the importance of family support and the joy of meaningful connections. Join us for an episode filled with heartwarming stories, laughter, and cultural reflections that celebrate love and family.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

What if matching shirts could actually improve your golf game? Join us as we kick off with a lively discussion about oversized cocktails and the camaraderie of golf tournaments, where matching attire might just be the secret to success. Then, we challenge the age-old fashion rule of no white after Labor Day and celebrate the vibrant fall 2024 color palette. With earthy tones, striking contrasts like dark brown and burgundy, and the timeless appeal of cheetah prints, this episode is all about finding confidence in your style. Plus, we highlight the latest jewelry trends that perfectly complement these exciting fashion shifts.The debate over denim is far from settled! From the divisive return of jorts and barrel jeans to the ongoing battle between skinny and wide-leg styles, we explore how these trends resonate across different age groups and body types. We also tackle the practical and aesthetic considerations of flats versus heels in professional settings, sharing personal stories about finding the perfect balance between comfort and style for unique foot shapes. Our candid conversation underscores the importance of marrying function with fashion, especially in the world of footwear.Winter fashion isn't just about staying warm; it's about making a statement. We reveal our latest shopping hauls, including cozy crew neck sweaters and a chic cheetah print skirt from Target, and discuss how scarves can effortlessly elevate your look. Reminiscing about past fashion choices, we marvel at the evolution of materials that now blend style with comfort. Finally, we delve into the importance of self-care, sharing personal experiences with therapeutic massages and the benefits of taking time for oneself. Get ready to embrace fall fashion trends with newfound enthusiasm and self-love, and stay tuned for more exciting fashion insights next week!Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Ready to kickstart your week with high energy and intriguing insights? Join us as we wrap up the weekend reflecting on Midwest weather, poolside fun, and unforgettable Las Vegas trips. We'll also share our excitement and plans for our podcast's upcoming one-year anniversary, including a potential 'corporate' retreat. Get ready for an episode packed with joy, memories, and plenty of laughter to set a spirited tone for the week ahead.Have you ever wondered why some young adults bring their parents to job interviews? Discover the surprising statistic that one in five parents attend job interviews with their children aged 18 to 27, and learn what this trend reveals about today's job market. We discuss the unrealistic expectations of recent graduates, the vital role of college placement departments, and the indispensable value of non-parental mentors. Let's explore how upbringing and privilege shape job readiness and the pressures young adults face as they enter the workforce.We'll also dive deep into the dynamics of parental involvement in career development, drawing insights from our Gary V's popular YouTube channel. We emphasize the importance of fostering independence in young adults while sharing personal stories about the pitfalls of helicopter parenting. From financial independence to developing grit, we cover it all. As we wrap up, we invite you to share your thoughts and experiences, eager to hear your diverse perspectives on these crucial topics. Tune in for a thought-provoking and motivational episode!Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Kitty's back! In this episode, we open with her moving story about the loss of her father and the emotional journey of coping with his passing. This personal touch sets a reflective tone as we segue into a comprehensive discussion on preparing for fall, both emotionally and practically. From the anxiety of back-to-school season to saying goodbye to summer, we explore the mixed feelings and important tasks that come with the changing seasons.As we shift our focus to the impending winter, we delve into essential home and wardrobe maintenance tips. Whether it’s getting your snowblowers ready or organizing your closet for the cold months ahead, we share personal anecdotes and practical advice to help you stay ahead of the game. Learn why it's crucial to get those coats and boots cleaned and repaired now, and how purging old clothes can not only free up space but also offer tax benefits. Our conversation is packed with useful insights that any homeowner will find invaluable.Finally, we sprinkle in some holiday magic with tips on getting your holiday lights up early and staying organized with tools like Google Keep. We also review some fantastic Laura Geller makeup products, perfect for the fall season, and share our thoughts on their longevity and ease of use. From managing information overload to finding joy in small celebrations with friends, this episode is all about embracing positive change. So, join us in celebrating new beginnings and staying connected with our wonderful community!Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Ever found yourself laughing over cocktail banter, only to be swept into touching stories about love and loss? That was us, starting with a playful confusion about the days of the week while Stacey sipped a Carbliss black raspberry vodka cocktail and Amy, a classic gin and tonic. From there, we shared the joy of family gatherings at the 2024 Voith Olympics, complete with captivating moments like a winning pickleball serve from Stacey's mother that had everyone in stitches. Food enthusiasts will appreciate dining tales from Smack Shack, adding more flavor to our evening of fun and connection.But life isn't all laughter and lighthearted games. We took a heartfelt turn to talk about the emotional intricacies of dealing with terminal illness and the inevitable loss of loved ones. With personal stories about our own parents' hospice journeys, we emphasized the importance of planning end-of-life arrangements. The relief it brings to both those passing and the ones left behind is immeasurable. Whether it's designating an executor or just preparing emotionally, these steps are crucial, especially for those living alone.In our final chapter, we tackled the practicalities of memory preservation and estate planning. By choosing the right executors and organizing our belongings, we can ensure a smoother process for our families. Inspired by Marie Kondo, we discussed the sentimental value of items and the emotional journey of decluttering. We wrapped up with a lighthearted discussion on the importance of having essential tools, like tweezers, in our purses and the necessity of open communication with loved ones about future plans. Join us for an episode that masterfully blends humor and sensitivity to help you cherish the present while preparing for the future.Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Ever found yourself Googling something embarrassing or oddly specific? We've all been there! Grab your favorite cocktail and join us for a hilarious and candid chat about our wild week, including Amy's colonoscopy prep saga. The episode is a rollercoaster of relatable moments, spontaneous laughter, and a dive into the unpredictability of life’s everyday quirks.Can you imagine a butter sculpture so amazing it draws record-breaking crowds? Stacey’s adventure at the Iowa State Fair opened up a lively discussion about fair attractions, from unique livestock to mouth-watering lobster rolls. We also explore the intriguing world of Laura Geller’s makeup line for mature skin and share charming misadventures like Amy’s humorous mix-up involving the 1997 movie "Eight Heads in a Duffel Bag" and Harvey Keitel. Our chat is filled with stories that will make you laugh out loud and maybe even inspire your next Google search.Picture this: rhythmic gymnastics, Moscow Mules, and a spirited debate on which sports belong in the Olympics. We compare gymnastics disciplines, ponder the inclusion of 'Breaking' as an Olympic event, and even suggest some unconventional sports like dodgeball and mini golf. End the session with us as we raise our glasses, savor the moment, and celebrate the joy of spontaneous, carefree living. It’s the perfect blend of entertainment, laughter, and thoughtful musings that you won’t want to miss. Cheers to living in the moment and enjoying a cocktail-filled conversation with friends!Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".

Ever wondered how a young drug dealer could transform into a celebrated chef or how an autistic son could find his independence and a job at Disney? Join us as we unravel these and other inspiring stories from the recent Paparazzi Convention Kitty attended. We kick things off with Kitty's impressive jewelry haul and her infectious enthusiasm for all things sparkly, setting a lively and upbeat tone for the episode. From there, we shift gears to the thrill of the Olympics, sharing our newfound passion for sports like fencing and rugby, and paying tribute to Alona Maher, whose fitness journey and social media presence have captivated us.The heart of our episode lies in the compelling stories shared at the convention. Kevin Brown and Chef Jeff take us on emotional journeys through their lives, showcasing the power of resilience, mentorship, and kindness. Kevin’s heartfelt story about his son’s path to independence and Chef Jeff’s incredible transformation from a troubled youth to a kitchen maestro serve as powerful reminders of what can be achieved with determination and support. We emphasize the role of storytelling in motivating others, celebrating personal victories, and fostering a supportive community.Closing on a high note, we bring you the vibrant atmosphere of the recognition gala and the dynamic world of fashion jewelry sales. The gala's inclusive ambiance and attention to detail made every attendee feel special, while the latest trends in jewelry sales showcased how consultants stay ahead of the curve. We capture the exhilarating energy of our journey to success, the joy of celebrating achievements with friends, and the unstoppable drive that propels us forward. Tune in for a fun, inspiring, and energetic episode that promises to leave you motivated and ready to shine!Make sure to subscribe to our channel, comment, like, and share!Amy, Kitty & StaceyP.S. Isn't our intro music great?! Yah, we think so too. Thank you, Ivy States for "I Got That Wow".