4OURPLAY - A Swinger Podcast
by Bella & Jase - Millennial Swingers
Join the journey, experiences, and sexual adventures of two high school sweethearts navigating through the swinging lifestyle as millennials. Bella and Jase share their stories and conversations in a fun and candid way, making you feel like you've been friends for years. Come along for the ride. Let's play!
Episodes
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Ep 174 - A New Year's To Remember (O*gy)
In Episode 174 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share a storytime from a memorable New Year’s weekend with amazing friends! Make sure to listen along to hear all the details from a spicy night! Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s obsession of the week: Sienna Spiro Bella’s obsession…
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Ep 172- Converting Vanillas, Unequal Play Styles & More - Your Controversial Swinger Hot Takes
In Episode 172 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase react to listeners' hot takes. They discuss opinions on topics like converting vanillas, unequal playstyles, and more. Listen along as they dive into these controversial hot takes to see whether they agree or disagree! Submit your hot...
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Ep 171 - How to Prepare For A Swinger Club | What You Need to Know
In Episode 171 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share what you need to know before attending a swinger club. From what to wear and the conversations you should have beforehand to the best time to arrive and more, they'll walk you through how to prepare for a fun, confident, and...
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Ep 170 - Swinger Families, Naughty Neighbors & More - Your Juicy Confessions & Storytimes!
In Episode 170 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase react to listener submissions. They share listeners’ stories about a swinger neighbors, families of swingers & more. Listen along as they dive into juicy listener confessions you won’t want to miss! Submit your stories here: Mentioned...
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Ep 169 - 5 Swinger Hacks We Wish We Learned Earlier
In Episode 169 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share 5 swinger hacks they wish they had learned earlier in their lifestyle journey. From check-in signals with your partner to tips for talking to new people and more, they cover simple ideas that can make a big difference. Listen...
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Ep 168 - An Instant Spark (MFFM)
In Episode 168 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share a spicy story time from an amazing night with new friends on a spicy cruise! Make sure to listen along to hear all the details from a night with an instant spark! Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s song of the week: Two Hearts by...
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Ep 167 - Bliss Cruise Vs Temptation Cruise Comparison Review (2026)
In Episode 167 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase talk about Bliss Cruise vs. Temptation Cruise! They compare both cruises, from the parties and food to the playrooms and everything in between, to help you decide which lifestyle friendly cruise is best for you! Mentioned in this...
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Ep 166 - Our First Swinger Threesome: What We Loved & Would Do Differently (First Time Files #3)
In Episode 166 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase reminisce about their very first full threesome. They relive one of their first lifestyle experiences from over a decade ago! Mentioned in this episode: Our first threesome podcast Jase’s obsession of the week: Ready Or Not 2 Jase's...
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Ep 165 - Bella Finally Got Air Tight!
In Episode 165 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share a spicy story time from an unforgettable night! They relive all the details from a night when one of Bella's biggest fantasies came true! Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s obsession of the week: The Layover Jase’s Album of week:...
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Ep 164 - Swinger World vs Vanilla World: The Differences Might Surprise You
In Episode 164 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase dive into the biggest differences between the swinger world and the vanilla world. From consent and getting tested to making friends and more, they break down how the lifestyle can operate very differently from traditional…
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Ep 163 - Bliss Cruise April 2026 Highlights
In Episode 163 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share some of their favorite highlights and memories from the Bliss Swinger Cruise in April 2026! Mentioned in this episode: Book your next cruise here Book your next lifestyle vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Jase’s song of the...
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Ep 162 - Bliss Cruise April 2026 Full Honest Review (Swinger Cruise Review)
In Episode 162 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share everything you need to know about Bliss Cruise April 2026. They discuss the parties, food, seminars, themes, and more! Mentioned in this episode: Book your next cruise here Book your next lifestyle vacation with us:...
