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3ALove

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Step into the world of queer black couple Kris and Bree, as they take you on a journey of navigating life through a society that doesn’t always acknowledge their existence. Here, they'll talk about all the aspects of their relationship and how they overcome the bad, while celebrating the good, and have a lot of fun while doing it. This podcast centers black AND queer people first and foremost. Representation is important, and it’s important that we become an example of healthy queer love in the media. The black ass, queer ass, real ass (3A) love podcast if you will.

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Episodes

  1. That's Gay: Unpacking Homophobia

    The wait is ova! Kris and Bree are back at it again with the much needed analysis of homophobia in and outside of our community. We interviewed our friends Jessie from Soul and Seoul podcast, and Darius from a dab of life podcast to get their experiences with homophobia, and their perspective on...

  2. Bi Bi Bi: Exploring Biphobia

    Bree and Kris are back at it again with an episode on biphobia, featuring their friends, Lex and Erica. This episode dives into what biphobia is, where it stems from, and how it affects our community as a whole. Lex and Erica can be found on instagram: @lexii_loovee and @ericabaduyou_ Follow...

  3. Sushi Rolls, Not Gender Roles

    Fat rolls, sushi rolls, cinnamon rolls, Hawaiian rolls, tootsie rolls, role models; what do these roles/rolls have in common? They're all better than gender roles. In this episode, Bree and Kris explore what it means to live in a relationship with no gender roles. Well, as much as they can.

  4. Toxic Monogamy: Cheaters Gon' Cheat

    As much as society will push the "I own my partner" narrative, we're here to call out the BS. We think this is the first episode where Kris didn't sing and only made one song reference. Is this toxic monogamy?

  5. Exes are Good for Some Things

    In this episode Kris and Bree show appreciation to the exes in their lives. Wild right? They also recount some terrible ex experiences (we all have them). Enjoy the episode, and then after hit us up on our socials so we can trauma bond together

  6. Thoughts and Ciara Prayers

    Since February is the unofficial official month of black love, Bree and Kris delve deep into their backgrounds prior to writing their Ciara prayers, and meeting each other. Turns out, there is love after lockdown.

  7. The Sex We Like: Finale of the Series "Pillars of Our Relationship"

    CW: mentions of sex acts, BDSM and self harm Part two of Kris and Bree's sex episode where they explore what kind of sex Kris and Bree are into and give explicit details of their sex life. Who likes getting spanked? What the f*ck is edging? Tune in to find out.

  8. Let's Talk About...Consent Baby! and sex!

    TW: sexual assault, rape We're starting off Part 1 of our final sex episode with consent, which literally makes sex possible. In this episode, we'll talk about the first time we had sex, and things that we still ask consent for (to this day). Stay tuned for part 2!

  9. How We Keep Our Spark: Dating Adventures

    Kris and Bree spend this episode talking about the importance of dating your partner, in addition to giving us some tips and tricks to use in our own dating lives. Special shoutout to the restaurant Grace in Fort Worth, Texas. Hope they are doing well in this pandemic. They are not being paid by...

  10. Compatibility: The Fire

    In the final pilar of their relationship, sex, Bree and Kris explore their compatibility, or the meat and potatoes of their relationship. They take several quizes and tests to see exactly how compatible they are, and invite their audience to do the same. TW: mentions of suicide, violence...

  11. Individuality: Become One but Still Remain You

    In the final episode of the support segment of the Pillars of our Relationship series, Bree and Kris explore what it means to maintain their individuality while in a relationship. They spend some time talking about co-dependency, and what that looks like, and how they are slowly morphing into…

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  12. We Love to See You Self-care

    In the second episode of the support series, Bree and self-care queen Kris explore what self-care is, and how to recognize when we need it. They talk about some of the things they do for self-care, and why you should say f**k that job. Taking care of yourself means you can support your partner...

  13. The Second Pillar of Our Relationship: Supporting an Anxious Partner

    The second part of this series kicks off! Kris and Bree decided to start this pillar off with something just as valuable as communication: Support. One of the major ways they show support to each other is to trust the other person to help them through their issues. In this shorter than usual...

  14. Why Do We Have to Break So Many Generational Curses?

    TW: Sexual Assault....Kris and Bree end the communication segment with childhood trauma, and how that shaped their communication styles. Bree has a phone conversation with her mom about her expectations when she was a new mother, and Kris gets real about her relationship with her mom, and what…

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  15. Friends: Whodini Was Onto Something

    TW: abortion Whodini posed the question “Friends, how many of us have them?” back in 1984, and Bree and Kris are still asking the question in 2020. They spend a little under an hour diving deep into the significance of communicating in friendship, its relation to romantic relationships, and its...

  16. Communication: The First Pillar of Our Relationship

    Bree and Kris explore the term “communication is key” in part 1 of the “Pillars of Our Relationship” series. This 8 week long series features episodes about the 3 foundational aspects of their relationship: Communication, Support, and Sex. How do they maintain their black ass, queer ass, real ass...

  17. "this is for the baby gays"

    Being young and trying to figure yourself out is hard enough. Being young and queer with no one to show you the ropes? The struggle is real. In this episode, we will share our “coming out” stories, and give some guidance to the baby gays (even though we know some of y’all are going to learn the...

  18. Intersections: Not just for the streets

    “When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak.” – Audre Lorde And that’s exactly what we’ve decided to do- speak, as unapologetic queer black women. Before we can tell you about our relationship, or give...

  19. Hey, Whats up?

    In this 'too long to be a trailer' episode, you'll be introduced to your hosts, Kris and Bree, and their vibe, while learning more about the content of this podcast. You'll learn what 3ALove means. You'll also find out who the ratchet significant other is (no surprises there), and get to know…

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Step into the world of queer black couple Kris and Bree, as they take you on a journey of navigating life through a society that doesn’t always acknowledge their existence. Here, they'll talk about all the aspects of their relationship and how they overcome the bad, while celebrating the good, and have a lot of fun while doing it. This podcast centers black AND queer people first and foremost. Representation is important, and it’s important that we become an example of healthy queer love in the media. The black ass, queer ass, real ass (3A) love podcast if you will.

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Step into the world of queer black couple Kris and Bree, as they take you on a journey of navigating life through a society that doesn’t always acknowledge their existence. Here, they'll talk about all the aspects of their relationship and how they overcome the bad, while celebrating the good, and...

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