50shadesofsingle

Episodes

1. 15

   Episode 15 - BB RAW

   What is BB or Raw sex. Is it safe and how can you be safe. What feels good and what is not worth the risk. Let me take you on my bareback journey and answer your curiosities. Tell me your experiences and thoughts. Happy sexing! V

   Jan 10, 2023

   11m
2. 14

   Episode 14 - Delhi gays

   Now we all know there’s a social pecking order in the ton but how does it differ with the Delhi gays especially from the mainstream gay culture of the universe. Is it tops and bottoms or is it more complex than that or is it just frigid and a bit of hot air. Let’s explore further and I’d love to...

   Dec 13, 2022

   6m
3. 13

   Episode 13 - HIV and STIs

   Health is wealth and surely not everyone is promiscuous but everyone must enjoy sex surely and believes in a healthy sex life. With that territory comes the nasties and I want you to champion testing and talking openly about infections as we easily talk about having the viral. It’s time and yes...

   Dec 5, 2022

   6m
4. 12

   Episode 12 - 19cms Top

   What is considered as a big cock? Do you think you qualify for big or are you obsessed with big? Am I big and am I big everywhere or does it change. How big does it need to be to be considered a Top and if not then what. Can you actually tell how big is someone? Let’s explore the journey and...

   Nov 19, 2022

   8m
5. 11

   Episode 11 - Sexual Assault

   What is it to be assaulted and does it always have to be physical or violent? What is your history or assault and where does it stem from. If you were or ever are in that situation what would you do? @50shadesofsingle Instagram.com/50shadesofsingl Also on podcasts

   Nov 7, 2022

   11m
6. 10

   Episode 10 - Gay family Diwali

   How was a hetero Punjabi Diwali for you growing up and what’s your earliest memory? How do we relate to it today especially the ones who live away from India. And how does it feel coming back into it year after year. And when do you start owning it and make it your own gay Diwali. Let’s unpack…

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   Oct 22, 2022

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7. 9

   Episode 9 - First love

   What would you say your first love is? A man, a hobby, a book, a pet, a parent? First love in my opinion stays with you for your life and doesn’t judge you and keep you afloat. Are you bothered by what people have said about being feminine or masculine or not doing your heteronormative part.. and...

   Oct 11, 2022

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8. 8

   Episode 8 - Sexual Racism Australia

   Watching Dahmer on Netflix brought a lot to the surface especially in relation to sexual racism as a POC having lived in Australia and Germany. Do you relate to it and did it also trigger something for you. Is it relevant in Asian society especially in India? Would love to hear your experiences…

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   Oct 5, 2022

   13m
9. 7

   Episode 7 - Vanity

   Mirror mirror on the wall. What‘s important to your vanity and how far does it define you? Is it ok to get surgeries to enhance or upkeep or we must yearn to be beyond vanity and be true yogis looking for inner beauty. Watch my journey and where I stand on it for it and by it. Be proud be you and...

   Sep 26, 2022

   7m
10. 6

    Episode 6 - Monogamy

    What is monogamy and what does it mean for you? Are we monogamous by default or is it a choice. Let’s explore and dissect the insecurities and homosexuality differentiations. Do you agree with my opinion or it’s a hard line for you? Sex and sexuality Varun Singal

    Sep 18, 2022

    13m
11. 5

    Episode 5 - Poppers

    Do you know what are poppers? I’m sure you have heard of them and being new to them also means I wanna share with you live what it feels like. How do you use them and doesn’t it matter whether you’re a top or bottom? I wanna also hear your experience and concerns. Write to me on any platform with...

    Sep 13, 2022

    5m
12. 4

    Episode 4 - First sex

    Now we’ve all gawked at speedos and cock outlines growing up and did we have access to men around us? Here I talk about what it was like for me for, the first contact to losing my virginity to sex roles as default. What was it like for you growing up as a gay desi in india and abroad and did you...

    Sep 8, 2022

    14m
13. 3

    Episode 3 - Family

    Queer people get to choose their own families or are they forced to. When it comes to families what is family and what strings are attached for tolerating your presence especially in Desi families. Do you agree with my views or how far are you willing to get accepted. Does it come with respect?…

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    Sep 4, 2022

    7m
14. 2

    Episode 2 - Section 377 & beyond

    How was it like for you to grow not only being socially outcast but also illegal for loving and fucking who you want. I talk about my experience here from being caught by the police as a teenager to coming back to Indian from exile in Australia to make a difference through Simply Yoga - India’s...

    Aug 30, 2022

    8m
15. 1

    Episode 1 - Slut

    What does it mean to be a slut and when was the first time you heard that word? Would you be offended if someone called you a slut or would you take it as a compliment? In India where Moral compasses are hypocritical and constantly shifting how does one own their sexual freedom?

    Aug 29, 2022

    3m
16. 2

    Episode 0 - Who's she?!

    What is it about? Why do it? Whom is it for? What do we talk about? A little goes a long way.. believe me I’m not a size queen so here we start the journey and I want you right here next to me on it. Tell me what you wanna talk about. What is important to you wherever you are as my fellow desi…

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    Aug 29, 2022

    7m
17. 1

    She's back!

    It’s all happening raw and uncut and let’s talk about sex and all the things about you and me. Let’s talk about all the bad things and the good things that may be.

    Aug 29, 2022

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