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Ep 161 - "Have You Seen This Couple?" (MFFM)
In Episode 161 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share a spicy story time from Naughty N’awlins 2025. They reminisce about an incredible night at a swinger convention. Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s obsession of the week: Maintenance Required Jase’s Album of week: Messy by Olivia...
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Ep 160 - Temptation Cruise March 2026 Highlights
In Episode 160 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share some of their favorite highlights and memories from Temptation Cruise March 2026! Mentioned in this episode: Book your next cruise here Book your next lifestyle vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Jase’s song of the week: The...
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Ep 159 - Temptation Grand Cruise March 2026 Full Honest Review (Spicy Cruise Review)
In Episode 159 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share everything you need to know about Temptation Grand Cruise March 2026. They discuss the parties, food, seminars, themes, and more! There were multiple changes to this sailing, so listen along to hear all the details! Mentioned in...
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Ep 158 - Spicy Cruise Door Decorations: Tips, Tricks, & Ideas | Swinger Cruise Door Decor
In Episode 158 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share everything about spicy cruise door decorations! From how they decorate their own door to ideas they’ve seen from others, they go over a variety of fun and creative options. Make sure to listen along to get ideas for decorating...
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Ep 157 - S*xual Awakenings We Had in the Swinging Lifestyle
In Episode 157 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share the unexpected awakenings they’ve experienced throughout their lifestyle journey, and the surprising things they didn’t know they’d enjoy. Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s obsession of the week: Solo Mio Bella’s obsession of…
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Ep 156 - A Naughty Night (O*gy)
In Episode 156 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share a spicy story time from Naughty N’awlins 2025. They reminisce about an unforgettable night with friends! Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s obsession of the week: 28 Years Later Bone Temple Where else to find us: Website:...
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Ep 155 - Bliss Cruise Comparison: Feb vs April vs Nov | Best Spicy Cruise Sailing For You?
In Episode 155 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share everything you need to know about Bliss Cruise. They compare the February, April, and November cruises and discuss the lengths, demographics, parties, ports, and everything in between. Make sure to listen along to help you…
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Ep 154 - Bliss Cruise February 2026 Highlights
In Episode 154 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share some of their favorite highlights and memories from the Bliss Swinger Cruise in February 2026! Mentioned in this episode: Book your next cruise here Book your next lifestyle vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Jase’s song of…
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Ep 153 - Bliss Cruise February 2026 Full Honest Review (Swinger Cruise Review)
In Episode 153 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share everything you need to know about Bliss Cruise February 2026. They discuss the parties, food, seminars, themes, and more! This was the inaugural February sailing and there were multiple changes to this sailing, so listen along…
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Ep 152 - Our First Swinger Full Swap: What We Loved & Would Do Differently (First Time Files #2)
In Episode 152 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase reminisce about their very first full swap. They share the memories from a wild trip to Vegas and reflect on what they would have done differently, as well as what they loved! Our First Full Swap Story Time Podcast Mentioned in this...
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Ep 151 - A Change Of Scenery (MFFM)
In Episode 151 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share a spicy story time with new friends. Unlike most of their lifestyle experiences, this one happened at home rather than while traveling. They break down how it came together and why it was so memorable. Mentioned in this episode:...
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Ep 150 - Friendships First, Play Second: What Changed Everything for Us in the Swinging Lifestyle
In Episode 150 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share how their lifestyle journey has evolved over the years. They talk about the lessons they’ve learned along the way and why shifting their focus to friendships first has made their experience more meaningful, connecting, and...
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Ep 149 - The Most Frequently Asked Swinger Lifestyle Questions No One Really Talks About
In Episode 149 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase dive into the most common swinger lifestyle questions that no one really talks about. From that time of the month to protection during play and more, listen along as they break down the questions people regularly ask but rarely hear...
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Ep 148 - Everything You Need To Know About Spicy Cruises: How to Prepare For Your First Swinger Cruise | Spicy Cruise Guide
In Episode 148 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share everything you need to know before attending your very first spicy cruise. They cover tips and insights for Bliss, Temptation, and Desire Cruises, from parties and packing, to food, expectations, and everything in between. Be…
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Ep 147 - All Hands On Deck (O*gy)
In Episode 147 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share a story from Bliss Cruise, reminiscing about a memorable o*gy at sea with a group of amazing friends. Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s obsession of the week: Mario Party Superstars Bella’s obsession of the week: No Broke Boys…
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Ep 146 - Our 2025 Swinger Wrapped | Tier List: Swinger Vacations, Experiences, and More
In Episode 146 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase reveal their 2025 Swinger Wrapped. They cover lifestyle vacations, new experiences, favorite moments, and everything that made 2025 unforgettable! Mentioned in this episode: Book your next cruise here Book your next lifestyle vacation...
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Ep 145 - Temptation Grand Cruise November 2025 Highlights
In Episode 145 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share some of their favorite highlights and memories from Temptation Grand Cruise in November 2025! Mentioned in this episode: Book your next cruise here Book your next lifestyle vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Jase’s album of…
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Ep 144 - Temptation Grand Cruise November 2025 Full Honest Review (Spicy Cruise Review)
In Episode 144 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share everything you need to know about Temptation Grand Cruise in November 2025. They discuss the parties, food, seminars, themes, and more! There were multiple changes to this sailing, so listen along to hear all the details!...
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Ep 143 - Bliss Cruise November 2025 Highlights
In Episode 143 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share some of their favorite highlights and memories from the Bliss Swinger Cruise in November 2025! Mentioned in this episode: Book your next cruise here Book your next lifestyle vacation with us: 4ourplay.com/travel Jase’s obsession...
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Ep 142 - Our Swinger Bucket List
In Episode 142 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase talk about their swinger bucket list! From positions to places and everything in between, listen along as they dive into a list that’s been growing for years. Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s album of the week: Midnight Sun by Zara...
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Ep 141 - Bliss Cruise November 2025 Full Honest Review (Swinger Cruise Review)
In Episode 141 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share everything you need to know about the Bliss Cruise in November 2025. They discuss the parties, food, seminars, themes, and more! There were multiple changes to this sailing, so watch along to hear all the details! Mentioned in...
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Ep 140 - Bella Squ*rted For The First Time!
In Episode 140 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share a story from Bliss Cruise. They talk about a truly unforgettable night where Bella squ*rted for the first time. Mentioned in this episode: Bella’s obsession of the week: Wicked Where else to find us: Website…
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Ep 139 - What Swinger Playrooms Are Really Like?
In Episode 139 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase pull back the curtain on what swinger playrooms are really like! From what to wear to how the spaces are designed and what to expect, they cover all the details. Watch along and get ready to walk into your first swinger playroom with...
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Ep 138 - Our Controversial Swinger Hot Takes - Part 2
In Episode 138 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share their controversial swinger hot takes. They discuss lifestyle music, swinger labels, food, and more! Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s obsession of the week: Masterchef Duos Bella’s Song Of The Week: Nails Where else to find us:...
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Ep 137 - 5 More Things Everyone Gets Wrong About Swingers: Swinger Myths & Misconceptions Part 2
In Episode 137 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase dive into 5 more common swinger myths and misconceptions. They unpack everything from lifestyle stereotypes to relationship myths, sharing real insights from their own experiences! This is part 2 of this series! Listen to part 1 here!...
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Ep 136 - BINGO! (MFFM)
In Episode 136 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase tell a story from Temptation Cruise! They share about an unforgettable night and swinger bingo! Book Your Next Cruise With Us Book Your Next Lifestyle Vacation Previous Story Time Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s song of the week:...
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Ep 135 - What We Wish We Knew Before Swinging: 5 Game-Changing Lessons
In Episode 135 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share five things they wish they’d started earlier in their swinging lifestyle journey. Listen along as they talk about changing play dynamics, embracing lifestyle vacations, and more! Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s obsession of…
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Ep 134 - Swinger Neighbors, Grand Slams & More - Your Juicy Confessions & Storytimes!
In Episode 134 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase react to listener submissions. They share listeners’ stories about a swinger cul-de-sac, grand slams, and new fantasies. Listen along as they dive into juicy listener confessions you won’t believe! Submit your stories here: Mentioned…
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Ep 133 - 5 Things Everyone Gets Wrong About Swingers: Swinger Myths & Misconceptions Part 1
In Episode 133 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase dive into 5 common swinger myths and misconceptions. They unpack everything from lifestyle stereotypes to relationship myths, sharing real insights from their own experiences! Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s obsession of the week…
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Ep 132 - First Swingers Club Experience: What We Loved & Would Do Differently (First Time Files #1)
In Episode 132 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase reminisce about their very first experience at a swingers club. They share the wild stories from an unforgettable night, reflect on what they would have done differently as well as what they loved, and reveal how the club experience…
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Ep 131 - Naughty N'awlins 2025 Full Honest Review
In Episode 131 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share everything you need to know about Naughty N’awlins 2025. They discuss the parties, hotels, seminars, themes, and more! Mentioned in this episode: Book Naughty N’awlins 2026 with us: 4ourplay.com/nawlins Book your next lifestyle...
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Ep 130 - Naughty N'awlins 2025 Highlights
In Episode 130 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share some of their favorite highlights and memories from Naughty N’awlins 2025! They reminisce about the spicy nights, the funny memories, and everything in between! Mentioned in this episode: Book Naughty N’awlins 2026 with us: Book...
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Ep 129 - A Night With New And Old Friends Alike (O*gy)
In Episode 129 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share a story from Temptation Cruise! They relive a memorable night with old friends and new friends alike! Book Your Next Cruise With Us Book Your Next Lifestyle Vacation Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s song of the week: Polo by…
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Ep 128 - Swinging Lifestyle Terms - Most Commonly Used Words And Definitions For Newbies
In episode 128 of the 4OURPLAY Podcast, Bella and Jase go over the most commonly used words and definitions in the swinging lifestyle! Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s song of the week: Family Business by Lawerence The Band Jase’s obsession of the week: Echo Valley Bella’s obsesion of the week:...
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Ep 127 - Buk*ake, Str*p-Ons & Bedroom Blunders - Your Juicy Confessions & Storytimes!
In Episode 127 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase react to listener submissions. They share listeners’ stories about buk*ake fantasies, first-time str*p-on experiences, and bedroom blunders. Mentioned in this episode: Jase’s song of the week: Manchild by Sabrina Carpenter Jase's...
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Ep 126 - Sensationalized & Stigmatized: The Harsh Reality Of Swinging In Mainstream Media
In episode 126 of the 4OURPLAY Podcast, Bella and Jase dive into how swinging is portrayed in mainstream media: from headlines and court cases to TV shows and books. Are these portrayals helping or hurting the lifestyle? They unpack the sensationalism and what representation really means for the...
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Ep 125 - Sexy Energy Isn’t Constant - And That’s Okay In The Swinging Lifestyle
In episode 125 of the 4OURPLAY Podcast, Bella and Jase talk about what it’s like to not always feel sexy in a lifestyle environment and why that’s completely normal. They touch on how their dynamic has changed over the years and how finding what works best for them has made all the difference!...
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Ep 124 - A Delightful Surprise (O*gy)
In Episode 124 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase share a story from Bliss Cruise! They share a story about a fun filled night that ended with an extremely unexpected experience in their cabin with friends! Book Your Next Cruise With Us Book Your Next Lifestyle Vacation Mentioned in...
About this show
Join the journey, experiences, and sexual adventures of two high school sweethearts navigating through the swinging lifestyle as millennials. Bella and Jase share their stories and conversations in a fun and candid way, making you feel like you've been friends for years. Come along for the ride. Let's play!
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Bella & Jase - Millennial Swingers